This guy and I dated long time ago; after so much drama we talked to each other again
he says he does not take me seriously because I repeat too much yes I have done that a lot because when I ask he ignores what matteres he answers whatever is only convenient for him and is cruely indifferent and it is worse than hatting you at times that attitude of "pride"
He has been rude and offensive; I have been rude and at times offensive; he calls that at times to be honest I call it truth too but with rudeness and offense no matter how true I can be on my side too
He keeps on doing certain things like before that got me to not want to see him many time that hurt him but now he has said to forget it all offenses and almost that we dated; he can see me like nothing act like nothing happened even when I have been rude
He does things but does not want me to say anything at all; to just keep quiet and act iike nothing is like shutting your feelings no matter what
What to say how?
2007-01-25 18:38:17 · 7 answers · asked by Pandora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
~If this is serious, and you want to be taken seriously, give it up.
Are you really asking whether or not to get back together with this guy? If so, read your posting. If that doesn't answer the question for you, nothing I can say will.
If the attitude in you question is typical of your general tone and content, don't expect to be in any meaningful relationship for any length of time.
On the basis of this posting, my best advice is that you grow up, stop expecting the world to revolve around you and/or consider a personality transplant. Hey, I'm sorry but you asked.
2007-01-25 18:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by Oscar Himpflewitz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all I don't think you can make this particular person take you serious (sorry) you both have too much bad history between you. I say move on. But for future reference Too be taken serious you must mean what you say and commit. So if you say starting tomorrow I'm going to do xxxx Also men never take us serious if we come at them with our emotions. I had to learn that the hard way. I find its best to wait until I feel calm and know I will have his full attention. Also men don't take us serious if we complain about everything so pick you're battles and they'll take your complaints more seriously. I've learned to accept some as his less appealing traits as endearing... no body's perfect.
2007-01-26 02:57:33 · answer #2 · answered by firecracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is too short to waste it on people that make you feel bad. Always use this as a measure of who you want to be friends with or even just share time with: How do you feel about yourself when you are around this person? If you feel bad, cut them loose and free yourself to find someone you can enjoy being around. Save your energies to be positive and you will enjoy living so much more! No one is worth making yourself miserable over. It is YOUR LIFE. Choose to pick people worthy of you!
2007-01-26 02:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, I like to use the "crazy eye" It's like, "yeah, you dunno what I'm gonna do, cause I'm crazy" but that usually doesn't work, nor does strangulation. I dunno what to tell you, I am in a similar situation I suppose. Like I can say something, and get accused of lying. When I prove my case, he is relentless that he is right and I am wrong and I am doing awful things to spite him...men suck!
2007-01-26 02:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone else. this is hopeless. there are so many other people out there that its not worth it to go in circles with this moron. he already has his ideas about you and you can't change them.
2007-01-26 02:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choke him or kill someone in his family
2007-01-26 02:44:11 · answer #6 · answered by t_200774 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dad's watching sanford and son right now.
2007-01-26 02:43:09 · answer #7 · answered by I REALLY want an answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋