Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and i love him to death. But his mom hates me. Last night he gave his mom an atittude and she called me blaming me for it. I don't know what to do cuz almost everything he does i get blamed for. wat do i do? do i talk to his mom, talk to him, or just break up with him? i cry myself to sleep almost everynight and i really cant deal with this anymore. i need some help pleaz

2007-01-22 02:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by ~kAyLa-BaBy~ 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been in a fantastic relationship with a wonderful man whom i love very much for 18 months, everyday is special and we never fight but although seperated for 2 years he's still married. i want to ask about it but don't want to rock the boat, i am right to want him to get a divorce? would i be wrong to suggest it.

2007-01-22 02:53:26 · 13 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I married about a year ago and are still trying to blend my 2 kids, her daughter and deal with in laws and ex. wife. Needless to say it’s been very tough. We started out very strong and it’s been going down hill with the difficulties and how tough we didn’t realize it would be. I would hate to throw in the towel after all we’ve gone through and built for the kids that have already experienced pain, loss, and suffering. Our problem center around a few things and a big one is that we tend to gravitate back to me and my kids and her and her child when we argue. It’s like the safety net. Is that normal? Also she has a problem with my daughter because she is like my ex. wife and she doesn’t like her. I have a problem with her daughter because she has been an only child and loves it when her mom fights with me because she gets all the attention. Personally even though my wife doesn’t think so, I think my stepdaughter is an attention hound and viscous to my daughter because she’s been an only child. It’s just very difficult and I would hate to divorce and just need some encouragement from folks who have blended families. I need some encouragement that things will get better in time as we figure things out. The first year of marriage is tough not considering marrying into already made families with problems. Our arguing has created hurt feelings and our children have built up some resentment. I feel like giving up sometimes and starting over but deep down I know I have to make this marriage work. Love doesn’t come easy and I do know that we still love each other even though we are battle weary.

2007-01-22 02:51:55 · 8 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this guy(Cody)& i have a *HUGE* crush on him & my best freinds Haley & Samantha say that he ALWAYS stares @ me & smiles at me & he flirts with me too...he is on my older bro's hockey team & my bro even sees him staring @ me (yes my bro knows i like him) & he hits guys really hard on the ice & usually after EVERY hit when he comes back to the bench he looks @ me & then i smile @ him & he smiles back @ me.....he knows my best friend Haley but he doesn't know my friend samantha AT ALL & she went & asked him if he liked me & she said"hi!!" & he was like "um...hi..." & she said "hey do u like katelyn?"he said "Um....how old is she?" & she said "13" and he was like "um sorry she is 2 young for me"--he is 15 & i will be 14 on Feb 10th! She said she "FORGOT" to tell him that but she was being mean to me b4 she asked him!I haven't seen him since she asked but do u think I should go up to him & ask him if he likes me by myself & act like i didn't know she asked him?wut would u do?

2007-01-22 02:51:47 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really wants to be with me. any advice for me

2007-01-22 02:51:39 · 13 answers · asked by cassie s 1 in Singles & Dating

when you meet someone at a party for the first time, is it possible to get to know that person so well that you end up getting their email address or phone number at the end? if so, how do you do this?

2007-01-22 02:51:35 · 11 answers · asked by starbucksluvrxoxo 3 in Friends

2007-01-22 02:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so i think I'm in love with my best friend... We dated last summer and i was a total ***** the whole time. I dont know why, i treated him like crap! We broke up because I knew he deserved better. Well now 5 months later i can't stop thinking about it. I feel so bad about how i treated him (he's fine, not mad were still great friends), but i have this huge feeling of regret for not giving it 100%. I told him this last night, and he basically said that i'm not what he wants in a girl, but i know that I am he just has a destorted view of me as a girlfriend because of how i treated him. Is there a way I can show him what I'm really like and that I can be the girl he deserves or should i just let it go and move on...?

2007-01-22 02:51:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

John was upset I gave him a xmas present. Give me a break! Then he turns around and gets me one, which has no meaning to me. I was being me. That's what I do. I bought him a V day present. If he gets upset. Oh well. (we have been dating for one year)

2007-01-22 02:51:07 · 8 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by asia t 1 in Singles & Dating

I think it's the first thing he thinks of when he wakes up.. is playing X box live, and I am so tired of seeing and hearing Gears of war!!!!!!!! have any wives broken their husbands of this annoying video game addiction??? Help, I'm about to pull out my hair!We've only been married 8 months and he was in Iraq for 6 of them, what is his problem?????

2007-01-22 02:49:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:49:29 · 8 answers · asked by ngozi e 1 in Singles & Dating

well i want to dump my boyfriend but im afraid we wont become friends should i take the risk yes or no

2007-01-22 02:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by bonita_puertorico_chica16 1 in Singles & Dating

I just have a quick question about child support. If a man or a woman sign their rights off are they still held responsible for paying child support. My family has been arguing about this for a week, lol. Thanks

2007-01-22 02:48:38 · 6 answers · asked by darknessblast 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i dont even know where he is or anything, because we lived like walking distance in jamaica and now he could be anywhere in England and i dont know where to start.

2007-01-22 02:47:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in my experiance girls with brown hair are a better ride so why do blonds get all the credit

2007-01-22 02:47:33 · 23 answers · asked by Mr E 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:47:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the hospital i was pregnant for him. he told me that he was with his other babymommy all i could do is cry why do i deserve this i am heartbroken crying a lot i just lost my baby after what i been through

2007-01-22 02:47:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:47:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We've got on well since then and were flirting too. We've agreed to have sex once and see what happens. As much as we both want to do this, as it gets closer to it I'm worried that he won't respect me any more. Has anybody been in a similar situation and what would you advise? I would rather forget about doing this even if I lose him altogether than do it and lose his respect? Will he understand if I say I don't want to do it because I don't want him to think less of me - it's not like a one-night stand or anything because I care what this man thinks about me. We were together for a long time and have both had long-term relationships before but with my exes we have always had a clearcut finish, this situation is new to me. Please help.

2007-01-22 02:46:56 · 13 answers · asked by mishmash 3 in Singles & Dating

i am over my crush, but 4 some reason i still think about him, i listen to all these songs that remind me of him, i feel bad everytime i think that he doesn't like me. how do i stop thinking aobut him!??

2007-01-22 02:46:46 · 17 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Singles & Dating

If a person is looking for a girl is it important that the girl should be beautiful for the whole world or is it enought that the person who is marrying should find her beautiful?? if parents make a big fuss about that how to make them understand

2007-01-22 02:46:37 · 8 answers · asked by gem_gopi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:45:23 · 3 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Singles & Dating

I bought a white prom dress from Dillards to wear as my wedding dress. I keep wishing that I had splurged and bought a more expensive "real" wedding dress. I don't have a lot of money for my wedding and it's going to be in my home anyway. Do you thing I should go ahead and buy the real thing or just try to be happy with what I have?

2007-01-22 02:44:49 · 35 answers · asked by orangeflameninja 4 in Weddings

(I am speaking of legal age adults) No wisecracks please!

2007-01-22 02:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My neighbor become a close friend to me when I was breaking up with my exboyfriend. I was living with my boyfriend at the time and my neighbor became my quick get-away where I could go & vent. It's been 5 months since my breakup and my neighbor keeps bringing up my ex. She always wants to talk bad about him while I don't want to discuss him at all. My ex & I still talk a little and he occasionally stops by to drop something off or pick something up. When my neighbor sees this, she immediately calls me to find out what's going on. Then she always starts going off about what a big jerk he is, even if he's being nice to me. I don't want to tell off my neighbor because I live by myself & it's nice to know there's someone close by looking out for me in case there is a real emergency. So, how do I politely get her to stop doing this?

2007-01-22 02:42:57 · 3 answers · asked by ☆skyblue 7 in Friends

If a guy looks really good and hes married would it be alright to have someone on the side for plesure and nothing serious would it be ok?

2007-01-22 02:42:57 · 19 answers · asked by morena 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys feel bad when a girl cries??
I was at a gymnastics meet and I broke my ankle. My b/f ended up carrying me to the trainer, but he felt bad b/c I was crying.
Why do guys hate to see girls cry??

2007-01-22 02:42:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still don't understand why black guys like white girls so much i mean sure i'm white and my bf black but want to know other than looks and personality whats make a girl or guy interested in an opposite race? just interested please don't take offense i'm just curious

2007-01-22 02:42:21 · 5 answers · asked by web gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

So nice ppl

2007-01-22 02:42:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating