2007-01-22 02:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Divorce him.
2007-01-22 02:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by MЯ BAIT™ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Let him feel at ease and not pressured about penetrating you. Allow him to be in control and don't rush him into it. He needs to feel more relaxed and in control or else it's not going to work for both of you. If you haven't already talked to him about it, why not suggest intimacy and plenty of foreplay, but only on his terms, and timing! If he is also willing, introduce a male sex toy such as an artificial vagina or even a penis pump which both of you could explore together! Make him feel more sexy than pressured. Allow him to stir you up for penetration, on his mark. You can also pick up some other handy adult novelties together, at your local adult video store such as erection cream, comfortable penis erection rings, etc! Don't be shy about this venture, since it may just be what the doctor ordered for both of you! You will also find the store clerk available and ready to help you with your needs! Good luck!
2007-01-22 03:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by HotInTX 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong there. I just went thru this with a boyfriend who was totally healthy and I think it was something emotional. My advice is to NOT run right to the Viagra. People have come to depend on the chemicals for the quick fix when getting to the cause is a much healthier way to go.
Part of the problem may be revealed in whether he sustains an erection when masturbating. If so, you can bet it's in his head.
Try a medical doc first and make sure all is well in the physical realm. If not, I would suggest you find a good sex therapist and dig around there a bit.
In the meantime, do remember that a man can orgasm without a full erection and he needs that from you. He needs to be loved thru all of this and you need to go on being sexual with him, erection or not. Help him to feel how much you love and care for him and take him to your bed as often as he will go. Any man will tell you that oral sex feels just as good without an erection as with one and that's one way you can continue to make him feel good while you're investigating the causes of his problem. Let him please you with his hands and mouth as well as he needs that kind of success in his life. Remember the fragile male ego and be sure to give him plenty of reasons to love you right now. You don't want to be part of the problem but the reason he will want to find the solution. Gentle thoughts.
2007-01-22 03:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I've heard that if a man ejaculates before sex he can last longer the second time around! Go to Sue Johnson's website for links or you can email her there. She is a sex expert, she is on the Oxygen channel.
2007-01-22 02:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by theresa_whitley_28 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Over time he can learn to do this and he will learn and know how.. They sell books on this subject as well at local adult book stores.... They also sell products that help maintain an erection longer as well like creams and pills. Talk to his doctor as well.
2007-01-22 02:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
are you saying he can't...if he can't, he needs to see a doctor...he should be able to sustain for quite some time at this age...he could have a problem
2007-01-22 02:55:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
he needs to see a doctor and let the doctor examine the problem
2007-01-22 02:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by ... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go see a doctor and the doctor can prescribe meds that will help him out.
2007-01-22 02:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
try fellatio....giving head
2007-01-22 03:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋