Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

my mom has known this guy, Jason, for about 20 years. (mom is 40 and guy is 29) he is like a brother to me. Over the summer i lost interest in guys and im not really sure if i like anybody or not. my friend thinks that im a lesbian and wants me to be straight. he told me that maybe if i force myself to tell a guy that i love him and i want to be with him then i might have like guys. i was really stressed out and started cutting myself and then started smoking. when i got my cell phone, i started texting Jason and telling him everything that has been bothering me. I still dont feel the same towards guys, but i stopped cutting myself and smoking until my parents took my phone away. after reading all the text messages i had sent telling him that i loved him and wanted to be with him, they started flipping out. I'm only 16, and i wouldnt even think about doing anything with him. he's not allowed to come over anymore, and i told my dad everything.....how can i make everything right again???

2007-01-22 03:35:32 · 2 answers · asked by Socastee_Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

Crazy, romantic, passionate, intense or spirtitual?
You are only allowed to pick one!

2007-01-22 03:34:51 · 20 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I ask a question guys say they think my avatar is hot and they ask if I looks that way too.
What is so special about a girl with dark blue eyes and naturally almost black hair??

2007-01-22 03:34:42 · 17 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

I do and i just want to know if guys really like it or not!!

2007-01-22 03:34:37 · 21 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need help. I have been engaged since July of 06 and I have been planning simple things along the way, in November I asked my father ho much he planned on helping out so I could get a better idea of how much to save. He told me he knew that his responsibility as a father was pretty much everything and he would help alot. So we got through the holidays, lot more planning well now it's January and I told him that I need him to help me start paying for the reception/ceremony hall. He told me he really can't pay for alot and he thought I had all of this figured out but he would help a little. What? I am really hurt about this, he completly backed out and left me hanging. I am so stressed now. How do I move on from this and not have hard feelings for my father? Or any good money saving tips? I have already pretty much eliminated the caterer and florist and found a really cheap photographer, any other suggestions? Thanks!

2007-01-22 03:34:34 · 9 answers · asked by Me, again 6 in Weddings

2007-01-22 03:33:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 03:33:26 · 22 answers · asked by badbarry 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend is coming all the way from maryland to sc to see me. He wants me to stay in his hotel which is like 1 hour away from me and I don't want to drive somewhere that is unfamiliar to me to see him. He wants me to stay over but my parents are against that. I am 22 years old and I still live with my parents. I want to stay with him but don't like how he's pushing the issue.
What should i do?

2007-01-22 03:32:00 · 16 answers · asked by Teresa J 1 in Family

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2007-01-22 03:31:42 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi my mum locked me in the house today because she knows I am planning to meet up with someone. She says I can't go unless we go by her rules (she treats me like a 5yr old) anyway I'm 16, in the UK and I can't get out of my house when I have important plans to go out tomorrow. What can I do, I mean is this even legal? Could I get the police to let me out? I can't believe she has done this :( all my plans will be ruined!

2007-01-22 03:31:12 · 22 answers · asked by You Make Me Lol 3 in Family

2007-01-22 03:31:01 · 11 answers · asked by Deamoanicka malice 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm gonna be 18 in a month, but everywhere, esp. where I'm required to shopw my ID, ppl question me. They practically insist that I'm 13 or 14. Freshmen asked me out thinking that I'm in middle school. All through high school, ppl thought i was an underclassman or a bit younger and I'm tired of ppl talking this kinda crap about me. I kno I'm small 4 my age (5' 3.5") so I need them to stop rubbing it in. How do I get them to stop and how do I get myself to look older?

2007-01-22 03:30:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ladies and Gentleman,

Would a good-looking young man, in your opinion, be rendered less so were he possessed of a full (but neatly trimmed) beard?

Thanks!

2007-01-22 03:30:38 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend gets beaten up by her ex, he takes their daughter whenever he feels like it, even in the middle of town. She can't get any help from anyone, not the police or the law in general. No restraining order is allowed. What can she do? It's made me sooooo angry that no-one is interested. She needs help now. She's 18

2007-01-22 03:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Explain what that is or how you do it, im just curious.

2007-01-22 03:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by shanipooh2004 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you please describe, according to you, the most romantic date?

2007-01-22 03:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can they get over that person and how long can it take?

2007-01-22 03:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it normal for the guy to be tired after but for the girl to be wide awake?? Should she want to do it again or will it just piss him off??
He says he is tired until he opens his eyes and sees me there. Why does it go away like that?? Why is he tired when he has his eyes closed but not when his eyes are open??

2007-01-22 03:29:20 · 2 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I are getting an house in two weeks. A nice little 2 bed 1 bath home with a garden and everything. Im 23 Hes 27. Plan on getting engaged by December.
What should I expect moving in with him? Whats it like?
I lived with female roomies since i was 18 so Im not new to buying my own food and making dinner and doing laundry.

What you think?

2007-01-22 03:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this boy has a girlfriennd he dont like me but i like him when he ask me for things like money i alway give it to him and the reason i do that is because i think it will make him like me he dont call me well he only call me when he want sex or money but should i get an abortion and not tell him but i dont have the gut to tell him because im scared!!!!!

2007-01-22 03:28:16 · 15 answers · asked by pretty thing06 1 in Singles & Dating

Without any fear of being caught or any further retribution, given the right circumstances, would you cheat on your spouse?

2007-01-22 03:27:59 · 36 answers · asked by mcs7942 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 03:27:47 · 17 answers · asked by singer.girl29 1 in Friends

I am so tired of reading about men beating their wives to death! For all of you timid women out there, I just need to know.....why do you allow this kind of abuse? You don't deserve this type of treatment! I just got through reading an article about a man beating his wife to death with his bare hands. I also saw another case on the news over the weekend? This kind of ordeal wouldn't even be happening to me. I don't need kick-boxing lessons, I don't need to have a gun, I don't need the police until they come and get me. Because trust me ladies.....All I need is for him to go to sleep while I boil water and then beat his @ss with a hot pot! I'm not trying to give people horrible ideas on how to defend yourself. I'll leave that entirely up to you. But if my man ever even act like he want to do some damage to me, it going to be a misunderstanding! And I mean a serious one! I guess that's why I don't have these problems because if looks could kill....he would be a dead @ss!

2007-01-22 03:27:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been dating this girl for a month now.She has 2 small children and works really hard.I wanted to know if it was to "much" to give her a gift certificate to a DAY Spa for Valentines day?

2007-01-22 03:26:59 · 22 answers · asked by john G 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I seemed so in love when we first met. Now it seems like we want to rip each other’s eyes out sometimes after this first year of marriage. It sucks I miss that really romantic part of our relationship and feeling loved by her. Is this just the adjustment phase or have we really fallen out of love? Sometimes I look at her and think "what was I smokin'?". I'm sure she does with me to.

2007-01-22 03:26:44 · 20 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 03:26:35 · 6 answers · asked by yourtoxicangel 1 in Weddings

I am married and I keep looking for an ex boyfriend from high school and keep having dreams about him. This is probably insane but I think he loved me more than my husband at times.

2007-01-22 03:26:33 · 11 answers · asked by tina*21 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it was, and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with.

2007-01-22 03:26:23 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend gets very jealous when I masturbate to porn on the computer. SHe has caught me a few times, and arguments soon followed. She stopped sleeping with me for a week after that, and it took lots of convincing I didn't want her to perform the acts that the porn stars did (for example, anal, watersports, *** to mouth, that sort of thing). Do you think she is overreacting?

2007-01-22 03:26:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it you ask how old i am then no one can tell you cause you don'e allow emails or im's? And if you really must know i am going to be 23? Why does that make a difference in my question and your answer?lol

2007-01-22 03:25:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating