Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

a so-called friend of mine was out to dinner with my mother and her friend donna, who happens to be my friends aunt. my mother is barely a year out of 2 re-hab's for prescription drugs and my friend go's and smokes 2 joints in my mother's presence not to mention one time was in the car with my mother. now my mother is doing great. just got her RN's license back and is back on track, but now my ex-friend is talking all kinds of crap on me saying i am ridiculous and totally over-reacting over this situation because i went off on her. wtf? don't i have the right to be completely out-raged ?

2007-01-22 03:24:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-22 03:24:51 · 9 answers · asked by crossdresser 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

To start I have know this person for a long time. To be honest he has gone to drug rehab, however he is totally clean now. He does not drink and he lives alone in a single apartment. He is everything you want in a friend; he talks to you when your sick, he defends you when your being insulted, he cares for your well-being and he understands so much about life due to his past experiences. The only problem is this... Last weekend I had stayed the night at his house because the next day we were going to a university to tour it. It went well until a friend needed some help; he went to help but came home very late. So he overslept and when I asked him he said we will go next week but I had to tell my dad that we had went because i had made money just for this trip. In short my parents found out and told me that I can never see him again and that if I do talk to him they will disown me and not help me out with college and I will be kicked out. Should I stick with my bestfriend?

2007-01-22 03:24:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There will be no ushers and only a maid of honor and best man.

2007-01-22 03:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by ncgirl 2 in Weddings

Hello, world. I am sure that we have all been in a situation simillar to this.
And that is being indirectly attracted to a person when you first see them.
You fight the thought of it for a long time. You avoid talking to them. You
hate the words that come out of there mouths, but yet you listen. Then the
ice breaks. You start staring at that man or woman. And you see how
beautiful they are. Your eyes accidently meet. You look away. You then
begin to talk, barely. Then you talk daily, and converstions become deep.
Then you can't stop talking to that sould, when you realize, that you have so
much in common, it is scary. Then you know right then and there, that you
desire this being so much, you would do absolutely anything for them. But
without letting the world know. Sometimes you smile, and their words are
the only words, that you wanna hear. Cause when they talk, you listen.
And when you are next to them, there is a compassionate feeling. Best
answer wins

2007-01-22 03:23:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of the past 18 months has a friend from liverpool who he chats to on line occassionally, I've met her once and her husband, she seems nice enough and did chat to her too every now and then. At the weekend she got drunk one night and chatted to my bloke on line then told him she fancied him! and has done for some time. My bloke was really embarrased said he was flattered but that he loved me and always will. He told me what happened and I went mad, not at him! but at his so called friend, I sent her an email asking what she was playing at. My bloke now says he wont speak to her anymore.

Did I over react?

2007-01-22 03:22:37 · 9 answers · asked by Getagrip 2 in Friends

what are the pros and cons?
some say marriage is just a piece of paper.
im ready to get married, but my boyfriend of 8 yrs , is not , i love him, a lot and he does so many good things for me, except fo that part. He says, "do you want to marry me and my bills?
hes excuse is , that he wants to pay of all hes bills, i told him, thats what a relationship is all about , helping each other out-
anyone in the same boat out their ?

2007-01-22 03:22:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well i was hang out with the my friends these guys and then the guy i like was on his way over but did nto know i was there already so i was hiding from him to scare him and my friend mike was playing and being like auggie is gay i dont like her and then the guy i like was like yeahh idc casue i dont like her anyways so i came out but he thought i did not hear him so idk what to do

2007-01-22 03:21:35 · 20 answers · asked by auggie 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend told me sat nite wen he was drunk that he wanted to stay with me forever.. he said i see it as im yours and your mine.. he also said i was 15 and he was 17.. an he really wants to settele down and he hope i do to.. wha all ye make of that.. is it cute

2007-01-22 03:21:03 · 20 answers · asked by XxCXx 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 03:20:58 · 11 answers · asked by Trixstix 3 in Singles & Dating

At my house.

2007-01-22 03:20:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it normal for the guy to be tired after but for the girl to be wide awake?? Should she want to do it again or will it just piss him off??

2007-01-22 03:20:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Senior research paper involves whether its right or wrong to spank your kids? I would spank my kids(if I had any) only because my mother and father spanked me and I know that I was a handful growing up. Now I am responsible enough to make my own desicions and my mother and father trust me. I hope yall can give me an open minded response. Thanks

2007-01-22 03:19:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jessie 1 in Family

The girl that says she is carrying my baby plans to take me to court if I stay with the girl I love. What are my rights? Can she do this? Don't I have the right to be with who I want to be with?

I have told this girl that if the baby is mine (and I want proof) that I will support it. I also asked for visitation rights and she said that is totally out of the question.
How do I proceed with this?

If this is my child I want to be part of his or her life. I feel I have that right.

2007-01-22 03:19:09 · 25 answers · asked by JZ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

have fallen for one of the girls and she has similar feelings (judging by her actions). She has a boyfriend of 4 years, and will be moving back to her home in Europe in june.
Any suggestions?

2007-01-22 03:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by ? 7 in Singles & Dating

ight my n my ex recentlly broke up for some time apart from eachother...WE BEEN TOGETHER FOR AH YEAR AND SEVEN MONTHS..she tells me she loves me and she wants to be with me and she want things to work out...but this past weekend she was with her homegurls and they was in a getty..w/e...she was drunk and she was in alot of pictures...and for some reason she was in alot of pictures with some guy there...they took pictures huggin and close together...but that night she was blowin up my fone but i aint wanna pikk up...and tha next day we had sex...

do you think she likes that kid??...i asked a bunch of times and she said NO...

WHAT SHOULD I DO??...SHE LOVES ME AND WANTS TO BE WIT ME AND WE BEEN WIT EACHOTHER FOR A YEAR AND SEVEN MONTHS...BUT WUT U THINK I SHOULD DO??..SHOULD I JUST NOT CARE ABOUT THOSE PICTURES CAUZ THERE JUST PICTURES???...LETME KNOW

2007-01-22 03:18:16 · 1 answers · asked by yahboitrendz 1 in Singles & Dating

they give me no head aches they callme when they want some and then they leave to their hubbies leaving me in peace waiting for the next cheating s l u t to come by . my question is laidies what are you missing at home that a person such as myself can pull this off ? i have the best of both worlds great sex with different women and they go home to whine to their husbands!

2007-01-22 03:18:16 · 17 answers · asked by NONAME 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 24 yrs old, married and just found out I am pregant. I was unfaithful about a month ago. I am terribly ashamed of this!! I don't know what to tell my husband. He loves kids and I know he will be a wonderful father. I love him dearly and deeply regret what I have done. Should I tell him about the affair or just keep my mouth shut. I don't want to loose him and I sure will not ever do this again. Please help.

2007-01-22 03:18:15 · 26 answers · asked by kfsl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

for a man, if you orgasm quicker with one women, and another women, it takes longer(much longer). Should it mean something? mentally or emotionally? the quick one is usually okay, but with the other woman, the long ones are mind-blowing.

2007-01-22 03:16:15 · 6 answers · asked by DazednConfuzed 2 in Singles & Dating

asking if your out to meet up, is it possible that he really does like you and is not just after "one thing"?

this has been going on for over a year now. we have kissed.

2007-01-22 03:15:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK theres this guy but he likes Older girls but hes my age How do i make Him liek me cause i really love him iv already been out with him 2 times But he says where not right and then i told him i cant stop loveing him he said Maybe later Em HOW DO I MAKE HIM LIKE ME cause "later" well its been 3 weeks now

2007-01-22 03:15:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?

2007-01-22 03:14:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I dated for 4 years and were engaged for 2 of them. We had a great relationship throughout, with some tensions due to his overbearing mother who he cant say no to. We moved into apt last Jan and 3 months b4 the wedding he suddenly called it off saying he 'wasn't ready' and he was confused (we were bickering for the past 3 months). He moved out and back home. B/c of my begging and promises to change he kept coming and leaving again 4 times over the space of a month, until finally I moved out of our apt and back home at my mothers. I packed my bags and moved to another country to get over the devastation of a cancelled engagement and heartbreak, and within the last month have just started to heal. He says he is sorry and that he is made a huge mistake but it is very hard to have romantic feelings for him now after what he did to me. Am i being petty and holding a grudge? Should I just chalk it up to tempoary insanity on his part, focus on the good times and take him back?

2007-01-22 03:14:07 · 14 answers · asked by Dazed and Confused in Paradise! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just looking for an estimate so dont tell me its impossible without knowing what you want.

2007-01-22 03:13:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My father got upset with me and told me he would't go to my wedding if I wore that color. But me and my fiance picked it out together and I really like it. I don't wan't to wear white like everyone I want to be different. What do I do?

2007-01-22 03:13:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is 38 c's big boobs if you are 4 10? My guy says yes but i think they still look small. What is your opinion?

2007-01-22 03:13:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Were You ever Involve with a merried person if yes how was it?

2007-01-22 03:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by morena 2 in Marriage & Divorce

its like they always think we're so gullible because we're girls. when they dump us they make us feel like we're not good enough. why do they think that the world revolves around them?

2007-01-22 03:11:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Can someone please help me help a friend? My co-worker/friend is having some real serious issues going on right now that I am having a hard time helping her with. What's happening is the guy she has been seeing on and off for some years married someone else even though he has never stopped seeing/communicating with her. I know she is distraught because she has done so much for this guy. Even waited on him for 8 years while he was incarcerated. In my opinion she has never been #1 in his life even though she acts like they just have this inseparable relationship. She always said things to his past girlfriends like he's not going anywhere and she's not either, etc. (almost with an arrogant tone). when I try to tell her he's just using her and if he loved her he wouldn't have never married another woman. Especially one that he hasn't known as long as he has had history with her. Maybe if she saw other responses, she wouldn't just think I was hating on her.

2007-01-22 03:10:58 · 5 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

This happened at her dad's house @ 1130 at night. His 21 yr old nephew came and picked her up and dropped her off with a group of friends @ a store parking lot. They then walked to one of the boys' house where my daughter tells me there was a dad there and all they did was 'watch TV.' I tracked her down the next day @ a girlfriend's house and picked her up--much to her dismay. She said she was planning to hang out with her friend, stay the next night with her and go to school in the morning--no biggie. Although she says the words "I know what I did was wrong", she doesn't appear remorseful. She has had episodes of alcohol consumption while in her dad's care (don't worry--I'm not going to let her stay over at his place anymore!) and I think she has tried out pot and pills. This is a beautiful girl who has the potential to accomplish so much. How do I impress on her that she is on a steep slope to destruction? Whatever her punishment is mine as well as I am the sole enforcer.

2007-01-22 03:10:29 · 27 answers · asked by cyndie1sue 1 in Family