have fallen for one of the girls and she has similar feelings (judging by her actions). She has a boyfriend of 4 years, and will be moving back to her home in Europe in june.
Any suggestions?
2007-01-22 03:18:57 · 17 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
leave it!! i think you know that anyway.. its not worth it.. if you two do make a move, it would/could only be brief so will cause more harm than good.. not worth it at all.. go out and play else where! good luck!
2007-01-22 03:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This kind of thing almost always ends in trouble, I've seen it happen before.
If she is going to move back to her country soon to be with her boyfriend, then the chances are they will stay together. Even if she has made it clear that she has strong feelings for you, and that she wants to leave her boyfriend back in Europe for you, she's still going back there first, do you really want to be waiting for her, hoping she will come back to you?
Long distance relationships sometimes do work, but in the majority of cases they end in failiure sadly.
often when you're away from your partner for a long time and over a long distance, it's hard because you miss the company and security you had. It's then alot easier to seek solice and comfort in those around. If there's a spark between the two of you in this situation, then it can make things really tough.
If I were you, and I felt that strongly about the girl, I'd talk to her ASAP, before she goes away, make your feelings known to her, and ask for her advice. But whatever happens, she is going back to Europe first, so don't hang onto her word, and wait for a long time hoping she'll come back to you, as it may end up hurting you mroe if it comes to nothing.
Good luck dude!
2007-01-22 11:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by clarky303 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is the boyfriend of 4 years in Europe? If she's happy and you're just a fling for her, I would leave it alone and let it be what it is. If she's not happy with her boyfriend at home, then there needs to be some communication going on between her and her boy. I wouldn't get involved.
If she breaks up with her boyfriend and you begin dating, five months isn't that long to determine whether it'll last forever....you never know - go with your heart.
2007-01-22 11:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
One of the worst things in life is to continually wonder "what if..." In other words, you should live your life with no regrets. A great relationship with someone you care about will be much better than never taking that chance at all. It doesn't matter how long the relationship lasts, and who knows, things and situations always change. Go for it!
2007-01-22 11:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by BLAIR C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I respect, you, have not yet rushed yourself into asking her out. Appearance can be deceiving and what you perhaps interpret as feelings for you could just as well be any such ordinary towards a house mate.
Don't forget, she has a boyfriend and it is by this misinterpreted feelings that we get fornication and in and out of what could be a perfect relationship. You wouldn't like it if someone ever destroyed your relationship. Lay back, it will come if it is meant.
2007-01-22 11:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Bif 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What actions? Has she broke up with her boyfriend for you? And if the two of you have slept together then maybe you are just her friend with benefits. I would let her tell me what she would like to happen. Don't go thinking that this is what she wants you have to talk to her about it and not make assumptions about it. Just ask her about how she feels.
2007-01-22 11:25:02 · answer #6 · answered by Jamie M 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you have any genuine feelings for her then don't ruin her life , who's more likely to continue the relationship when she goes a b/f of 4 years or you because you had sex with her ?
2007-01-22 11:24:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she has everythinh in her boyfriend wat she is lacking now is the physical(sex). she feels u r interested if u give in she will just **** u and leave u hanging.
She knows u know there's someone else but still chooses to give her that attention and well at the moment she's enjoying it wat ya say?
Even if its not true abt the sex dont u think she can do the same thing with the next guy like u?
2007-01-22 11:43:17 · answer #8 · answered by Naughty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her, and try and get her to like you more then see where things go and see if maybe she wants to stay with you instead.
2007-01-22 11:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you live in my house???? Well, a quick bonk might be an option here - depends on your morals really.... dont it????
2007-01-22 11:23:06 · answer #10 · answered by mick271602 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋