Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

My wife had been writing email letters for the last one year to her classmate who is happily married for the last 14 years. She met him in a remote resort in last July. We are married for the last 14 years and have two lovely kids. I found a passionate letter(on paper) written by her to him one week back. When I confronted her with this she said it was only platonic love. As some of the frieds here suggested I talked to her so that she would come out clean. She says she does not know his email address and the both of them decided to end it when they met in the resort but in the letter written shortly after some time she asks him not to forget her and also with love, who needs you a lot. She said she thought of giving it to him in person first and then said she never intended to give it to him. She refers to the contents of his letters as nothing more than family matters. She wrote this letter I found at 4 AM. Only one month before and after she met him we were sleeping together.

2007-01-22 02:41:27 · 14 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We met at my work 18 months ago and he is a regular customer. We became close friends right from the begining and we were both in a relationship at the time. We have always flirted with each other but on a jokey level. Recently we have both been going through problems with our partners which has ended with him finishing with his girlfriend though they are still close. He has supported me through my problems as i have with him. A month ago i was having a really hard time so he took me for a night out along with his ex and his friend. We were all having a great time when he started really flirting with me and he kept telling me he wished his ex wasnt with us. on the way home in the taxi he was all over me kissing my neck it was really intense as Im still with my boyfriend i had to resist but this has made me relaise i want him badly. The problem is nothing has happened since I dont know where I stand. I think we both feel the same about each other but are both to shy to say anything.

2007-01-22 02:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by lilmisstickle2003 1 in Singles & Dating

I only know i have change we fight a lot I dont know how stop I love her to death i would do anything for her . we are apart right now, we have a 10 month yrs old daughter. when i call her we usually end up fighting because i dont agree on how she handles stuff since ive been gone..it seem like she can take any i say to her because she turns it around like im attacking her ..I need to know how to stop fighting with her i dont want to divorce her i love to much to trow away the time we spent together . i know she my only one for me in this world but i cant make her see that . i want to keep her .how? do i survive with her while im gone ?.....any marrie people please help me!

2007-01-22 02:40:09 · 24 answers · asked by DAMIEN 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:39:50 · 28 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by taz 1 in Singles & Dating

After my gymnastics meet I went to my b/f's house and we were watching tv. He placed his hand on my stomach.(it didn't wander too far) He knew I wasn't fully asleep otherwise he wouldn't have done it. Is it normal??
My friend also says it is odd for a guy to put his arms around you and pick you up and spin you when he hasn't seen you in a while or when I win.
He was there for me before, after, and helped me through all the trama so I trust him.
At times his hands wander but that is normal. He says he loves picking me up b/f I am so tiny(5'1 and 98lbs)
I love all the things he does for me but my friend makes me think it's wrong. Is it??

2007-01-22 02:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that first impression last just for awhile, until you get to know the person better if you get the chance,then you can make a better judgement.
What do you think?

2007-01-22 02:39:19 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have been married 5yrs or more, please let me know how many of you still sleep in the same bed? If you sleep on the couch occasionally, don't worry about it. : )

2007-01-22 02:38:51 · 29 answers · asked by sweetpea 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If all emails are deleted, is there any way I can take our computer in to retreive them?

2007-01-22 02:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by farildo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

just want to ask single people:

How do u do for not taking bored?

2007-01-22 02:37:56 · 3 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:37:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This woman does not like me. I am the guys girlfriend and caught them having an inappropriate conversation one evening. She knows I do not like her and he told me they dont talk that much. He recently admitted after she has been getting more bold calling him that she is having marriage issues - doesnt she need to be talking to her husband and shouldnt he direct her to do so?

2007-01-22 02:36:25 · 8 answers · asked by PrBela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:36:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I like this guy but he is really shy and i have a hard time striking up conversations with him....what should I do?

2007-01-22 02:35:38 · 17 answers · asked by schmexy_ambah 1 in Singles & Dating

shes 18 now and they have broke up several times and she allways took him back (she says she loves him) well he did it again ,shes in college and this is really effecting her she so sad i wish i could take her pain away please help me to help her any ideas? Thanks a concering mom

2007-01-22 02:35:32 · 7 answers · asked by Leslie F 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is tt true tt those two product can increase Oxygen around us? and cure sickness? detoxic? what science say about Aromatheraphy healing? i got nasal problem. if i use this method wont it worse my illness?

2007-01-22 02:34:30 · 1 answers · asked by simplelife76 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:34:16 · 12 answers · asked by luka61077 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it's been just over a week, she was very interested and still no call, do you think she will call?

2007-01-22 02:34:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:32:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your sister or brother bothers you and you yell at them but then they show you thier adorable face. what do i do?

2007-01-22 02:32:45 · 4 answers · asked by Deniz n 2 in Family

This would be a girl who does not like the friends girlfriend as the girlfriend caught them having an inappropriate conversation before she was married. They hide that they talk but she is getting more forward in contacting him. Shouldnt she be talking to her husband about her concerns? What does it mean that she is turning to the "flirtatious friend" ?

2007-01-22 02:32:42 · 3 answers · asked by PrBela 1 in Marriage & Divorce

younger less attractive girl?

2007-01-22 02:32:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is the point, you cant get the same affection from cuddling your computer. Nothing matches having REAL sex, be it with someone you love or a one night stand.

Cyber is just words, you might as well get off on a mills & Boon book lol.

BTW I am married, with a very real and very good sex life thanks.

2007-01-22 02:31:46 · 10 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy at my mothers Christmas party! He had a date so nothing really went beyond that. About 3 weeks ago he initiated a conversation with my mother and was inquiring about me. My mother decided to email him my email address, telling him “wasn’t sure if you were interested or not” to which he responded that he was. The date that was with him at the Christmas party ended up being just a friend. He never emailed me but then about a week later he called. I have talked to him 4 different times within a span of a week and a half. Twice now we have spent about an hour on the phone and probably could have kept talking had it not been for the time. The last time we had an hour long conversation he mentioned getting together for a drink or coffee, to which I replied that I would like that. Again I confirmed my desires with a text. The next morning he text me with a good morning and have a wonderful day. Again at the end of the day we started to text. He was in my area for happy hour and so I was trying to open the door for an invitation to join him, but I just got a random text about where he was and that he would be there for a little while. I was kind of thrown off by he’s text and I never responded. Well he never sent another text or called. I am confused, do I call or was there enough of an opportunity for him to ask me on a date? I do not want to be that obsessive person who keeps calling if he is not interested but on the other hand, what if he is waiting for me to call him, seeing as he was the last one to reply. Another factor, he is 33 and I am 25. Do you think he might be interested but the age difference might be throwing him off? Should I just leave it alone or make an attempt to contact him again?

2007-01-22 02:31:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

First- One is celebate and has been friends with a guy who just experience a close call - the revelation left him with asking her to spend a special evening with her, he says lets have sex no holds bar, and then let see where it goes?Deal or no deal.

Second- Invited to Super BowlParty -- new guy wants her to meet his friends but has told her how to dress, how to act. Deal or no deal?

Third- Boyfriend makes her a priority but he drinks to much and he is always a day la,te but he is there. Deal or no deal?

2007-01-22 02:31:20 · 3 answers · asked by Sports Maven 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married next mon and yes i know what i'm getting into marrying a man with baggage but still would like advice.my bfs ex still loves him(he left her but not for me)after being divorced for 4yrs and makes my life hell because of this.shes also jealous that we are happy together and she has yet to find anyone.the problem is they have a child sam together(joint custody but sam lives with mom)and she lives local so we have to deal with her almost daily.at school/sports functions she makes it very clear i'm not welcome to the point its embarrassing thats how bad it is.my bf becuase of sam will not say a word to her about this in fear it will upset sam so he just goes along with what ever she does.there is no talking to my bf about this as he has told me she is a b-tch and will not change.so i'm to live with it or get out hes told me.can stepmoms/moms please tell me how i can learn to live with her for the next 10yrs?(sams only 8rs old)is my only hope she might get married soon?

2007-01-22 02:31:10 · 6 answers · asked by bettylou678 1 in Family

i'm getting married next mon and yes i know what i'm getting into marrying a man with baggage but still would like advice.my bfs ex still loves him(he left her but not for me)after being divorced for 4yrs and makes my life hell because of this.shes also jealous that we are happy together and she has yet to find anyone.the problem is they have a child sam together(joint custody but sam lives with mom)and she lives local so we have to deal with her almost daily.at school/sports functions she makes it very clear i'm not welcome to the point its embarrassing thats how bad it is.my bf becuase of sam will not say a word to her about this in fear it will upset sam so he just goes along with what ever she does.there is no talking to my bf about this as he has told me she is a b-tch and will not change.so i'm to live with it or get out hes told me.can stepmoms/moms please tell me how i can learn to live with her for the next 10yrs?(sams only 8rs old)is my only hope she might get married soon?

2007-01-22 02:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by bettylou678 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like to be her wellwisher throughout the life and in no way want to disturb her. But I don't find any reason for her sudden non response. This hurts me a lot. Why she promised and sets back? My wife too wants me to be a good friend of my ex and believes me. Is it fair to continue to send greetings thro' mail for festives and occasions?

2007-01-22 02:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by raja 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A mother, for no reasons relating to safety, is denying access to a baby's father. Is she in violation of court order? What are the consequences? What can the father do?

2007-01-22 02:29:57 · 12 answers · asked by rbow39two 1 in Family

My wedding dress is cameo pink(light pink, pastel pink), but my concern now is what color are my bridesmaid dresses going to be?

2007-01-22 02:29:18 · 58 answers · asked by dari98dae99 3 in Weddings