2007-01-22 02:39:50 · 3 answers · asked by taz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends, some people can make someone fall in love with them again if the other person is willing to work on it, and some people can't if the other person isnt willing to work it out.
But, just get out of your routine a little bit...do stuff that you normally don't do....maybe a break will help?
My sister was married to her husband for 11 years now and her husband 'fell out of love' my sister is trying to win him back, and he's willing to work it out.
I hope everything works out for you two!
2007-01-22 02:45:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will assume this is a four year relationship and you are not trying to win someone back after four years of being not together.
That being said:
Make a scavenger hunt. Leave him notes as to where to find you (a restaurant or bar) and meet him there. Tell him to wear something so you can recognize him. Go to a hotel previous to meeting him and get a room. While trying to "pick him up" at the bar like you are strangers, slip him a room key. When he arrives...well I don't have to tell you the rest.
In the morning before he wakes up leave him a note and go home and act like nothing happened.
I tried that once on my ex-husband. He was hopeless though!
2007-01-22 02:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him of why he fell in love with you. Bring him to a spot you used to go eat/dance/hang out at when you first started dating.
Was there something you did that really turned him on in the begginning, like a certain outfit or just something in that aspect? Find something that resembles that or if you have the same exact thing...and wear it again.
You may just be in a 'rut.' You just need to freshen up your relationship. I really suggest a night (or weekend) with just you and him. If you have kids, get a babysitter. Go eat out somewhere that you used to go in the beg., if ya'll used to have a certain hang out go there after, then bring him home to a nice night of you pleasuring him...do everything for him and don't worry what you are missing out on because if all works out (which it should)...you will be getting it back ten fold.
You could even go to a vacation for a weekend...a spot where you both love and is relaxing and is just YOU and HIM.
2007-01-22 02:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am going to assume that you guys are still together..but somehow you think that he doesnt love you or still love you but the love is not the same...when we are in a relationship for a long time we tend to get comfortable with our partners...the main ingrident to keeping the love strong..is honesty respect and as a women definetly try your best best to keep it sexy..i know that we have kids and a jobs ana d home to take care of but honestly the only thing that i can think of to make a man once desire you like before is to keep yourself sexy..no i am not saying walk around the house all the time in 6 inch stilletos..but get you hair done nails..dress nice..always carry yourself in a feminine manner...also give him want he wants..he want a b l o w job when he comes home from work..give it to him..he wants his toe nails clip... do it..he wants a massage..do it...always treat him like a king...but just sexify yourself..build confidence..last..its always nice to take a trip away from home and the kids....good luck
2007-01-22 03:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to get know him more than before, give him the hints that you are interested in him. Remember you have to find out if he wants you or not. All you need to be in same as he is.
2007-01-22 02:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something spontaneous with him. It puts the flame back into the relationship.
2007-01-22 02:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by daddies_gurlie2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like the first time u met him...
be the best girl in teh whole world... show to him how much u love him...
also spend more n more time with him n talk to him more often on phone
or text him... u should ask him about things he like to talk about n also
be very careful about ur physical appearance... change urself... get new
clothes... change ur looks...gd luck
2007-01-22 02:45:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get naked and cover yourself in whip cream.
2007-01-22 02:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by H-Dizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋