I would like to be her wellwisher throughout the life and in no way want to disturb her. But I don't find any reason for her sudden non response. This hurts me a lot. Why she promised and sets back? My wife too wants me to be a good friend of my ex and believes me. Is it fair to continue to send greetings thro' mail for festives and occasions?
2007-01-22 02:30:25 · 10 answers · asked by raja 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think spending too much energy maintaining a relationship with an ex is not probably good in the long run for a marriage. Why does it disturb you so much that you haven't heard from you ex? That may be a real problem that it bothers you so much. It's fine to be supportive and be friends and all that, but be careful how much energy your are expending for someone that is not your spouse.
2007-01-22 02:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be fair to your wife friend. Your ex is not responding to you and that disturbs you. This is silly. Get out of it. Be a well wisher of your wife as she is of yours. She wants you to be your ex's friend maybe because she feels the pain you go through without her. Did you ever try to feel the pain of a woman whose husband is disturbed because his ex didn't respoind to him. What if your wife had an ex and she behaved the same way. Wouldn't you have felt bad about that? Wouldn't you reatain the feeling of insecurity about her being more concerned about her ex than you?
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2007-01-23 01:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 17:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by sherburne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur ex don't want to connect u anymore that shouldn't be problem to u. don't take it negatively maybe she's moving on & doesn't want to talk to you ( 4 many reasons)
& for your own relation ship you shouldn't talk to you ex either. well wisher be this way that when ever she comes back to you for help don't send her back. :-)
it might not b easy for her to c another woman with you when she once loved you!
think positively & pray for her! that's good enough.
2007-01-23 09:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by ZK431 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its pretty apparent she does not want to be in contact with u .... why are u wating so much time and effort on ur EX????????????????????? hello...
U have a wife... what if she starts feeling ignored or lonely in ur pursuit for getting friendly with ur ex...
come on man ... concentrate on ur marrage
2007-01-22 02:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe, she has developed cold feet not being sure about your wife's response.
I think better ask your wife to invite her personally, so taht she is comfortable.
2007-01-23 22:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please take the idea of being friends after there's a break..it creates lot of problems. Be happy & enjoy your life&wife
2007-01-22 02:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR WIFE MAY ALLOW YOU FOR THIS. BUT HER HUSBAND MAY NEVER ALLOW FOR THE SAME SO FORGET HER. THIS MAY EFFECT HER LIFE.
2007-01-24 23:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it be what it is.....don't push...she may come around and if not then let it go.....focus on your family
2007-01-22 02:40:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try again
2007-01-22 02:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by khalid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋