Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

I've been going out with this guy for 2 weeks and i really like him ALOT!! He still doesn't treat me like a gf!! Im sooo nice to him and i ALWAYS give him money for gas and stuff!! I know that he likes me and cares about me but he just doesnt show it! I've tried telling him that i want to be treated better and more like a gf but he just won't!! I really want to be his gf and stay with him but i just dont know what to do!!!! I REALLY LIKE HIM ALOT AND I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP WITH HIM!!! I know we have just started going out and everything but i just want to be treated like a damn gf and not like ****!!! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!?!?!?!?!?

2007-01-22 03:10:15 · 10 answers · asked by tiNkErBeLL 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend recently broke up with me and he said the main reason was because he couldn't handle me being a virgin at twenty five. I am experienced with every other type of sexual act, and even he said that I was quite talented, especially for someone who has never had sex. I am not unatracttive, and iIhave had boyfriends, I just haven't found any body who I tought was special enough to have sex with yet. I thought after he told me he loved me that he might be my first, so I told him, figuring he had the right to to know if anything did ever happen between us. Being a virgin is something I never told anyone else except him, although quite recently I told my best friend. Instead, he used it against me and said he couldn't deal with being my first. What does that mean? I always though men thought virgins were hot, and if he loved me, why couldn't he just respect the fact, and be glad I told him the truth?

2007-01-22 03:10:06 · 8 answers · asked by Lady K 4 in Singles & Dating

Since I married at 15, he thinks it's ok.

2007-01-22 03:08:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

If you've never heard of this before, it's a reception where the only meal served is dessert. It's considered socially acceptable as long as it isn't during a standard meal time.

Our wedding ceremony will be at 6 in the evening, and there will be half an hour between the ceremony's end (around 6:45-7) and the beginning of the reception. We figure this is a little late to serve a full dinner.

The reception will be formal, we'll be serving wedding cake, cheesecake, and sorbet. There will be dancing, it will have assigned seating. We haven't decided on what alcohol we'll serve, but we'll have a hot cocoa and cider bar. (It will be December)

Would you attend this kind of event? Any suggestions for letting people know we won't be serving dinner? Any other thoughts or ideas? Thanks!

2007-01-22 03:08:37 · 12 answers · asked by Alicia 3 in Weddings

Well I don't usually do this, but tomorrow all my friends are going on a trip for a class I'm not in, and I'll be left alone all day with this guy who is horrible to me...it's just one day but I don't wanna go, so can you suggest any ways to get out of it?

2007-01-22 03:08:25 · 22 answers · asked by lovely_yellow_sky 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Does it ever work out to go back to a spouse who has cheated on you? How long before the trust is back? How long before intimacy can be restored? Is it worth it?

2007-01-22 03:08:15 · 10 answers · asked by greeneyes 3 in Marriage & Divorce

remember over 50...

2007-01-22 03:06:46 · 28 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

girls if you have any suggestions please feel free to fill me in.

2007-01-22 03:06:42 · 7 answers · asked by ~annie~ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 03:06:36 · 13 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you a women who can share her secret thoughts and passions with her man. If not why

2007-01-22 03:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by tonyflorida2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my birthdate 6/17/79
his sign scorpio

2007-01-22 03:05:49 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there innocence in keeping in touch on occasion with an ex-girlfriend when you are in a commited relationship?

2007-01-22 03:05:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ya, ofcourse iam taking about my girlfriend. we were close lovers for 2 years. unfortunely our parents didnt agreed for marriage. Recently she got married with another guy. whenever i call her she is taking to me like a stranger. when we were in relationship she used to respect me a lot. I am very down, missing her badly. i need her immotionally but she's ignoring me. Do all of them go in a same manner when they get married to another person leaving their lover to hell? plz help me....

2007-01-22 03:04:06 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend went to a stripclub 1 day with his male buddies and he came and told me that one day. he says he visited there but didnt get lapdance..whatever, but i didnt like it at all and i scolded him. wat do u think? is it ok? i got hurt a lot when i heard this. not because i felt insecure and i don't trust him but because i i love him a lot and i expect him to be loyal with me. what does it mean? is he not loyal?

2007-01-22 03:03:51 · 13 answers · asked by me... 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 03:03:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well Its not so much that i dont rather then I want to wait, Im only 19,hes 22, we havent even been married a month. I told him along time ago and before we got married, that I didnt want to have any kids until I was at LEAST 23. I want to get all my college done so I can be there with my kid when its born till old enough for pre-k, then I will start work. He understood it before but now since hes in the air force, hes like I WANT kids, and Id like you at least preg. b4 I go to Iraq (which we arent even sure he will get sent there as of now the only place we are going is japan)He says that hes risking his life for me and I wont even give him a kid (now) I said thats not it, I love you but I cant handle it right now, I want school done.
What can I do??

2007-01-22 03:03:30 · 8 answers · asked by corrick_1 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this girl very very much. Such a great feeling. She told me i am her best friend, that i went over her last best friend.

I know, that if i told her now that i like her more than just friends I would very much look like the typical kind of guy that just wants more than friendship.
So what i think that is more appropiate is to give it time, make her feel special and not think like there could be more than just friendship.

2007-01-22 03:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by xtorbo 3 in Friends

on phone in the last few months we understand each other and we get so close to each other but now her parents got know that she talk to me and they dont like thats why they put restrictions on her and since last week we havent talk i try and some how i told her that i want to talk to u but i think she is unable to do anything and i have no information abt her she also dont have computer and no means of communication how can i contact her help me plz i really love her and i knw she also love me but what we both do so that we can talk and communicate atleast once in 2-3 days can anyone help i realy want to talk to her plz help

2007-01-22 03:03:21 · 3 answers · asked by ronit 1 in Singles & Dating

I was at a gymnastics meet and I broke my ankle. My b/f ended up carrying me to the trainer, but he felt bad b/c I was crying.
Why do guys hate to see girls cry??
Even his friend felt bad. He said he felt bad especially when I came out on crutches, and ended us with third place(out of 60)
He thought I did good but I told him I didn't think so.
Why does he think I did good when I think I did bad??
Why do all the guys get excited when a gymnast does a cool trick and go "oooooh" when she falls?? Don't they know it makes it worse??
I wasn't trying to get anything from him, Just b/c it hurt so bad. Do you think he was glad he was there for me or wished he wasn't?

2007-01-22 03:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i have small breats but they are a very nice round shape, i want them to b bigger, any advice naturally i.e. foods or exercise that can make them bigger, im 24 btw.

2007-01-22 03:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm planning to take this Korean class because of a girl that I'm very interested, and I know she has a good feeling of me. I know i'm doing this because my emotional feeling, which this is not me. The feeling is just taking over my rational thought. Normally, I think rationally and will not let emotion to make the decision for me, but I don't know what I should do this time. Need advise.

2007-01-22 02:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by itguru5354 1 in Singles & Dating

What is your opinion on this? Or what do you think are some main things in a relationship that may cause someone to cheat, even if they are in love with the person they are currently with?

2007-01-22 02:59:22 · 9 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Singles & Dating

Well come on tell me. I'm anxious to hear !

2007-01-22 02:58:42 · 9 answers · asked by Count Acumen 5 in Singles & Dating

friend says i got this look in my eyes like i wanna jump on him and forget the rest of the world...firend is right...other friend says i just let him under my skin...and hes just like a parasite. so when she says that i think of scabies...and i just cant stop thinking about him...and he is not like scabies...even if he is under my skin...but yeah...and he likes me...but theres this one problem...his g/f...what do i do?

2007-01-22 02:58:38 · 1 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

do they then look at the girl in a different light?if so, in what way?

2007-01-22 02:57:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friends think I take things to Seriously, Can be very mean and quite deceptive. At the same time People think I'm Sentimental and to sensitive. I get touched by silly things very easily. I somewhat cry habitually over sad things I cant change.
How do I get nicer and less complicated?

2007-01-22 02:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-22 02:56:41 · 5 answers · asked by ngozi e 1 in Singles & Dating

For starters - I'm a 22 yr. old woman, and my soon-to-be fiancè is 27. We recently had an unexpected discussion over having a prenup, which he's all for, and I don't agree with. He says it's the smart thing to do, and it's just a precaution. (He knows people who didn't have one, got divorced, and one person lost everything...) I feel like he's planning a divorce before we've even officially planned the wedding. This is my 1st real relationship & the 2 of us are very much in love. He's told me time and time again that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, but now I can't help but feel that he must not trust me as much as he says he does, and he already is thinking about us not working out. Should I be taking this so personally, and letting it make me feel as if he, even subconsciously, has some doubts, or is it really just the "smart thing" to do? I love him with all of my heart, but if our feelings on this are so different, should I be reconsidering things?? PLEASE HELP!!

2007-01-22 02:56:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what can i do?

2007-01-22 02:55:42 · 15 answers · asked by Asland 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are hanging out, having a good time and then he decides to leave me to go hang out with a friend. This has happened multiple times, it makes me feel like he doesn't care. I could be wrong, but I think it's rude, I'd never do that to anybody. I'd totally understand if they had previous plans and we were just hanging out til he had to go but he just asks his friend to go hang out and ditches me. Does he not care anymore? What should I do? We've been dating for 4 yrs.

2007-01-22 02:55:00 · 13 answers · asked by L@uren87 1 in Singles & Dating