ya, ofcourse iam taking about my girlfriend. we were close lovers for 2 years. unfortunely our parents didnt agreed for marriage. Recently she got married with another guy. whenever i call her she is taking to me like a stranger. when we were in relationship she used to respect me a lot. I am very down, missing her badly. i need her immotionally but she's ignoring me. Do all of them go in a same manner when they get married to another person leaving their lover to hell? plz help me....
2007-01-22 03:04:06 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE IS QUIT RIGHT AND ALSO YOU NEVER PHONE TO HER IT MAY EFFECT HER MARRIED LIFE.
2007-01-29 13:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to meet her responsibilties as a good wife. And you talking to her is like actually disturbibg her. You gotta leave her alone and move on with your life.
Look behind and you will miss the open doors in the front. Get back to your life. You have parents, you have respnsibilities. you need to be stable soon. Trust me friend.
Yes, time heals all the wounds but if you dont co-operate with time... it's gonna hurt you more and more until you find your life full of scars. It would be hell. And later on you are gonna blame her for your stupids acts. You would say, "I ruinned my life for her." But the fact is that no other person can create any kind of transition in your life unless you allow it.
She is doing the right thing. She is not allowing you the create any transits in her life. You should do the same.
I don't uderstand this. This is a problem with lot of guys and gals these days. Did you ever miss your mom as much as you miss her. Well the relations are different but look at the impact each one has. The one who nurtured you and the one who stood by your side for a while. Ask yourself, where should you concentrate. Towards this girl or towards your responsibilites towards your parents.
And, again here if you have started hating your parents for not being supportive to you for her and you want to express your hatred, then I must say this is the wrong path and wrong time. Prove to your parents that you are a worthy son and they would be sorry for letting you down once....
2007-01-22 05:44:34 · answer #2 · answered by plato's ghost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think about it she did (still probably does) have feelings for you too. Now when she married another guy, she can NOT possibly be half as friendly to you as before. First it's a risk, she might get into something she will regret...you know what I mean. Second she is fine with the way things are, she has a loving husband what more could a girl want.
I suggest you get over her...from my experience that could take a longlonglong time but that's the way love is.
But definitely not everyone reacts like she did, in fact no one acts the same way. I can't say what she was thinking or you and I especially don't get the thing with parental permission but the only thing there is to do is to cope with it.
2007-01-22 03:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Gee aren't we a bit pathetic today. First off she is not your girlfriend, she is your ex-girlfriend at best. She has moved on to another man, and is probably wanting to forget you. She has a new life with a new man and you are just holding her back, keeping her in the past. Let her go. Time to get some balls and move on like a man. How old are you, 12? Forget her, find a new woman you can love, and grow up. BTW, there are 3 BILLION people on the planet, I think you might be able to find 1 you can get along with.
2007-01-22 03:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand how you feel...I have also in a similar situation,sometimes makes me hate women making me think as if they dint have heart, and feeling...at times it really hurts and I cry sometimes alone. Time is the biggest healer. I guess you know what you have ti do, stop fishing for answers on this site, as people would would just give their judments not knowing the entire story, dude you are the best judge of your situation. The only advice I can say as a brother is try talking to someone, like say a friend ( preferably a girl ) who is intelligent and matured who would giv you genuine answers, and if you can meet a psychologist and discuss your situation honestly with the doc. without hiding anything...( honestly ) I am sure it will help you make your desissions..and clear you rmind and you will know what exactly you have to do. Trust me this will work I know.
Gud luck.
sumeetoo@yahoo.com ( incase you want to discuss your problem with me )
2007-01-29 03:33:24 · answer #5 · answered by sumeetoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all u tell me one thing how can u expect love from a woman who is someone others wife? See she was your girl Friend for 2 years and not now. And its your bad luck that u didn't get her. Its not her stupidity. Moreover, if u feel hurt, that is not at all a big issue. You are crazy. If you loved your girl Friend from core of your heart then you should respect her till now because she is someone else wife. I can understand your feelings but you should not impose her to maintain that relationship which you expected rather you should consol her so that she can maintain her new life. I think that satisfaction is like heavenly satisfaction. Be brave and be a man and show your courage. Last but not the least be happy and make her happy. But try for someone else whom you can give love which is still wondering in your heart.
2007-01-29 01:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look man this is the hard fact that she is married now ...... and if i am not wrong then keep away from her married life if she ignores you becks the more you will try to contact her the worse the situation will be ..... becks if her husband come to know that after marriage she is having words with you for any reason ... then it depends on her husband what steps he would take .... anyway you wont her to be happy so she is man...... don't give a **** every 1 have their past so do she have so its better for u and her that's u should change Ur ways ... but if you are thinking that some miracle gonna happen then wish you a good luck man?
2007-01-22 05:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay wait a minute she sounds like a *****!!!! If she really loved you she would not have gone off to marry another guy. As much as this hurts buddy all I could tell you is forget about her and move on. You sound like a great guy and I know that you will find the perfect girl for you soon. Good Luck in life!!!! How old are you anyways?
2007-01-30 02:51:48 · answer #8 · answered by Lil' mel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen friend, meeting ur love is rather easy than getting it in ur life. Either u have had courage to fight everything n get married with her or u should accept the truth of present. She is doinng the right thing n if u really love her just wish for her happy married life n wait for some one who's made for u. All the best.
2007-01-22 04:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is NOT your girlfriend anymore. She is another man's WIFE. Grow up and move on. She has. Your emotional "needs" no longer matter. You are out of her life and you need to realize that. Find someone who is right for YOU. Painful as this must be for you, she has a marriage that she must respect, and it sounds like she is being a good wife about it. There are other women out there, but she is never going to be yours again. Sorry.
2007-01-22 03:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you seriously asking this question?!! The opening line to your question explains it all. "She is another man's WIFE." She's not your girlfriend anymore...she married someone else. Leave her in peace and don't try to wreck her marriage. Don't be an ***. Of course she's talking to you like a stranger...she's MARRIED now, and just like one of the other answers stated: NO MAN likes to have his woman talking to her ex...PERIOD.
Let it go dude, pull yourself together and get a life and find a new chic...who doesn't have a husband.
2007-01-29 23:12:31 · answer #11 · answered by iipiki_okami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋