My friends think I take things to Seriously, Can be very mean and quite deceptive. At the same time People think I'm Sentimental and to sensitive. I get touched by silly things very easily. I somewhat cry habitually over sad things I cant change.
How do I get nicer and less complicated?
2007-01-22 02:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't worry about that because only you know you the best. You shouldn't change be yourself
2007-01-30 02:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by cara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commit to changing! Then do your best everyday to follow-thru.
I had a problem similar, and made my mind up that I was gonna
change it. Change involves allot of work, and commitment it's
not easy. Concern yourself with your image of yourself not
others, or you'll find yourself constantly changing. Learn to
foster Love and honesty, the rest will fall in place provided
you really want It! It's OK to be sensitive and sentimental,
the world would probably be a better place if we had more
people like that. You'll be fine!
2007-01-30 00:59:27 · answer #2 · answered by jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u agree with what ur friends found out abt u? that u get touched by silly things very easily and cry over sad things? if u feel they are true, then u can be happy to know that u have acknowledged ur problem. like many others u didnt try to defend urself and come up with lame excuses. u have crossed the first step. i thnim u should spend some time alone and refelct on urself. try to find out what is that makes u cry? try to understand that crying over things that cant change is a very silly thing. try to understand the futility of it. instead why dont u come to terms with it and elarn to let go and move on? those silly things dont deserve ur attention and time at all. u have better things to do in ur life. u also entioned abt ur being sensitive. my freinds told me that i too belong to the same category. i decided to do some self analysis. i tried to convince myself that people are of different nature. u cant expect others to behave in the way u want. even if they speak in a rash or crude manner, why should u get affected by others bad behaviour. u can react with dignity, and believe me, tahts going to make all the difference. i am not saying that it is wrong to cry at all. u can cry when u feel really feel sad. but u must not rui n ur peace of mind over what somebody else says. u can take a conscious decision that u are not going to let others ruin ur happiness. ur happiness is in ur hands. thinka bt urselves and find out what allthings u would like to change in urself. set up goals for urself and at the end of each day find out how much u managed to acheive. it will definitely help u. also learn to treat others in the way u want them to treat u. what goes around comes around. try to be nicer to others and they will be nicer towards u. wising u wonderful days ahead.
2007-01-30 01:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by lilac4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the only thing is that your just bypolar and they just probably jealous because your that much different then them.
If you get nicer and less complicated then they probaby start hating more gurls will try to git with you. Girls dig guys with sentimental emotions but also like them to be agressive and know that you willprotect them
2007-01-30 02:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You seem to be very sentimental. If you are "over sensitive", perhaps you should conduct a selfevaluation (be honest with yourself) and write down those things that you believe you need to correct about yourself.
Then write down how you really want to be, and what do you believe will help you be the person you really want to be. After all this, try to remember your goals, and stick to them as much as possible, modifying them as appropriate.
2007-01-22 03:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say just be yourself. Everyone is complicated, it is just they don't let anyone see it. I dont really know you, but if people are saying your sensitive, it seems your a mice person, so i say just stay the way you are.
2007-01-29 08:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by some_slow_person 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be confident and don't take much tension.enjoy the little things of ur life.spend more time with ur family and friends and those who love u.it's good that u r sentimental but my dear frnd excess of everythin is bad.come on cheer.live in present b,coz it may not be tomorrow.cheers....................
2007-01-30 02:18:02 · answer #7 · answered by jaspreet k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just chill for awhile think of someone that you want to be like, But don't be a tottal copy cat. but that person could be a role model for some things.
good luck,
Koolgrl
2007-01-29 12:00:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that ring means something to him. It's something he cherishes and it's special to him.
2016-05-24 17:44:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy your life and throw love for all.
2007-01-30 02:31:39 · answer #10 · answered by anubhav_55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋