Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

Ok everyone. Me and my wife have been togeather for almost 2 years. Rufly around thanksgiving we split up and she went to her moms and i stayed in the house. We have a 16 month old little girl. We have been fighting a lot latly and we both have said a lot of mean things. Just recently we have talked about getting a divorce and once talks started i have been dating aother woman. Im not too sure what to do any more. I mean i still care for my wife it just seems that we are not the same people we once were... and that we are happier apart then togeather.. Its like we both know that something could happen just not anytime soon and it might be that we are too young for marrage im only 22 and she is only 20 I have no idea if any one could help out or is willing to chat and talk to me about this id really appreciate it thank you

2007-01-22 02:26:57 · 9 answers · asked by Chris m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:26:54 · 23 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:25:27 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:25:07 · 12 answers · asked by mariam962001 1 in Singles & Dating

Yknow what?!
Im so friggin SICK of all you people with this holier than thou attitude about "YOU MADE THE VOW BLAH BLAH BLAH"
Things happen in life that are out of our control. The paths and people we choose to go on are not always the correct ones. Sometimes it takes people or situations to help us realize this.
Why is it when someonehas a situation of "I have a bf/gf but I'm in love with another" you people jump down their throats with "ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT". Why? Maybe in rare cases. the people we are with are not right for us and SOMETIMES someone comes into our lives that make us realize they indeed are the right ones? Life IS one big riisk. So why I ask...why are you all so holier than thou

2007-01-22 02:24:55 · 23 answers · asked by V P 2 in Marriage & Divorce

have sex while on your monthly cycle? I was just wondering because most women I have been with said they wouldn't then later on in the relationship they decide they want to.

2007-01-22 02:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm kinda enduring an awkward situation at work. One of my closest guy friends works at the same place as I do and I began to develop feelings for him though he has a gf. I told him I liked him and I felt it was best that we ignore each other for awhile so I can get over him. Anyway he asked me if I wanted to hook up with him, i said i did, but then he said i should do it with another guy I like. Anyway during all of this, I got mad at him for jerking my feelings around and I ended up calling him a dog, but then I apologized. The thing is I said all of this via text. The next day I wrote him a letter saying how sorry I was for how I acted, and that it was better that we treat each other as professionals since he has a gf and I need to move on. The thing is that he ignored me. So far, we've been ignoring each other for the past 3 weeks and now it is awkward and i miss talking to him sometimes. Whenever we pass each other it is awkward. What should I do?

2007-01-22 02:23:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy .. i love dearly i have lost his attention latly and i want it back .. i want to send him a text sayin the most sexual things .....

2007-01-22 02:22:17 · 6 answers · asked by cavcav 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been ill for quite some time and havnt seen my friends they dont seem to text me any more or ring i have to ring them when they pick up i say "hi its kim how are you? " they say " oh hi"
have they just forgot me or what?
please help!!!!

2007-01-22 02:21:20 · 20 answers · asked by Kimberley H 1 in Friends

My roommate placed on the cleaning supplies needed to clean the bathroom on the bathroom floor. I thought she was getting ready to clean it, but she left for about an hour and when she returned she never did anything with the cleaning supplies. Do you think this is a hint that she wants me to do it?!

Which I'm not going to unless she asks me, I'm no mind reader.

2007-01-22 02:21:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My brother and his girlfriend past september had a beautiful baby girl. He is 20 and she is 19. My brother works two part time jobs putting in more hours than I do at my full time job to pay for all his personal bills and child support (he sends her 20% and theres is papers signed on her part but court date isnt till feb., lawyer told him to do so). She refuses to let him have any overnight stays unless she is there which obviously is not going to happen. She agreed to let my brother have an overnight finally on a fri -sat so he drove halfway to meet her which is a 30 mile drive and she never showed up. He got a phone call from her mother and stepfather telling him that he told his exgirlfriend to turn around because the baby should have no overnights without her mother until shes a year old. They also told him because he has no experience with babies. After i heard this I was like hello and did that 19 year old girl have any experience until that baby was born hell no she didnt.

2007-01-22 02:21:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to put it as simple as possible
there was this guy and he's my ex.from the begining of our relation ship,i only wanted to be his friend, i dumbed him coz he cheated on me which he still denies it.now the deal is i have no feelings for this guy but he's cool to hang with we're getting apart from eachother,and i like him and want him to be my friend,i really do.how can i?

2007-01-22 02:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by ursis 1 in Friends

do u want to come hav a session with some snow main n a hotel room
im aged 22
5'9
indian - but quite fair
born in LDN - london

2007-01-22 02:19:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats the best and worst thing you've ever saw on a webcam?

2007-01-22 02:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by jd t 1 in Singles & Dating

i will be legally able to file for divorce at the end of march...i was told we had to be seperated for 6 months...end of march will be 6 months..i work at a cpa firm and it will be in the middle of tax season, has anyone ever filed for divorce online and it was successful? or should i pay the $900 fees and hire a lawyer?

opions and advice is accepted..thanks

Crystal

2007-01-22 02:19:21 · 7 answers · asked by Crystal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is it normal for a guy to do this??
After my gymnastics meet I went to my b/f's house and we were watching tv. I ended up falling asleep in his arms and he placed his hand on my stomach.(it didn't wander too far) He knew I wasn't fully asleep otherwise he wouldn't have done it. Is it normal??

2007-01-22 02:17:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who will u be with for valentines day? Got any good plans??

2007-01-22 02:17:43 · 11 answers · asked by Deleted 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that around here, people kick the word "Love" around like it's a soccer ball. You're all in love with someone new every time you post a question. So here's my question...

What does love mean to you? What would you do for someone you love? How far would you go for that love?

Me, personally, I'm willing to bleed, I'm willing to die and I'm willing to kill. I'd walk through hell for someone I "love". What about you?

2007-01-22 02:17:43 · 11 answers · asked by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 in Singles & Dating

How do you know if they have your best interests at heart. And do people actually follow the advice they get from here?????

2007-01-22 02:16:46 · 35 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:16:20 · 11 answers · asked by S R369 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine is...... I enjoy watchig others argue, it makes me feel alive

2007-01-22 02:15:30 · 12 answers · asked by Only1me 1 in Friends

My husband has an ex wife, who told him that the 2 children that he has been paying child support on now for 5 years, don't even belong to him... she has been telling people this since the day she left him, but just recently told him (though other people has been telling him this all along). He doesnt get to see the kids, doesn't talk to them for months and months at a time, a dead beat dad, more or less, (yes hes my husband but the truth is the truth).. he doesnt' want to have a DNA test done on them, and refuses to take any actions against her, to get out of the child support, what would you do if you were the new wife in this sitatuion?

2007-01-22 02:14:24 · 20 answers · asked by Cycy C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i tell him how i still feel about him??? When we talk, i am such a ***** to him. I am too scared to tell him anything because i dont want him to be like, OMG i dont want to talk to HER anymore. Even though he is a big druggy, i like him sooo freaking much. I even talk **** about him but sometimes, it just makes me feel better because he broke up with me for no apparent reason. Is there a chance he still likes me, or just using me?
i hate guys.

2007-01-22 02:13:30 · 4 answers · asked by i love addasyn smith 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for around 18mths now, it's always been a rocky relationship. I cheated on him 6mths ago n told him with more or less a guy I'm never gonna c again, he cheated on me on told me about a month later with a girl he works with and still works with. We argue all the time now but there is love there, wat do we do we have a holiday booked in March and he has been a great model for my five year old daughter.
As well though I've been talkin to my x he has told me he is in love with me and I do feel I have very strong feelings for him but is this cause my relationship is such as mess, it never worked the first time because we was both on the rebound?
What do I do, do I try make my realtionship work, try with the other guy or be on my own?

2007-01-22 02:13:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:12:32 · 3 answers · asked by ndeepuachari 2 in Friends

Do guys find valentines day romantic??

2007-01-22 02:12:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Bad boys or nice guys?

2007-01-22 02:10:27 · 20 answers · asked by beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

anything about anyone.

2007-01-22 02:10:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK, here's the story.
My friend Sally has been dating Billy for 2 years. Billy is divorce with 2 kids. He just recently legally got divorced but had been seperated for a long time. His ex delayed the divorce because she didn't want to give him 20% of the value of their home. Sally is deperate to get engaged and keeps hounding Billy. Sally is turning 30 this year and Billy is throwing her a surprise party. The party is more of a childrens party 1-4 at dave and busters, soda and snacks. My friend Sally is a night club partier type of person. I don't think she is going to be happy with this type of party, it seems like Billy made it more for his own kids then Sally's taste. Since I live 5 hours away and attend school for my master on Sat- we are not getting up there until after the party- Billy is having pizza and beer at this house. Billy beg me to come up on this date cause I menation maybe I should come up another weekend and take Sally- OUT to a club for her birthday- like

2007-01-22 02:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

this is an email she sent me

wow. that is amazing. that made me like respect u a hell of alot more than what i already did . and u kno what? ur right. thank u so much for telling me that. it really helped me so much. im sorry that that happened to u. but thank u for ur advice. ya kno? im glad u listened to kristen and sent me and e-mail. ur a really good guy, im glad im getting the chance to get to kno u. hey u wanna hear sumthing really embarassing abt me? ok dont laugh but when i was in the 5th n 6th grade, i had this huge crush on u! lol i kno i kno retarted rite? but i thought u wer the hottest thing alive, lol ok jus thought id tell u that lol. k wright bak!

but...shes still getting over her ex...so now is not really a good time to ask her out..what should i do??


I'm 15

2007-01-22 02:08:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating