Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

How do you know when a guy is hiding his feelings from you?

I mean like lets say he says things that dont match his actions...... but there good actions but not good words to match with...

Like here is an example.......my ex says he dont love me but i know that he does cuz i can feel it and see it in his eyes......

Eyes dont lie............right?

P.S. we broke up cuz he said that he didnt want a relationship or a gf..................

How do i know hes being serious when he tells me stuff but he acts diff?

2007-01-22 01:40:07 · 6 answers · asked by preppy_gurl101010 1 in Singles & Dating

i have no idea and i've been reading so many different oreder----does anyone really know

2007-01-22 01:39:56 · 5 answers · asked by sookie 2 in Weddings

Have you had a wierd wild or wackey date ?What happen? Was what happen a sign of things to come?
This is just for fun... I'm a cluts on dates and I'm just wondering how many other people have mishaps on thier dates...

2007-01-22 01:39:30 · 5 answers · asked by UmaCat 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:38:34 · 5 answers · asked by ryo 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard of friends becoming lovers and sometimes more. I just wonder how, though. Personally, I've never been sexually attracted to a platonic friend, and they're typically just platonic friends because of the fact that I'm not physically attracted to them. However, I once actually had a friend who fell in love with me, but it wasn't reciprocated. If anything, I sort of think of my platonic friends the same way I do my relatives, and I've got some pretty attractive cousins, but I would still not want to date any of them. Does anybody have any insight here?

2007-01-22 01:37:25 · 7 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is goin away for 5 days, i know its not long but i'm really gonna miss him wot shud i do to take my mind of things????

2007-01-22 01:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by Mal S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:37:05 · 21 answers · asked by ghita_ela 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:35:43 · 22 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok people. My boyfriend and I have been off and on for about a year now. He's cheated on me once (i found out by breaking into him email) and I found texts messages from other females in his phone. I let him get by with those two things, but not easily. I guess one reason is because I love him more the anything and he was also my first. The other day he came to my dorm room and 4got to log off of his MySpace. I seen where it had been sending other females messages about them being cute and sexy or whatever. He says he was just playing around because it's MySpace, but who actually plays around like that? Before this happened I asked him a few days ago was he sending other females messages and he said no. Was I wrong for reading his messages? Should I let him go and move on? Or should I give him another chance?

2007-01-22 01:33:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-22 01:33:45 · 6 answers · asked by psphaw 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so I just turned 40 years old and I look and feel like I'm still in my mid 20's. I was in a LTR, which is now over and it left me stranded on the dating highway....I prefer younger women because they can keep up and are still full of vitality, but how young is too young?

2007-01-22 01:33:42 · 8 answers · asked by flsuave 2 in Singles & Dating

being out of high school, I have a new prespective. Why in high school do couples stay in relationships for years, break up, cheat, get back together and so on? High school is about fun and thats not fun. You're life shouldnt be so complicated at that age, agreed?

2007-01-22 01:33:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats something a girl can casually do that makes you nuts?

2007-01-22 01:32:28 · 12 answers · asked by whyy_nottt 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:31:52 · 11 answers · asked by Dear Ravi 1 in Friends

My best friend is also the guy I like his friend sayd he liked me but he says he doesnt how do I tell him how I feel without hurting our friendship and not makeing a fool out of myself???????????????

2007-01-22 01:31:24 · 3 answers · asked by kidtexlex123 1 in Singles & Dating

according this love story,they fall in love at first and get married.then as they get older they dont felt love unlike before...it suddenly change.they had son and telling him about their love story then. and they fully inspired telling how it goes...but the quesstion is.....? do u think their love is gone???or they may love but the passion of love was through?HOW COULD YOU DEFINED LOVE BASE ON THIS STORY??

2007-01-22 01:31:22 · 5 answers · asked by ryo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So much hate from the "ladies" today? What's uo with that?

2007-01-22 01:31:19 · 14 answers · asked by Pardonne Moi? 2 in Singles & Dating

im a sensuality / erotica kinda gal...imagination and energy are very important to me...;0)

i feel very strongly that there is no longer much of anything out there left to the imagination...everything is there laid bare for us to see no mystery...this makes for very dull stagnant people lacking imagination and charm...what do you think?

2007-01-22 01:30:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been getting my period since september 2006 and i havent told my mom yet what should i do? if i tell her she will be all momish and slimy sweet but if i don't tell her i have to keep hiding it and thats especaly hard because of school and i had my period on christmas so thats really hard to have happen because it's sooo verry hard to be around people because you wanna chop everyones heads off and not only that but to keep my mom from knowing i cant buy any pads at the store or get any from school so i have to use toilte paper instead, what should i do about all this?

2007-01-22 01:29:59 · 4 answers · asked by anime_manga_geek 2 in Family

Please help, my son does not like school. He wants to go to a different school but its out of our district. He thinks we should do anything we can to make him happy, send him to private school or homeschool. There is only 4 months of school left and we have told him to just finish this year and we will talk about other options this summer. He says no and will make us all unhappy if he has to be unhappy. He played baseball w/ the high school team last year, and knows people. But has a wall up and says he has no friends. He is in threapy , but nothing seems to be working except making us all crazy. What should we do?

2007-01-22 01:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have never seen such a bunch of "Iam reporting you" people. It makes you understand how the Nazi's got help, doesn't it? Wht do you think?

2007-01-22 01:29:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 15, turning 16 in June, and this guy that I'm seeing is 20. Everything was going awesome until this weekend he called me all upset about how he was deathly afraid of going to jail because of the age difference. He was really scared about everything and in the end he ended up ditching me for the date we had planned and hung up on me on the phone after he told me that i really needed to think about things and to call him tomorrow. I really like this guy and I think we could go far. My parents are completely fine with the whole situation, I've always dated older guys.. But he's coming over tonight to talk and I don't know what else to say to him. I want to be with him more than anything, does anyone know what I could say to help comfort him!?!?

2007-01-22 01:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by Intirb 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 18, with a young son called Damien who's 3. I had my son when I was 15(I know!) with my girlfriend Sam. We were at my mum and dad's home in Russia, when it went on fire. I lost my mum,dad and girlfriend. I rescued my then 12yr old brother David and my little sister Anne-Marie, then 5. We were sne tot live with a woman who we had to call Madam in Romania. This was our parents wishes. But she is pure evil. She beats my brother, makes me and him work in a mine and makes my sister work as a servant. I am worried the dust from the mine could harm Damien, as I have to take him down with us. I need advice and has anyone else ever been in this position. I know it sounds wierd.

2007-01-22 01:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 16 year old guy and my family is into nudism. We were raised in the nudist environment but how do I talk to my parents about an embarrassing situation. My aunt Dawn had me and my sister over at her house while my parents were out of town. They have an outside pool and a fenced in backyard. Well as usual, we go nude often as they are into the nudist lifestyle as well. The thing that happened here that is weird is that my Aunt Dawns 13 year old daughter Amanda was walking around nude and this time I got an erection. I know that is nasty cause she is my cousin and I felt really guilty but I got hard when I saw her bare butt. Well now my aunt is angry with me as she saw it and I got scolded. What do I tell my parents? How do I approach them? If I don't my aunt will.

2007-01-22 01:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was this ever ok? and how do i explain why its taboo.

2007-01-22 01:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by moegreen29 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:28:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This has been bothering me for quite some time now. My live in bf of less than a year gives his cat more attention than he gives me. He sweet talks his cat, hugs the cat when he sleeps and says that his cat (his first pet) is considered like a son. He then tells me that he loves me more than anything in the world. I love him to death, and we're very happy together except for this little situation. It just kills me to see that the cat gets more "pampering" than I do. Anyone go through this? Should I be feeling like this? Should I reconsider our relationship because of this? What should I do?

2007-01-22 01:27:59 · 10 answers · asked by Issy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a coworker who has told me he chooses not to have children because he doesn't want them in his home. At the same time, he claims that he would have superb parenting skills if he were a parent. Then he berates his brothers as being terrible parents.

I've told him I think it would be pretty hard for a father to screw up a child. Half the time, the kid is just worried about playtime and Mommy. As long as Dad is not abusive or drunk, and he sticks around when he can, I don't think the kid will be screwed up. My coworker insists fathers have to nurture kids by example. Who is right?

2007-01-22 01:27:09 · 3 answers · asked by manna eater 3 in Family

he accuses me of things like cheating on him flirting with other men i dont though and when i told him i was really against cheating he said i only said that to stop him getting the truth that i do we have been together for four years and i love him so much i just want to be trusted and when we argue isay things to hurt him coz he makes me so mad but always regret them ive tried changing things to stop him getting like this and recently he has been better but every now and then he will have a massive blow out and go over the top paranoid like today i told him my friend has just started seeing someone and i said to her have you yet meaning sex and told him just in conversation and he lost the plot saying i wants to be single i dont love him help

2007-01-22 01:26:47 · 21 answers · asked by missaskalot 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 16 year old guy and my family is into nudism. We were raised in the nudist environment but how do I talk to my parents about an embarrassing situation. My aunt Dawn had me and my sister over at her house while my parents were out of town. They have an outside pool and a fenced in backyard. Well as usual, we go nude often as they are into the nudist lifestyle as well. The thing that happened here that is weird is that my Aunt Dawns 13 year old daughter Amanda was walking around nude and this time I got an erection. I know that is nasty cause she is my cousin and I felt really guilty but I got hard when I saw her bare butt. Well now my aunt is angry with me as she saw it and I got scolded. What do I tell my parents? How do I approach them? If I don't my aunt will.

2007-01-22 01:26:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family