This has been bothering me for quite some time now. My live in bf of less than a year gives his cat more attention than he gives me. He sweet talks his cat, hugs the cat when he sleeps and says that his cat (his first pet) is considered like a son. He then tells me that he loves me more than anything in the world. I love him to death, and we're very happy together except for this little situation. It just kills me to see that the cat gets more "pampering" than I do. Anyone go through this? Should I be feeling like this? Should I reconsider our relationship because of this? What should I do?
2007-01-22 01:27:59 · 10 answers · asked by Issy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would dress up like a cat and purr and see if you get a reaction that way
2007-01-22 01:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not, this is normal. The cat is just an animal, don't be jealous, he does love you but the cat means a lot to him, too.
Just tell him how you feel in a nice way. He probably has no idea you feel this way until you tell him. I would not reconsider your relationship if this is your only issue. Good luck
2007-01-22 01:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by rachel_ksr 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG - stop being like that. He likes his cat but loves you more than anything in the world. What more do you want?
If you really want more pampering, ask for it in a funny way. You could ask him if he doesn't want to pamper the other putty-tat too or something like that. He'll get the meaning.
2007-01-22 01:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Great Dane 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do no longer tension them to attitude one yet another.. depart them on my own. while the canine procedures the cat and barks or is aggressive self-discipline and ultimate the canine, while the canine procedures the cat flippantly, compliment and inspire the canine. enable the cat a room/area the place it may escape to that the canine can no longer pass and depart it relatively is. they'll finally artwork it out. do in basic terms no longer enable the canine to bark at or corner the cat. additionally an identical is going for the cat.. do no longer enable the cat to be aggressive in direction of the canine, a squirt bottle works to ultimate the cat. do no longer enable the canine to chase the cat ever. it relatively is all. I even have 3 canine and four cats plus 2 i'm fostering.. i've got presented dozens of cats and kittens to my canine and relatively they do artwork it out on their own.. you in basic terms could set some obstacles.
2016-10-31 23:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i was having my first child my cat always followed me every where i went like it was protecting or something and my partner was jealous...very jealous of the cat so i kind of understand what you are talking about.
2007-01-22 01:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you seriously talked to him about that? Guys are rarely aware of such things, honestly. Maybe he doesn't know how important it is for you. If he doesn't take that to consideration as much as you'd wish, repeat this a few times, then he may realize that you take it seriously. Good luck, and take care
2007-01-22 01:35:27 · answer #6 · answered by Iguana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are making this bigger than it is. He has told you that he loves you. Lets face it, it is only a cat, it's not as though he is going to replace you with the cat! ... ... ...
2007-01-22 01:32:46 · answer #7 · answered by melark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should plan to have a baby to shift his attention. Maybe he just really want to have a child.
2007-01-22 01:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Janelyn B 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't compete against his cat. Dump him.
2007-01-22 01:32:15 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it's good to make the cat as BBQ....
2007-01-22 01:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by bali girls 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋