I am a 16 year old guy and my family is into nudism. We were raised in the nudist environment but how do I talk to my parents about an embarrassing situation. My aunt Dawn had me and my sister over at her house while my parents were out of town. They have an outside pool and a fenced in backyard. Well as usual, we go nude often as they are into the nudist lifestyle as well. The thing that happened here that is weird is that my Aunt Dawns 13 year old daughter Amanda was walking around nude and this time I got an erection. I know that is nasty cause she is my cousin and I felt really guilty but I got hard when I saw her bare butt. Well now my aunt is angry with me as she saw it and I got scolded. What do I tell my parents? How do I approach them? If I don't my aunt will.
2007-01-22 01:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are 16! How can she get mad at that??? You can't always control at that age. Just tell your parents, I am sure that they will understand.
2007-01-22 01:33:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your parents are into the nudist lifestyle, they are very much aware that this happens - in fact, I'm surprised your aunt reacted that way. You could probably go either way with this. Either don't say anything to your parents and treat it as a non-issue unless they bring it up. Or you could let them know what happened and likely hear them laugh about. The simple fact is a 16 year-old guy can get a hard-on just by having the wind blow - seeing young woman naked is bound to kick the hormones into hyperdrive.
For your piece of mind, realize that getting an erection doesn't always relate directly sexual desire. What happened was your body reacting to a stimulus. Yes it's embarrassing, but as long as you don't try to act on it what's the big deal. Ask any man who's sprung a ***** while having a young child move around on his lap how embarrassing this can be. In some ways I envy women for their lack of obvious signs of arousal.
2007-01-22 01:41:36 · answer #2 · answered by Justin H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats their fault for putting a nude chick in front of you, you are not the one with problems they are. Dude thats crazy your a young man of course this will happen its not like its a fat lady or your sis or mom. If your parents get mad then they are stupid for not thinking this might happen. Nude colony hu I would have boned her let alone got wood, thats if i was under 18
2007-01-22 01:36:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can she blame you for something that is perfectly natural? You have nothing to be ashamed about or apologize for. Talk to your dad about it and he will understand.
2007-01-22 01:39:07 · answer #4 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its just normal I think
maybe just say you got that because of something else
I woke up with one this morning, no reason why, I just did
2007-01-22 01:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You didnt do anything wrong.Remember that.
2007-01-22 01:33:18 · answer #6 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say this "Not my fault she has a nice a**"
2007-01-22 01:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by D.ROCK 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋