Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

My partner is not alcohol dependent, but when he starts, he cant stop. He can then be abusive, passive aggressive or violent at times. He will put himself in terrible danger whilst he is on the quest to drink himself to death. I do not matter in this time, nor does anybody else. I have ended the relationship but would like to lead him in the right direction of recovery. This patter happen precisley once per month for whatever reason, the rest of the month is to make up for this and say it will not happen again. Is this a disease or a thing he can control or just bad behaviour? which way do you see it??

2007-01-22 01:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Abigail 3 in Marriage & Divorce

he's been in a three yr relationship which has been on and off , he had his issues which made the relationship break in the past but he decided that he wants to be serious ... however now she wants to break up with him so he's heartbroken .. i tried to give him advice but it's hard since he screwed up the past yrs.. but she's very confused because he's doing everything for her but one day she wants him and the next she doesn't care ... what should i say to him ?

2007-01-22 01:25:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

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2007-01-22 01:24:50 · 4 answers · asked by genecon 2 in Weddings

I am deeply in love with a girl but I have told her my feeling three months ago and she said she just want to be friends.

What I am concerned right now is that she might fall in love with someone who does NOT deserve her at all. I know it might be just my overreacted feeling and it has not been proven that she has any feeling for him.

He is such a lazy, carefree, irresponsible, pretty irritating jerk. He hangs out with all those gangsters who disregard their studies and only care about games and plays. He always try to act smart. Moreover, today I spot him cheating for a class test.

She is completely the opposite: Dilligent, kind-hearted, responsible, creative, et cetera. I feel like she is someone who will always dominate my heart and she will always be someone I truly love.

That's why I would not want her to be with someone who does not deserve her at all. I apologize for my ego but at least I am better than him. Should I keep trying to win her? Any advise? We're 14

2007-01-22 01:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Singles & Dating

Yea, this girl from my high school is really kwl to me. I really like her and we can both draw anime/manga real good. She last drew me a picture was funny bcuz the girl charater(her) was hard (in the nipples plp) and I could see she erased the nipples. The boy character (supposedly me) was all nervous and looking down at her breast. So I wrote a note the next day telling her, "I knew it, you are a horny girl", and that I saw she erased the nipples. I said if she wanted me to draw an intimate picture its kewl but I wouldnt go down low as hentai(anime porn)(but i was kidding about drawing an intimate scene at all). Becuz im not into that mushy anime stuff, but into the hardcore action. So after the weekend past she gave me a note this morning saying,"Heh heh me horny"? and she said "the pic wasnt suppose to turn out like that". Also she said she drew me nervous cuz im always nervous aroun her n that im a "dirty dirty boy". She also said she knew I always had a pervish side and that she loves it! What does that mean, im not a perve, I just like to mess with her n now im branded with being a perve. Does she want me to draw her an intimate pic, omg do you think she likes me enough to want me to draw that!!!??? Im not trying to get her off or ne thing.

2007-01-22 01:24:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Look, this guy is my best friend. He made a move on me... He asks me "you like my perfume?" so i lean in to smell it, and he kisses me. No one was there except for me and him. So he says "do you wanna go all the way"... And I just ran and left because he's my best friend... Now what do I say to him tomorrow? I don't wanna go with him all the way... I'm only 16... Please Hel im in deep dodo!!



So this is what i asked earlier. NOw I texted him, and told him we have to meet. We met, and it happened... I kissed HIM!! I don't know what got over me... Then you know where kisses lead to... so now what should i do.. I didn't let him take my virginity though. He touched me and kissed me and everything but i didnt let him do that.. So now what should I do???? Tell my parents? my friends? Siblings? or just shut up?? Should I break up with him. NOt be friends with him anyomore? Or should I let him do what hi wants to me? (with my control of course)

2007-01-22 01:24:15 · 11 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1 in Singles & Dating

We have almost nothing in common, she has a 13 yr old daughter that I don't get along with and I have no say about discipline or how to continue to raise even though my money also pays the bills, but i believe it is because of how she is being raised so that would fall on the mother. We have a 2yr old daughter together whom I can't live without but I feel that this relationship is going nowhere and I don't want to resent her(girlfriend) by staying but I don't want to leave my daughter. I am feeling stuck and need help any comments?

2007-01-22 01:23:55 · 2 answers · asked by mdom616 1 in Singles & Dating

We have been married 10 years and have 3 lovely kids, a great home and good income. Since Xmas she has been acting distant and last week dropped the bombshell that she no longer loves me. She also said she has been feeling like this for 2 years!! I'm devastated as she is my world. Since the last of our kids was born 7 years ago, our sex life hasn't been too good and every time I have tried to talk to her about it and concentrating on spending time on 'us' she has refused, yet would bend over backwards for anybody else. We both have busy careers, I work shift work, and of course the kids have loads of activities which eats away lots of our time. She has recently become very ambitious with her career and wants to progress as quickly as possible. She is also buying herself new clothes, getting fit (she's stunning anyway!!) and going out with friends (without her wedding rings on which really upsets me!!). I feel that I'm a broken person and don't know wher to turn. Any advice please??

2007-01-22 01:23:31 · 22 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 01:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1 in Singles & Dating

But both of them have similar qualities and they are both nice,but the truth is one is not so hot looking,and the other one is to die for. uuum.

2007-01-22 01:22:15 · 11 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Singles & Dating

are you as predictable as your central heating timer switch or the nine o'clock news...or unpredictable as the sea and the wind???

2007-01-22 01:22:07 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last year I lost 25 pounds. Everyone said I looked great. My boyfriend said "You need to quit losing weight, your skin is looking saggy!!" I was so hurt by his comments. I even asked if he was secretly jealous, and he said "no." I went back to some old eating habits and gained the weight back. I asked him recently why he said that to me and he said, "I never said that. I only thought that you had lost enough weight." I can't get over his insensitivity, and I fear that he may do it again. What is up with this?

2007-01-22 01:22:04 · 6 answers · asked by susan15022001 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:21:14 · 12 answers · asked by jenjadekim 2 in Family

I want to get my girls something special that they can keep forever (so not vouchers), my budget is around £100 for each.

Any ideas, gratefully received!

2007-01-22 01:21:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

the new guy im dating is someone my ex was really jealous of even tho there was nothing between me and my friend at the time... but his jealousy got out of hand till my ex gave me an ultimatum, he said-u choose him or me... and i told him we needed a break, then broke up with him for good 3weeks later

2007-01-22 01:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

ok I have a question about one of my best friends. She has been dating this guy for almost 2 years now. He lived with her until July of last year. She has a son that is 8 years old and while she worked he would babysit for her. I guess her son didnt mind him so once he gave her son hot sauce and on another occasion he gave her son horseraddish sauce. When he told her about it she told him not to do it again. Well when her son wouldnt mind him again he made her son take a cold shower and then on another occasion while her son was taking a shower her son was wining about the water getting in his eyes the guy put his hands on her sons neck and pushed the boy into the water. It never left any marks. Well he had also got my friend behind in money to where she wrote out bad checks. Anyway she asked her mom for help and her mom took control kicking this man out and took her daughters checkbook well her daughter is 30 years old. This girls mother moved her and her son in with her and will not

2007-01-22 01:20:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and he's a great friend, we get along great and we always have good conversations, but I am not a believer in religion. I have faith in myself and that's what gets me by, and to everyone that is religious I respect you and your beliefs, everybody has something different to believe in, as long as it makes you happy. But...my friend likes to send me emails and tell me stories about Christ and the Bible, and even though this friend knows what I believe in, he continues to do it. It makes me feel uncomfortable, and not listened to. It kind of feels like he's forcing me to believe what he believes in, even after telling him that I just want to hear from him, and not these stories. What should I do? Serious replies only. Thank you!

2007-01-22 01:20:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-22 01:17:41 · 17 answers · asked by vinuthna 1 in Singles & Dating

we grinded at the school dance

2007-01-22 01:17:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it seem some,like to see how many point they can earn,an do not care,how are what they say

2007-01-22 01:17:10 · 1 answers · asked by ghostwalker077 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it common for the mistress to show up at the same functions.
I went to a party with my sister and her husband, and my sister saw the lady that her husband had been having relations with for some time. Why do these women do that when the man is with his wife all night at the party?

2007-01-22 01:17:07 · 6 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

i met a girl online and we had an email correspondance only , then we agreed to meet in a cafe ..
the reason of the meeting is just to meet new people , we did not have any love or flirting relation online ..
now i want to start a love story with her , because i like her(she sent me a pic) and i like the way of her thinking ..
how can i start that ?? is there any methodology ?

2007-01-22 01:17:00 · 7 answers · asked by kermit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 01:16:47 · 4 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Friends

2007-01-22 01:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Bridezilla 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are both in our twenties and have been together about 8 months, and we live together. I have noticed in the history on his computer that he looks at a lot of "granny porn." I've seen it in his history many times over the last few months, so I know it wasn't just a one-time thing. The stuff he's looking at involves really old ladies, and it grosses me out. Is this normal?? Should I say something or just let it go?

2007-01-22 01:16:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even if he threatens to stop liking you but you really love him and you dont want him to break up with you what should you do?????

2007-01-22 01:16:12 · 13 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Friends

2007-01-22 01:15:51 · 3 answers · asked by Malik M 1 in Singles & Dating

And what is a good color choice for the bridesmaids gowns to go with the bride's cream colored & gold sequenced gown?

2007-01-22 01:14:38 · 14 answers · asked by Liz^24 4 in Weddings

chaith just joking but question is serious

2007-01-22 01:13:53 · 13 answers · asked by boyana c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

No one is perfect. You can leave your spouse because you didn't like his laugh ( after ten years.) or you didn't like his friends or you had a feeling of "unhappiness." You can always come up with something. Why don't people just say that they wanted to do something else instead of blaming it on the spouse?

2007-01-22 01:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce