I am deeply in love with a girl but I have told her my feeling three months ago and she said she just want to be friends.
What I am concerned right now is that she might fall in love with someone who does NOT deserve her at all. I know it might be just my overreacted feeling and it has not been proven that she has any feeling for him.
He is such a lazy, carefree, irresponsible, pretty irritating jerk. He hangs out with all those gangsters who disregard their studies and only care about games and plays. He always try to act smart. Moreover, today I spot him cheating for a class test.
She is completely the opposite: Dilligent, kind-hearted, responsible, creative, et cetera. I feel like she is someone who will always dominate my heart and she will always be someone I truly love.
That's why I would not want her to be with someone who does not deserve her at all. I apologize for my ego but at least I am better than him. Should I keep trying to win her? Any advise? We're 14
2007-01-22 01:24:33 · 6 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its destiny...my advice is 2 tell her u like her before someone else and listen 2 her feelings. if she doesnt want u...its hard, but act calm and say its ok. walk away...after a point, look back at her.... this might make her feel bad about deserting u.
2007-01-22 01:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditto Dana. You're 14. You've got a lot of life to live, and a lot of people to meet in that life. You may always remember her as your first major crush, or the first girl that gave you butterflies, but she has to learn to make her own mistakes. There are other fish in the sea.
2007-01-22 09:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she told you that she wants to be friends once, she told you again for the rest of your days. Let the girl do what she wants and don't try to interfere in her love life.
2007-01-22 13:13:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like ur in over ur head just a little buddy...if ure talkin in general that is...now if she is tryin to be w. a specidic person and u know theyre no good u should tell her...if she wants to still find out for herself just let her do it and tell her if it doesnt work out for her she cant complain to u since u already gave her a heads up
2007-01-22 09:31:33 · answer #4 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are both too young to worry about it. She is going to make her own decisions, and you pretty much just have to deal with it. Be her friend when she needs you. But don't try too hard.
2007-01-22 09:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by precious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this quote, "immature love is wanting the person to only want to be with you" "mature love is wanting that person to be with whoever makes them happy"
2007-01-22 09:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by maria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋