We have almost nothing in common, she has a 13 yr old daughter that I don't get along with and I have no say about discipline or how to continue to raise even though my money also pays the bills, but i believe it is because of how she is being raised so that would fall on the mother. We have a 2yr old daughter together whom I can't live without but I feel that this relationship is going nowhere and I don't want to resent her(girlfriend) by staying but I don't want to leave my daughter. I am feeling stuck and need help any comments?
2007-01-22 01:23:55 · 2 answers · asked by mdom616 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its always bad to "stay just because of the kids." Not only will you start to resent her, but the kids will start to pick up thats theres problems between you 2, and then the fighting, and kids just don't need to be a part of that... you will have a right to your daughter, getting to see her, visitations, you have to do what makes you happy, in the long run its better for everyone involved.
2007-01-22 01:28:51 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
god help you !!!!!!!!!
a 2 year old? gonna be a lot of noise at night
and 3000 more diapers to change
all that breastfeeding too
discipline could be a serious issue I think sometimes, be firm but fair I think
13 year olds are nicer and easy to deal with I think, you can reason with them I think
maybe send the 2 year old to an orphanage though.
2007-01-22 09:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋