even if he threatens to stop liking you but you really love him and you dont want him to break up with you what should you do?????
2007-01-22 01:16:12 · 13 answers · asked by ~lipgloss barbie doll~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell him "goodbye". He's using emotional blackmail to have sex with you and he's a pig. He does NOT love you, so it's best you start learning self-respect now and never mind holding on to someone who is not worthy of you.
2007-01-22 01:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. Nobody who really truly loves and is in love with you would make you do that. It hurts, but its the truth; Don't do it. You may think you're in love, maybe just because he's told you it, but even if you are, don't. It is probably just infatuation. 15 is an age where hormones are raging; they send all sorts of confusing messages. Add this to the things people are telling you and acting towards you, and its confusing. Don't do it; the fact that he's threatened to break up with you means he does not love you.
2007-01-22 09:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by Caroline O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up girl! when has your mind stop thinking? How can you be so sure that he won't leave you if you did it with him. Do not give in to him. He doesn't love you because if he does he won't blackmail you to do things that you aren't prepared to do. It will ruin your future and what if you get pregnant? He will leave you the moment you tell him that. He won't use your feelings to get things that you don't want to give. Find a better man. You'll find someone better better yet break up with him. If you did you will be crying now but you will move on but if you do it with him you will not only be crying your life will be miserable. Love yourself first before you enter on such relationships. He just wants to use you. He only wants sex.
2007-01-22 09:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not love it's infatuation and if you don't he said he's gonna leave and i think if you do he's still gonna leave. So don't, by the way you are too young to be having sex.You should be concentrating on more important things at this age like your school work.Nothing is wrong with keeping your virginity until the time is right and your old enough to handle the consequences of sex.
2007-01-22 09:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by beautiful 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look being a virgin is something special that you should lose to a person that deserves it and this guy does not seem like the right guy the right guy is the one that is willing to wait until you are ready don't let him pressure you if he told you this that means he doesn't like you cause if you say no he cant stop liking you from one day to another if he tells you every girl is losing it well tell him to go get one because you are special and not like the others
good luck and remember there are more fish in the sea
2007-01-23 13:58:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, right there is your answer. If he threatens to leave you over sex @ 15 yrs old, then he must not care about who you are, or why he dates you, he wants sex. DON'T do it. i lost my virginity @ 15, AND I REGRET IT. What will you do, if you finally do it, then he breaks up with you? Then you will be writing us and saying your depressed. Be CAREFUL.
2007-01-22 09:28:13 · answer #6 · answered by mozartbuffy69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO. You don't "do" it with anyone unless you really want to. If he can just threaten to "stop liking you" he can't really love you. Also if he really loved you he wouldn't try to push you to do anything you didn't want to do.
You will have pleanty of oppertunitys to "do it" in future and it should only be with someone YOU want to "do it " with.
2007-01-22 11:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by justme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should re-evaluate your relationship , any guy who is going to pressure you to do anything , is not worth having no matter how cute or how "nice" he can sometimes be.... its better to be a lone then to do ANYTHING you dont want to do or will regret in the future... dont worry, another GOOD guy will come a long i Promise! Protect your heart.
2007-01-22 09:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by LuvBrownies 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it! You don't have a clue what real love is and neither does he if he is using threats in order to get laid. A real love would not pressure you into anything! Besides, its just puppy love. Real love is something you learn over time, not just feel.
2007-01-22 09:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
depends on the couple its a risk u got to be perfect match love each other obessed with each other e.g of obession when u want to know the food they eat the words they speak where they live more than anything so u have to be totally in love with them true love never cheat care and hopefully have feelings for life then yes OTHERWISE NO AND IF U DO use protetion cuz hes propley not clean and u may get pregnant and u could get std so make sure u are those things and if you was sorrful or pity depressed desprate etc then do it
2007-01-22 09:21:07 · answer #10 · answered by ash r 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋