the new guy im dating is someone my ex was really jealous of even tho there was nothing between me and my friend at the time... but his jealousy got out of hand till my ex gave me an ultimatum, he said-u choose him or me... and i told him we needed a break, then broke up with him for good 3weeks later
2007-01-22 01:20:57 · 10 answers · asked by mary 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you owe him nothing i mean its not as if you were married. **** happens!
2007-01-22 01:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really doesn't sound good to me. He loves you but wants to get away from you for a little bit to "figure out his life"? That's usually code for someone wanting to play around some but try not to feel guilty about it, and/or wants a safety net to be able to return to. Has he actually said what it is he wants to accomplish with this separation? Or why he couldn't do it in a relationship with you? Big warning flags if he can only speak in general terms like this. You can certainly work on yourself... for yourself. Changes you make for him likely won't last, even if he does come back. But you can't control if he does choose to return or not, or whatever he may be doing in the meantime. He's already told you that he seeks attention from others -- affection and/or flirting and/or sex -- to self-medicate his depression; you haven't said anything that suggests that this would change (now while separated, or if you did get back together). Are you okay with that? If not, what would you do?
2016-05-24 17:33:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you are only with this new guy to make your ex jealous. be honest with yourself and truly ask what you want and what will make you happy. you're your own person and shouldn't define yourself based on another person.
stand up and have an identity. otherwise you just become boring.
2007-01-22 01:29:07 · answer #3 · answered by divine i 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol just tell him dont take dis personal or anything but im dating someone else...i mean after all u guys broke up...and he dont own u so he caint do nothing bout it....well good luck about dis..hope for da best of ya
2007-01-22 01:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your EX right ...... then way the hell do you care hes not in your life anymore and hes not your man who gives a s*** what he thinks ..move on and stop caring what your ex will think or your new relationship will be over to
2007-01-22 01:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by bonnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you broke up and it's over, then he doesn't even need to know your business. Are you wanting to hurt him for some reason?
2007-01-22 01:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by Squirrley Temple 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so whats the point you are already broke up
who cares what you are doing now
2007-01-22 01:23:48 · answer #7 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to tell him anything..he is your EX boyfriend.
2007-01-22 01:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and why should he really care??? he is your EX --- and what you do is no longer any of his business ---- have fun and dont worry about what your EX may think ---- unless you would rather be with him????
2007-01-22 01:25:37 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him, it's none of his business. You broke up.
2007-01-22 02:17:11 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋