Family & Relationships - 22 January 2007

my mom has already oked me doin this this summer...i want to move closer to him...i rly need to get away from my parents...it might just be during the summer and i come back and finish school then move back there permantly after my senior year...my parents are gettin a divorce and if im night arguin with my mom or lil sister it my dad...i try to get along and everything..but they are never happy with ne thing i do...so yea...but what is your opinion...??

2007-01-22 02:08:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I wanted to answer to each individual thanking them for the time they took answering my question and did not know how.I ended up choosing a best answer without knowing I was doing so and it got marked. But I wanted to choose another one as best answer.How do I let this people know how much they helped me?And how do I thank them?

2007-01-22 02:08:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My b/f's friend was talking about some kamasutra thing. (something like that) What is it?? He was saying that he thinks I could do everything in it. What did he mean??

2007-01-22 02:07:04 · 7 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Well here it is, I have this friend who ive been friends with for about 4 years now, we live about 15 miles apart which isn't alot about 15 minutes on the train for me, she drives. I also work int his town so am there nearly every day, and go there shopping alot on my days off. I often text her to let her know if im on a day off and going over there shopping or whatever (she isn't work at the moment). But she will either say she cant meet up because she has no money, or that she forgot I had asked her. So I invite her over to mine but she says for whatever reason she cant at the time, but then she will text me saying im in your town want to meet me, the last few times I have been out so I wasn't there and I tell her this. So then we end up rowing about not meeting and she says she comes to see me, but I explain that i am not always going to be in, so i cant help that she dosen't give me notice of this. Now she is kind of seeing this guy who lives in my road but she hasn't met him yet

2007-01-22 02:06:58 · 3 answers · asked by I~Love~Baileys 3 in Friends

Ok here it goes. My g/f's dad has just gotten arrested for robbing a bank. I am very serious on this matter. Well he got arrested Saturday. And since then it’s all been down hill. I’ve been there for my g/f in anyway I could. But I feel that she is now putting a wall inbetween us. I just don’t know what to say to her that I haven’t already said to her to get around this wall. I just need some advice on how to confront her about it. Thank you.

2007-01-22 02:06:45 · 12 answers · asked by Dennis 1 in Singles & Dating

Its goin to be 5 years of being together and 3 years of being married. we have a 2 year old. Anyhow, I want out of this realationship, I have givin it all to make this realationship work. I have sacrifise many things for my husband but he pays me back by making me suffer, abusing me not only physicaly but in any other way he thinks he can break me. We live together and we have spoken many times on how this realationship is obiosly not working for both of us, he wont move out thought, he is job less right now and doesnt have any money, I tould him that if he finds an apartment I'll even pay the security deposit and 2 months rent, He said no because he'll be in debt with me. We then got into an argument he tould me his not goin anywhere and I would have to call the police to kick him out and if I locked him up when he comes out he'll make sure I die and everyone in my family. I know most people would say "move, leave the state, dissapear but My family owns a Business for the pass 22 yrs

2007-01-22 02:06:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm marryed a old friend from the pasted has come into my life on the other side of the country that I have always cared for do I stay true to my marrage or go after a love from years ago that may have change over the years I care for my wife but don't know if I'm still in love with my wife ?

2007-01-22 02:05:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex girlfriend, dumped me 5 months ago after a four year relationship.... This morning i signed on MSN messenger, (i aint been on for months) i aint spoke to the ex for about 3 1/2 months, She I M asking ''Why am I not speaking to her''

WTF, is she stupid or something...?
Is this normal for the 'dumper' to do this..?

Part 2...!

She sent a christmas card, new years txt, i ignored all of them...!

Im with a new gal naw, and shes seeing someone aswell... So why just she need some sort of 'attention' of me..?

2007-01-22 02:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has been there for me in everyway and helped me through a lot of things. He is willing to anything for me and I just kind of want to surprise him and let him know I appreciate everything he does, but what can I do? What would you like your girlfriend to do? He is a country person, so flowers wouldn't be what he wants.

2007-01-22 02:02:53 · 7 answers · asked by padros 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My son is 9 years old. I raised him by myself until he was 5. Then I got married. However for the last 4 years I have been dying to take my son to Disney World. This year I will be able to afford it because of some side work that I am doing that I get paid for next month. The money can pay for the whole trip for our family of 3 for 4 nights and 3 days. The only problem is my husband, who actually is not my son's real father, doesn't want to go. He feels that all the money I will make should go to our house. Don't get me wrong...we have no problem paying for our house otherwise. He doesn't want to go because he doesn't want to use the money and doesn't want to take the time off work. So I went ahead and booked the trip for my son and I to go on spring break anyway. I haven't told him yet, I want him to go but I know he won't want to. Is this so wrong to plan the trip without him? I love my son dearly and I have never taken him on any big vacation...ever.

2007-01-22 02:02:31 · 35 answers · asked by lacygirl10 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at my b/f's house and we were watching tv. Is how he acted Normal??
I fell asleep in his arms and he started feeling me up. He claims he just couldn't help it. He says that watching me compete in my gymnastics meet just makes him get turned on and he can't help it. He says even though it was hours later, he still thought about the meet. Is this a normal guy??

2007-01-22 02:02:22 · 4 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

I told him he can gladly call me Cuddle Bug but he prefers the nickname Hottie.

2007-01-22 02:02:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any experience with this subject as far as what the "Rule" for lack of a better word is for determining the amount that will be paid? I know it's a percentage, but I'm trying to estimate about how much it will cost in the event (going through counseling now) of a divorce so I can better prepare for it.

2007-01-22 02:01:26 · 15 answers · asked by genetic_traitor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-22 02:01:18 · 24 answers · asked by Crys L 2 in Weddings

2007-01-22 02:01:14 · 4 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

for marrige, and everything

2007-01-22 02:00:47 · 24 answers · asked by So_Seductive 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-22 02:00:45 · 4 answers · asked by jk 1 in Friends

Other than just coming right out and asking him if he likes you, what other methods would you use to figure him out?

2007-01-22 02:00:38 · 2 answers · asked by Dasher 2 in Singles & Dating

she told me today that she can't give me certainty about the future and all that sfuff,,,,,i allready know that but what i want to know is my feelings are true for this girl the relationship is not really started yet,,,,am i making a mistake telling her my true feelings and all that stuff?? will she try to take advantage coz she knows i like her so much,,,we did i backwards we had sex first now we are getting to know each other,,,,she made me chase her to see if i want her just for sex or if i really want her,,,well i really want her what other things should i do to make her fall in love with me??? there are 3 ???s here could i get an answer for all please,,,thanks

2007-01-22 01:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant and just got married - The owner of the company I work for says uses hard drugs(I know for a fact) and says nasty things to me and other men that work here compliment me in sexually explicit ways. Everyone including my family is telling me to stay here and I don't understand why everyone wants me to be sexually harrassed while I'm pregnant and recently married! I just admitted to my husband this morning what was going on and he and his own mother told me to just "tell my supervisor" - which is the owner's daughter and have something done about it. All they care about is the fact that I work and make money - they don't care about the surroundings. I am so unhappy and feel so alone.

2007-01-22 01:59:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2years, we are in a long distance relationship she is in school in FL, I am in CT. We see each other all the time so it isnt too bad. However, a few days ago she has told me that she has been confused lately. She says she still loves me and wants to be with me, but needs some time to be on her own. We have had a very intense relationship, we have both expressed interest in marriage and all so i know her feeling for me havent changed. What do I do? I want to give her space like she needs, but i dont want to lose her all together. She has told me when she comes home in a couple months that we will talk about us again. Meanwhile I told her that she is the only one for me and I'm not going to move on and she has said that she is not trying to move on either, just needs to do this for herself. So do I just sit back and wait, I've already done everything possible to show her that I truly love her and care about her. confused.

2007-01-22 01:58:47 · 3 answers · asked by Luke R 1 in Singles & Dating

Have been with this guy for 6months and we are getting married later on this year. I do not believe in asking about past relationships, coz i think that the past is the past. But i cannot help to think weather he has had a gal before, the reason i dnt want to ask is i dont wanna talk abt mine, so i dnt think that its fair. We have share more than a kiss and a cuddle but it took him months to do so he is a bit shy, but he knew all the right places to touch etc. Is he a virgin or not??? When i asked him why it took so long to kiss me, he said that i cud have made the 1st move! what sud i think plz help!!!!

2007-01-22 01:58:30 · 24 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Singles & Dating

I am having a winter wedding and my bridesmaids are wearing blue gowns. i want red bouques with holley berries and pine in them

2007-01-22 01:58:24 · 15 answers · asked by amanda C 1 in Weddings

I was at my b/f's house and we were watching tv. Is how he acted normal??

2007-01-22 01:57:25 · 4 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

See I have been with this guy for a little over 4 years now and he has cheated on me with a girl who was 14 at the time and even though he doesn't want to be with her she want leave him alone. Well my problem is that after he done that it has been so hard for me to forgive him b/c he was 18 at the time and I was 18 also. We are both 20 now and the girl is 16 and has a baby but says its his and he denies it. Ever since then things haven't been the same I have built this wall up against him and I don't trust him at all but still love him some. I am at the point that I don't know how to just let it go and move on. I'm afraid that if I move on to someone else then I'm going to build the same wall up with that person b/c I'm going to be afraid to trust anyone. What can i do to get over this and move on?

2007-01-22 01:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by sweety_8620 2 in Singles & Dating

One of the things we both wanted was to remain amicable, good parenting partners, and possibly even friends afterwards.
Unfortuantely, our separation now in the middle of negotiating stages, and living quarters disagreements, has become tense, somewhat hostile, and somewhat of a mudflinging affair.

Is this just the natural progression from all the stress and pent up anger of the situation......and can we still return to what we had envisioned with a little time?

Or will the hurt and hate always be partially there, beause we are both starting to lose faith that things will be amicable in long run.

Lots of disdain at moment, and we've both made mistakes and done questionable things causing heartache to each other.

Will this pass once we're in separate places?

2007-01-22 01:56:40 · 11 answers · asked by Kaboom 3 in Marriage & Divorce

She could bearly cope with work (she's/was a teacher).
Found it hard to make friends of her own. When she was with me and my friends she projected her fears of finding it hard to make friends so much that my friends found her hard work.
Because I love her totally I pulled back from a lot of my friends to show her she was my BESTEST friend...we are engaged.
Found out she been binging and purging recently.
Now she says its all my fault....I mean all of the above? I feel awful!! What could I have done to her to be like this.
She's been having therapy for years for issues relating to her elderly mother and the none relationship she had with her father. I even attended many sessions with her just to hold her hand.
Now she rages at me that I NEED COUNSELLING!!??
Please help if any of this sounds familiar.

2007-01-22 01:56:36 · 6 answers · asked by SledgeHammer 2 in Friends

HOW ABOUT TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR LIFE FOR A CHANGE!!!!

YOU!! broke that Martini glass ( full of that freaking blue martini ) on my head and some of it and broken glass fell on my spaghetti and i don't like to waste one drop of my mother's sauce and i had to pitch it!!!!! Was i suppose to thank-you or something??

2007-01-22 01:56:20 · 9 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

one guy who I really like I act shy with because I like him and am thinking about asking him out but I don't know if I should because we are so different but he looks at me alot kind of odd so my ? is this Should I ask him out or let him know I am interested

2007-01-22 01:55:54 · 6 answers · asked by spawnof_thedevil 2 in Singles & Dating

any ideas about a cute present to my husband in valantiens day......saying how much i love him?

2007-01-22 01:55:46 · 14 answers · asked by choclat 1 in Weddings