My ex girlfriend, dumped me 5 months ago after a four year relationship.... This morning i signed on MSN messenger, (i aint been on for months) i aint spoke to the ex for about 3 1/2 months, She I M asking ''Why am I not speaking to her''
WTF, is she stupid or something...?
Is this normal for the 'dumper' to do this..?
Part 2...!
She sent a christmas card, new years txt, i ignored all of them...!
Im with a new gal naw, and shes seeing someone aswell... So why just she need some sort of 'attention' of me..?
2007-01-22 02:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she thought that after 4 years together, you could handle a breakup like a mature adult... and you guys could still be friends afterwards. You do have some history together.
This sort of stubborn inability to compromise does give an outsider some insight into why she might have dumped you. No offense.
2007-01-22 02:14:03 · answer #1 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats good you already moved on but she hasn't. All you can keep ignore her forever, it is nothing can change her but maybe later she will notice that you been ignoring her and it might give her a hint that you are not interested to talk to her. I think she believes that ex boyfriend/ex girlfriend will be friends again. So i guess you don't want to be friend with her again.. All you have to speak it up to her and tell her that you are not interested to be friend with her and have her please to leave you alone. She might need to know something than keep botherin you.
2007-01-22 02:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is regretting the break up and now she thinks if she gets back in then she has you again. don't give her that satisfaction of the day. if you have moved on then stay moving down look back. she is trying to play games and let's face it no one has time for games exspecially when it comes to the heart. stay with the one you have and tell her that she made her bed now lie in it. you both have moved on and it isn't fair to the other ppl that are involved in this situation. good luck
2007-01-22 02:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by lover143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilt. She feels bad at dumping you and wants you to tell her its all ok, thats its for the best blah, blah, blah.
Either that, or she realises what she's lost and wants to try and worm her way back in.
Stay well clear of her, block her on IM and focus on your new girl.
2007-01-22 02:09:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could either keep ignoring her or text her to leave you alone.
2007-01-22 02:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋