Is Virginity Important?

Question

for marrige, and everything

Answer 1

Your virginity can only be given once. I'm sure there are many girls and women who regret giving their virginity to the person they gave it to, but hind sight makes things so clear that you cannot see at the time. Young love blinds you to your lovers faults and to your future together. On the other hand, I'm sure there are plenty of women who cherish who they gave it to. The real question is he the one. Saving it for marriage, you are placing your bet on someone who is ready to make a commitment to you. But, only you can answer this question.

Answer 2

No, and, actually, virgins are quite boring. I'll tell you why.
Sluts are fun. They have had some wild times. They're tried everything from toys, pools, public places, animals, videos, three-ways. What have virgins tried? Baking tuna casseroles? What the f***?

We all know that the excitement dies after marriage. Sluts have the experience and the resources to make it fun again.

What are virgins bringing to the table? They don't know anything and it's too late to learn.

This goes for guys too.

Ladies, do you want to guy who's afraid to toss your salad? Or rub his face all over your p*ssy?

I didn't think so.

If you're about to get married, you better get signed up for some pole-dancing classes before you go from engaged back to single.

Answer 3

You will find that many people, in this day and age of sex on television (which has not always been the norm, gasp), are having sex earlier and with more partners than ever, even outside of marriage. I feel that virginity is important.

The way I feel was best summed up by a man I heard who was speaking to a group of teenagers. He asked the crowd how many of them had sex already. Almost all of them raised their hands, grinning proudly. Then he asked, is there ANYBODY who is still a virgin here? And one very young girl raised her hand, the only virgin in the crowd who was willing to admit her virginity. The entire crowd laughed at her and she looked as if she was about to cry.

The man said, I have an important statement to make. This one girl, she could have what the rest of you people have, in a matter of 5 minutes flat. But none of the rest of you will EVER again be able to have what she has. At this, the crowd pondered what had just been said with furrowed brows. And the one girl smiled.

Virginity is something so special that it ought to be treasured highly. Our society as a whole tends not to value it as much as 40 years ago. But if you are a virgin, stay one. Wait for the person who comes along who is also a virgin, who has waited all their life for a virgin, and who is just right for you.

I am 37 and no longer a virgin, but I would be so happy to find a man who is a virgin, who has saved himself for marriage. I think it would be beautiful!

And don't condemn yourself if you lose your virginity prematurely. I lost mine to rape. It happens sometimes. The sad thing, is that many girls who I've worked with who've been raped... are unable to admit that they WISH they'd remained a virgin until marriage. That is, until after I share my own feelings with them. And then they get honest too and reveal the same feelings, in many cases. It's not something to condemn yourself over.

Sometimes, you just gotta pick up your pieces and walk on.

As an addendum: someone else said "what does a virgin bring to the table?" What a virgin brings to the table (I should know, I married one years ago) is a fresh start. When you get two virgins together, you have two people who can start completely fresh with one another... taking a long journey together to explore each other for the rest of their lives. And if they are honest with one another, and can communicate with emotion and intelligence... you know... something better than "Unga Unga Unga" and "Oooh Oooh Oooh" based on noises they learned from porn flicks where the sex is fake anyway... stay away from porn flicks... then the two virgins will in theory have the best marriage ever. Don't let anyone tell you different. With that said, feel free to make your own choice.

The real truth is, Jesus valued virginity... though He was willing to forgive folks who screwed up once they admitted they screwed up. I want to be just like Him in that. God bless you.

Answer 4

I lost mine before my marriage - but in retrospect, and now that I'm older, I wish I had waited. I think if I'd still had it, maybe I wouldn't have married who I did - because he didn't deserve it (I have been divorced 11 yrs now).

If you just absolutely can't wait until marriage, and I think you should and hope you do - then at least be in a long term relationship and make sure that he cares for you. Once it's gone, you can't get it back. It's a precious gift that you can give to a deserving man someday - as long as you have it to give.

Good luck!

Answer 5

Yes. It is and don't let anyone tell you otherwise. If you wait until after marriage to engage in any kind of sexual activity, then think about the benefits.

You will never spend one second worrying if you have an STD.

You will never spend one second worrying about an unwanted pregnancy.

You will never spend one second being depressed because a man has used you, then tossed you aside after he's done.

When you get married to the man of your dreams, when you and your husband are intimate you will think that he is the best lover ever and you won't be comparing him to anyone else.

It is actually easier to wait until after marriage to be sexually active.

Answer 6

I see no reason why it's important. It just happens to mean you haven't as yet as a human being experienced sex.

Depending on age though, it's important. If your below the age 16, it's important on the way your mind works and what path your sex is letting you lead your life.

Answer 7

Very few women today consider virginity important, but those who do, are to be respected and honored.

Answer 8

YES IT IS.With the way things are today virginity on both sides should be very,very important to both parties.

Answer 9

Virginity is a term used to describe the state of never having engaged in sexual intercourse. A person who still has his or her virginity can accordingly be described as being a virgin. In broader usage of these terms, they can characterize a state of unimpacted purity. This purity can be based around something's contents, such as a margarita being described as virgin when it lacks alcohol, or around a lack of experience, such as a player of bingo being described as virgin when he is a newcomer to the game. In other contexts, these terms can apply to someone who has not engaged in sexual activities in general.

With the standard usage of these terms (where the state of purity is thought to come from a lack of sexual intercourse), they have been more commonly applied to women than to men, both historically and in many present-day situations. In fact, the terms traditionally were used to simply describe a female unmarried person or a young girl (lat. "virgo, virginis", as opposed to "vir" meaning "man" or "husband"). However, applying them to men as well has become common in modern times, as the word "maid" lost currency in reference to men. During the Middle English period, the word "maid" referred to a person, whether male or female, who had never been married or sexually active. Geoffrey Chaucer, for instance, used that word in reference to Christ and St. Paul.

The status of virginity is respected and valued in certain societies, particularly when there are religious views regarding sexual conduct before marriage. A woman who is a virgin can also sometimes be referred to as a maiden, although women who are simply unmarried can be referred to as maidens as well

Answer 10

Yes it is important to some of us