Girlfriend says she still loves me, but just needs some time on her own?

Question

I've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 2years, we are in a long distance relationship she is in school in FL, I am in CT. We see each other all the time so it isnt too bad. However, a few days ago she has told me that she has been confused lately. She says she still loves me and wants to be with me, but needs some time to be on her own. We have had a very intense relationship, we have both expressed interest in marriage and all so i know her feeling for me havent changed. What do I do? I want to give her space like she needs, but i dont want to lose her all together. She has told me when she comes home in a couple months that we will talk about us again. Meanwhile I told her that she is the only one for me and I'm not going to move on and she has said that she is not trying to move on either, just needs to do this for herself. So do I just sit back and wait, I've already done everything possible to show her that I truly love her and care about her. confused.

Answer 1

give her space.. but not rrom for another dude.. to move in...females are unstable creatures...be patient but still show interest in her...

Answer 2

No clue. Sometimes people do stuff like this to make the other person break up with them, and sometimes it's because she genuinely needs a break because things are getting to intense, etc. If you really love her, you want to put her happiness above your own. You would do anything for her. Giving her this time to be herself, if it's what she needs, should be okay with you. Yes, there is a chance she won't come back, but she'll be happy doing whatever she's doing, and you should want that for her.

Answer 3

I've found that this is the universal language for people who cannot say to their relationship partner "I'm not interested anymore, but I am too sensitive to tell you straight."

This doesn't mean she is a bad person, just move on to greener pastures.