I'm marryed a old friend from the pasted has come into my life on the other side of the country that I have always cared for do I stay true to my marrage or go after a love from years ago that may have change over the years I care for my wife but don't know if I'm still in love with my wife ?
2007-01-22 02:05:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry. To me you said it all when you said "I'm married." If your marriage isn't working, see a marriage counselor or get out. This feeling could be transitory. If you act on your feeling and your old friend does not reciprocate, you lost them both.
2007-01-22 02:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by David M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay in the marriage, because in a year or so u will feel the same about the old friend, u seek the excitement that comes with something new. but it's called lust and does not last. if u love your wife, don't do it for someone u don't know that well, don't do it because u remember certain things about this person, what u are seeking is to avoid the hum drum of everyday life, and boredom. we all tend to feel bored . things might look greener on the other side of the fence right now, but always seems to change once u get there. marriage never stays in the honeymoon stage no matter who u are with, your looking for that, and to get that u would have to keep changing mates frequently.
2007-01-22 10:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well does this friend care about u? and maby she has changed and remember if u leave ur wife there is no turning back, so u got to ask urself the question "who do i want to spend the rest of my life with?" and "what will be different about this girl from my wife and will i leave this girl if some1 else comes into my life?" just think it through, remeber also u only live once!!!
2007-01-22 10:14:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say, be true to yourself, but on the other hand if your wife has not done anything like this to you than your going to have to be true to her to. Its in the best for you both to tell her now how you feel.
2007-01-22 10:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by puppylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat if you can help it. The grass is not always greener.........You stand to loose everything, do you have children? Talk to your wife about your love loss, work on what you have now rather then adding to your already apparent problems.
2007-01-22 10:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jakes Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something that you need to tlak to your wife about does she know how you loved this other woman? dont move too quickly. you need to first decide is the other one really should be your wife. are you in love with her now or is it the love that you felt for her in the past. dont do nething your going to regret.
2007-01-22 10:08:51 · answer #6 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it at all possible that your brain is stuck in your zipper? Do you really want to throw away a marriage and all that goes with it for someone you had the hots for years ago?
2007-01-22 10:12:15 · answer #7 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do your wedding vows mean nothing to you? Go.... Your wife deserves someone who means what they say and you don't sound like that person.
2007-01-22 10:16:46 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be true to your wife. you cant leave her for a long lost love.
2007-01-22 10:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by yoshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You took the vow - stay with the marriage.
2007-01-22 10:08:06 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋