she told me today that she can't give me certainty about the future and all that sfuff,,,,,i allready know that but what i want to know is my feelings are true for this girl the relationship is not really started yet,,,,am i making a mistake telling her my true feelings and all that stuff?? will she try to take advantage coz she knows i like her so much,,,we did i backwards we had sex first now we are getting to know each other,,,,she made me chase her to see if i want her just for sex or if i really want her,,,well i really want her what other things should i do to make her fall in love with me??? there are 3 ???s here could i get an answer for all please,,,thanks
2007-01-22 01:59:06 · 4 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can never 'make' someone fall in love with you. If you stress about things you'll just build tension into the relationship so chill. Just be yourself and take life as it comes, she'll appreciate you for that and then maybe who knows!?!
2007-01-22 02:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant do anything to make her fall inlove with you - she either will or wont and she cant be hurried into feeling love for you even though you've obviously fallen for her in a big way.
Take a step back. Enjoy being together. Enjoy being happy and making each other laugh. Enjoy time together and look forward to seeing each other. Dont rush things. If its meant to happen, it will.
Good luck x
2007-01-22 02:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by Leiani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be an idea not to be too heavy - ie telling her how you feel -she may feel overwhelmed or she could take advantage of how you feel and that's not a nice route to go!
Take your time, enjoy each other's company and build on what you have with her. Take each day and experience with her as it comes.
Good luck
2007-01-22 02:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont try so hard, just have a relationship!
you cant be anything other than yourself, so if she's going to like you she'll like you, if not then thats life!
chill out, and dont go on telling her you like her all the time, that get's boring!!
2007-01-22 02:12:27 · answer #4 · answered by kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋