was this ever ok? and how do i explain why its taboo.
2007-01-22 01:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by moegreen29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
actually its not pedophilia its like ephebophilia or some big word like that
2007-01-22 01:33:40 · update #1
Explain to him that this is morally wrong. Although the girl may look physically older than she is, her brain & mentality are still that of a child. She needs time to learn about life through experiencing it with people her own age. If he dates her he will be putting her in adult situations that she is not emotionally ready for. He will be making decisons for her that she is not ready for. TO have sex with her would be pedophillia and a severe crime. He would get arrested & be classified as a sex offender for the rest of his life.
Your friend needs help. He has some issues that may stem farther than you realize and he needs psychiatric attention right away. Help him before he hurts her.
2007-01-22 01:38:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's how you explain it:
1) It's illegal.
2) It's pedophilia.
3) It's disgusting.
4) Date someone his/her own age.
Ephebophilia - a sexual preference in which an adult is primarily or exclusively sexually attracted to postpubescent adolescents.
Pedophilia - sexual desire in an adult for a child.
Both apply.
2007-01-22 01:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by uabsupercow 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It was okay back when arranged marriages happened, and like, the time of Jesus. It's illegal for him to date anyone under 18. Ew, I'm 23 and would think twice about dating someone around 30.
2007-01-22 01:31:55 · answer #3 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No he shouldn't date a 14 year old. He needs to find someone his age not his shoes size. For one its gross and it be like dating your niece. Tell him NO and stay away from the girl,
2007-01-22 01:35:18 · answer #4 · answered by DolphJenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he dosen't want to date her he wants something but it is not a relationship.
No that is wrong if she is 19 and he 29 that is still a stretch.
problem!!!!!yes
2007-01-22 01:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by Earth to Mars 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um no if her parents found out they could charge him with statutory rape, whether the girl loved him or not. i know this b/c my cousin thought he loved this 14 yr old girl and he was 19 and they started going together and then her parents found out he is now 32 and just getting out of huntsville prison. please let them know of the risks. Your life in prison is not worth a little girl.
2007-01-22 01:35:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I honestly think if you're wants to date a minor then he should turn himself in because either way he's going to definitely go to jail for that.
2007-01-22 01:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by Rochelle S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not...she is still a kid...a little girl. She is a minor and it is morally wrong, not to mention against the law. Wow!
2007-01-22 01:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by starfall 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont explain anything..have the police explain it.
2007-01-22 01:32:38 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Explain it to him like this......o=his butt before prison,O=his butt while in prison.Convicts dont even like child abusers.
2007-01-22 01:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by et 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋