Is it normal for a guy to do this??
After my gymnastics meet I went to my b/f's house and we were watching tv. I ended up falling asleep in his arms and he placed his hand on my stomach.(it didn't wander too far) He knew I wasn't fully asleep otherwise he wouldn't have done it. Is it normal??
2007-01-22 02:17:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is the first guy I have trusted since I was raped. My friend says this isn't normal. Is it??
2007-01-22 02:20:51 · update #1
Hard for me to say since I wasn't there, but I do know this: Guys will try to get away with as MUCH as they possibly can! They are horny beasts. Be careful.
2007-01-22 02:22:27 · answer #1 · answered by Just me. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This is normal. Guys always want to see how far their hands can wander. Even if he knows about your situation, he may not want to do anything to hurt you. but he IS still a guy. I wouldn't think you have anything to worry about. Just let him know, now is not the time.
2007-01-22 02:24:46 · answer #2 · answered by engineer46526 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's perfectly normal for a guy to put his hand on your stomach and as long as you are comfortable with him doing that since all you have been through I don't see any problem with it, I don't know if you have told him about the rape or not but if you haven't and you are serious about this guy I would recommend explaining to him what happened and that you need to take things very slowly until you're ready for more, if he is serious about you he will be more than willing to cooperate.
2007-01-22 02:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by nightdagger06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want him touching you and he knows that, then no, its not normal, but if he's the kind of guy that rests his hand on your leg or always has his arm around your shoulder or is holding your hand, then dont worry about it. he just likes touching you. and your tummy just might have been a comfortable spot for the way you guys were laying.
2007-01-22 02:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was trying to arouse you but didn't want to get ahead of himself by grabbing your boobs.Then again he might like the way your stomach feels Cuz you're in gymnastics I'm assuming you're quite fit.Yeah it's normal I've done that a time or two.
2007-01-22 02:24:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tatz is normal and sometimes itz nothing to worry about but i knw a couple of guys that just like to touch stomachs so yea
2007-01-22 02:21:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cherri09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very normal.. Are you comfortable when he put his hands on your belly? if so, then its okay. You don't need to listen your friends if it is not normal.
2007-01-22 02:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No this is not normal. The normal thing would have been for him to cup your breasts or rub your bottom.
2007-01-22 02:21:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds OK.
Go to a couselor for the rape though.
2007-01-22 02:22:56 · answer #9 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bf is normal, your friend however needs help more than you.
2007-01-22 02:30:53 · answer #10 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋