If all emails are deleted, is there any way I can take our computer in to retreive them?
2007-01-22 02:38:22 · 9 answers · asked by farildo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you are going through all this trouble to find out if he is cheating on you, and you are suspicious enough to be doing this, then he is probably cheating on you... having the proof in your hands isn't going to change that fact... it will only make you angier, and more apt to do something in the moment of rage.. if you think hes cheating, kick him to the curb and get with someone who will treat you right.
2007-01-22 03:12:28 · answer #1 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do u feel hes cheating on u?
First of all u have to talk to him , maybe confront him if u feel insecure or have a reason to suspect so.
Checking emails is not the answer, not the solution.
There is 50/50 probability of everything. So u might get something on him from emails or u might not, equal chance. But why bother?
Communication is the key, otherwise the relationship stagnates.
Keep comm. open.
Emails deleted go to recycle bin i think though:P
2007-01-22 02:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a smart man he wouldn't have anything in there that you can catch him on, if he is cheating on you and uses his e-mail for communication he will have a different e-mail that you have no idea it exist, so maybe you need to find out if he does have a different one and if he does than most likely he is hiding something he doesn't want you to find out about, i don't think you can retrieve e-mails once there have been erase, his behavior will tell you if he is cheating if he act a different way than usual or if he is not intimate with you as usual than that's a sign.
2007-01-22 02:49:20 · answer #3 · answered by DAMIEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know if your husband is cheating on you? Do you think your husband is cheating on you? That is how you know. Why do we lie to ourselves and pretend that we don't know. You always know. Why do we play detective and try to catch them and then get so sick to our stomachs when we find what we are looking for? Because the man will lie about it? Don't go looking for proof that you really do not want. What you do is find a movie, Oprah show about men having affairs and then watch for his reaction. Start a conversation about how low down a coward has to be to step out on his wife, girlfriend. Tell him that you would rather know than to be made a fool of and on and on. Ask him what his feelings about extra Martial affairs are. Ask him would he rather know. I think the deception is what hurts us the most.
2007-01-26 02:34:30 · answer #4 · answered by newyorktilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are you going through the effort to find out? Has he given you reason to believe he's cheating or are you just that insecure?
2007-01-22 02:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is software you can load on to his computer at you local Circuit City, Best Buy, Radio Shack.
2007-01-22 02:44:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you could get parental spyware. I have iambigbrother.com, it give me passwords, word's typed, screen shots etc. I installed it for kids safety but you could use it for anything you want. It's hidden and nobody knows that you have it. You access it.
2007-01-22 08:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by sbratt2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...don't bother....just keep an eye on things and if you think he is cheating then confront him....good luck
2007-01-22 02:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if emails are deleted, they ARE DELETED. There's nothing you can do.
2007-01-22 02:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by tico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋