We met at my work 18 months ago and he is a regular customer. We became close friends right from the begining and we were both in a relationship at the time. We have always flirted with each other but on a jokey level. Recently we have both been going through problems with our partners which has ended with him finishing with his girlfriend though they are still close. He has supported me through my problems as i have with him. A month ago i was having a really hard time so he took me for a night out along with his ex and his friend. We were all having a great time when he started really flirting with me and he kept telling me he wished his ex wasnt with us. on the way home in the taxi he was all over me kissing my neck it was really intense as Im still with my boyfriend i had to resist but this has made me relaise i want him badly. The problem is nothing has happened since I dont know where I stand. I think we both feel the same about each other but are both to shy to say anything.
2007-01-22 02:41:26 · 9 answers · asked by lilmisstickle2003 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It does not sound as if you resisted over much.
You will, I suspect, make your own decisions whatever anyone hetre says. Hope it works out well.
2007-01-22 02:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever this guy is, he really likes you and sees something in you that he does not see in his ex, the fact that you and him were listening to each others problem with him listening as a friend was a great booster for you, but you need to be sure you know what level you are on with your boyfriend and he needs to know what level he is on with his ex. If you feel you don't want to continue with your boyfriend tell you new guy friend and let him know why you are doing in it and that he is not the reason why in a bad way. Then you tell you boyfriend unless you decide you want to work it out, and just be good friends with the other guy. You know you have to make a decision or your boyfriend is going to find out and it really won't be pretty. Feelings are everything when we like someone but are in a relationship, if you really like this other guy know what you have to do first and then worry about the other part. If you and the new guy want this relationship after you him break from other relationships then go for it. Hope this helps
2007-01-22 10:54:03 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fidelity is very important, at the same time you need to follow your heart. If you want to be with this guy take the plunge, but break up with the boyfriend FIRST!
2007-01-22 10:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by T M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if things are not working out with your boy friend it would be only fair to finish with him before, going with the other fella.
Only you can truly know what and who you want to be with.
2007-01-22 10:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by richard_beckham2001 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does sound like there is a connection between you and if you like him then why dont you ask him what that night ment?
or if your worried about the answer then just make it obvious you like him by flirting but make sure you end it with your current bloke first.
2007-01-22 10:53:35 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happend with me.........i was with my bf for 4 years, i started a new job and met the bloke of my dreams after nearly a year of messing around (just flirting and so on....) one thing led to another and i knew i had to get rid of my bf to be with him. My relationship was awful and he saved me and everything has been perfect since.......were getting married on 16th June this year..........so i say go for it, you have to follow your heart
2007-01-22 10:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take it easy. U guys should not rush into any thing yet, most expecially u. Make sure thats what u!
2007-01-22 10:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is a player and he is using you to make his ex jealous , if he can have sex with you both he will , be wary !
2007-01-22 10:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u lik him .. then u shouldnt really hav a boyfrnd.. end it with him.. then tell him that u dumbed ur boyfrnd.. he'll ask "why? wat happened" and u say 'cuz i hav feelings for u.. he'll react to that right away.. and if wat u say is tru.. that he liks u but is just too shy then ull deffinitly go out.. :P
2007-01-22 10:49:42 · answer #9 · answered by nouna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋