After my gymnastics meet I went to my b/f's house and we were watching tv. He placed his hand on my stomach.(it didn't wander too far) He knew I wasn't fully asleep otherwise he wouldn't have done it. Is it normal??
My friend also says it is odd for a guy to put his arms around you and pick you up and spin you when he hasn't seen you in a while or when I win.
He was there for me before, after, and helped me through all the trama so I trust him.
At times his hands wander but that is normal. He says he loves picking me up b/f I am so tiny(5'1 and 98lbs)
I love all the things he does for me but my friend makes me think it's wrong. Is it??
2007-01-22 02:39:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I enjoy is but she makes me feel used when she says all this about us. Should I just ignore her??
2007-01-22 02:45:55 · update #1
What is your friend talking about!? What is ABNORMAL about any of that? Some guys are just affectionate/touchy-feely. As long as you're not offended or threatened by what he does, there's no problem. My b/f picks me up all the time (I'm also short and I'm not as lightweight as you are lol); he does it because it's fun for him I guess. Men show affection differently than women a lot of the time. They often have to hug or pick you up because it's easier for them than just saying "I think you're great" or "I love you". If he touches you in a way you don't like, just say so, and he shouldn't do it again. If he would do it again, then there's a problem.
Don't feel BAD about it! There's no reason to feel bad. If your friend is insinuating that your b/f is trying to just cop a feel or whatever, I would say just keep your eyes out. If things change and he is overtly trying to pressure you into unwanted sex, then you should speak up and let him know you're not okay with it. Otherwise, don't start having suspicions about your b/f...taking away your trust will ruin your relationship.
2007-01-22 02:48:02 · answer #1 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about what other people think is right and wrong. Are you ok with it? You know what feels right.
2007-01-22 10:44:56 · answer #2 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dont worry about what your friend says she just mad cuz she aint got nobody to that to her yo man loves you thats all dont trip tell ur friend dont trip either shell find somebody one day hopefully.
2007-01-22 10:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by tasashamascott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like it then it is acceptable --- dont worry about what your friend thinks they may be jealous or envious
2007-01-22 10:47:19 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have described here doesn't sound wrong.
2007-01-22 10:45:06 · answer #5 · answered by rugbee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no sweety.. as long as he does not get to funny with you and if he doe's i'll get him for you haha
2007-01-22 10:45:29 · answer #6 · answered by ♥lois c♥ ☺♥♥♥☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋