OK theres this guy but he likes Older girls but hes my age How do i make Him liek me cause i really love him iv already been out with him 2 times But he says where not right and then i told him i cant stop loveing him he said Maybe later Em HOW DO I MAKE HIM LIKE ME cause "later" well its been 3 weeks now
2007-01-22 03:15:37 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got to have the killer look to attract guys. Forget him, you will find some other cutie u can love who will reciprocate the same.
2007-01-22 03:21:42 · answer #1 · answered by truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see two issues:
1 - You can't make him, no matter how hard you try.
2 - Your perception of love, I feel, is a bit off. You've been out with him twice and you LOVE him? I think you STRONGLY admire him, or maybe "lust" him. I've been with my mate for 16 years, and can tell you that you really can't TRULY love someone until you know them. I mean REALLY know them. You have to get into the crust and find out what's really going on. If you're going to love every guy you meet, you will get your heart broken many times in life.
There are at least 250 guys you haven't even met yet. I know you really like this guy, RIGHT NOW, and I'm some stranger not giving you the answer you're looking for. But you should really just get over it and concentrate on something more important. Someone else out there will like you just as much and treat you the way you should be treated.
Besides, if you were successful in "making" him - he's already told you he likes older woman. He might go steady with you, but he's going to cheat on you. Trust me.
Do you really want THAT?
2007-01-22 11:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by gabound75 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's already told you he is not interested right now, then unfortunately, there is nothing you can do. I know it is not what you want to hear. Being interested in someone that is not interested in you is one of the hardest parts of growing up - I speak from experience. You feel lost, like you're running in circles and you don't know what to do.
Try not to think about him. The more you bug him, the more he will want nothing to do with you. I know you just want to spend time with him so he can see how great you are and how much you like him. That's not the best thing right now.
You need a guy that is as into you as you are into him. That guy will come along. Don't waste your time with the ones that don't want to devote themselves to you, you will only get hurt in the long run.
Best of luck!
2007-01-22 11:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by AnswerGirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a guy like you. Even if you try you'd probably just push him away even more. Be yourself. Don't act so desperate. Date other guys. Once you stop acting like you're in love with him and ignore him they will notice. Usually this works because they'll want your attention back. But he seems like he's really not interested so maybe you should move on. Let go.
2007-01-22 11:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by HeyHer87 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1st off you can not MAKE a guy or any guy for that matter like you. He has to like you on his own and if he said it not the right time then its not and well 3 weeks I waited for a guy for almost 3 years after he said that. So give it time and if it doesn't happen it wasn't ment to be ok.
2007-01-22 11:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl get over it and move on!!!! You cant make anyone like you. You have to like yourself first. He probably is all stuck on himself anyway. You dont need that. Do something for you and stop worring about this looser. Later on he might want to get together with you but make him wait. Men love a challenge. If you give in too easy thats a turn off for them. Make a man work for your attention and affection.
2007-01-22 11:22:56 · answer #6 · answered by Kathy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love grows over time. You want this guy, but who knows what you will want in 1 or 3 or 5 years. And you can't make a guy like you. My advice is to cool it and look for someone who likes you for who you are.
2007-01-22 11:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he likes you but the thing is your age,if he like older woman that what he likes you will not be able to change that but that does not say,that he will never give you a chance .You already went on a couple dates together.He might thinks that younger girls are not on his level. So I would move on. He just missed out.
2007-01-22 11:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by creamy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe put periods in your sentences. Take a breath in between words and THINK about what you say before you say it. Concentrate on spelling, English, schoolwork and improve your skills so you feel more confident about who you are. This guy has given you two dates, and he has opted out... You should look for someone who values you for who you are. If you continue to be so impatient and think you are going to change someone, you will only find heartache. There's lots of boys out there. Value yourself and keep looking.
2007-01-22 11:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by kk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not make someone like you. If it's been 3 weeks now, I suggest you go on with your life.
2007-01-22 11:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋