I have a big problem....?

Question

my mom has known this guy, Jason, for about 20 years. (mom is 40 and guy is 29) he is like a brother to me. Over the summer i lost interest in guys and im not really sure if i like anybody or not. my friend thinks that im a lesbian and wants me to be straight. he told me that maybe if i force myself to tell a guy that i love him and i want to be with him then i might have like guys. i was really stressed out and started cutting myself and then started smoking. when i got my cell phone, i started texting Jason and telling him everything that has been bothering me. I still dont feel the same towards guys, but i stopped cutting myself and smoking until my parents took my phone away. after reading all the text messages i had sent telling him that i loved him and wanted to be with him, they started flipping out. I'm only 16, and i wouldnt even think about doing anything with him. he's not allowed to come over anymore, and i told my dad everything.....how can i make everything right again???

Answer 1

I don't think there is anyone on Y!A that can give you the help you need! I think that you need to talk to your school counselor and s/he can give you the help and guidance you need! I would have to say good luck and find some adult that can properly help the situation... unfortunately, I can't help!

SORRY and Good Luck!

Answer 2

why do you let your friend tell you who to like, i'm telling you that friend is not really your friend. friends are supposed to me supportive in everything. i'm really glad you stopped cutting yourself and smoking, don't go back there anymore. i kind of understand why your parents don't want him to come over it's just because they want to protect you. i'm sure your parents will give you a cellphone eventually for safety purposes at least so don't worry about the cellphone thing. things are going to take care of themselves just don't let fake friends tell you what to be or what to do in any circumstances.