ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 months and i love him to death. But his mom hates me. Last night he gave his mom an atittude and she called me blaming me for it. I don't know what to do cuz almost everything he does i get blamed for. wat do i do? do i talk to his mom, talk to him, or just break up with him? i cry myself to sleep almost everynight and i really cant deal with this anymore. i need some help pleaz
2007-01-22 02:53:41 · 7 answers · asked by ~kAyLa-BaBy~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i try to tell him to change his attitude but he never listens to me and i hate it. i can never see him outside of school and whne we do se each other outside of school im always with my friends. i think that maybe we need to take a break so he can sort out his life..but i really dont know anymore. i love him way to much to lose him
2007-01-22 02:57:23 · update #1
his mom thinks im a dirty slut and said that if he doesnt change that my bf is gonan get locked up..omg im so scared i really need help
2007-01-22 03:00:22 · update #2
Go up to his mom and be really outgoing. Then stomp out of the house. Although shwe'll scream at you to begin with. She will realise what she has been doing. It won't seem like that but it will be just that she is hiding it.
2007-01-22 02:59:06 · answer #1 · answered by buddhistsheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with both and let the mom know that you are not responsible for his actions. If the bf loves you back he will appreciate that you talked to them both and want to change for the better. If he keeps his actions up then dump him because he is just doing this for attention and letting you take the blame.
2007-01-22 11:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by apantheon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not want to cry at nights then you dump him... ofcoursly you will find another man by the time you think it is right :)
You said his mum hates you. I believe that because i used to date a boy that his mum hated me and i really loved him too but i couldnt bear with it anymore. All the time i say something to him about his mum he always has a go at me and its just soo annoying, it seems like his whole family against me and after a week i split up with him about that situation. sooo i recommend you to split up with him before its too late otherwise it can get much worser
2007-01-22 11:04:21 · answer #3 · answered by Dariachu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first answer. You should them both down and talk it out. That way, the mother would see how mature you are and the boyfriend will see how much you care. If nothing changes afterward, just remember...what will be will be.
2007-01-22 11:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to him FIRST..let him know whats going on and that maybe he should try to take it easy on his Mom because you are the one thats getting nagged in the end of it all...if that doesnt work then talk to his Mom as well..Good Luck
2007-01-22 11:01:11 · answer #5 · answered by Jessi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should sit down with the both of them and talk it out.
2007-01-22 10:57:29 · answer #6 · answered by fruit loopz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You deserve better.
2007-01-22 10:58:38 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋