If a guy looks really good and hes married would it be alright to have someone on the side for plesure and nothing serious would it be ok?
2007-01-22 02:42:57 · 19 answers · asked by morena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No. In marriage vows, you swear fidelity to the other person. That means you're off the market. Period. If he wants to screw around, he shouldn't be married.
2007-01-22 02:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by dancin thru life 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course a person that is married does not have the "right" to have someone on the side. Marriage means that you are in a committed relationship to the person you are married to.
If anyone is having someone on the side....nothing serious, they should not be married.
If you were an adult woman who was married to a good looking guy, or even an average looking guy; would you want him to have someone on the side who "supposedly" was not serious????
If you are considering being the person on the side, do not do it; it can ruin lives; including your own.
2007-01-22 11:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is married he has pledged his love for one not several.
if he wanted to play around then why get married in the first place.
to many chances of him coming home with something that doesn't need to come home like an STD. If the marriage is a monogamous relationship then it should remain as such.
whats wrong with one woman in your life. It can't be all that hard can it.
If it is don't get into marriage. marriage is a partnership between two people that's the way I see it. If you can't be loyal don't get into it.
End of story ... But then again that is only my opinion
Marriage for three just doesn't seem to work in my mind.
2007-01-22 10:57:10 · answer #3 · answered by Spirit_Rain_3-SunShineAries 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! It is not okay... I am sure you are trying to convince yourself that it is okay- because it sounds like you have found a great man who is attractive and you would like to get to know. But there is a hitch... he is already married to another woman!
The point is - YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN SOME WOMAN'S LEFT-OVERS!!!!!
If this man is going to cheat on his wife... what makes you think he is actually going to care about you? There are too many men out there - especially great guys that would treat you wonderfully, and are super attractive that you don't need to get involved with someone you OBVIOUSLY have no future with!
I think you need to start working your assets and begin finding men who value you and want to make YOU a priority - not 2nd best!
Good luck!
2007-01-22 11:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by Glory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter how good looking he is, he is still obligated to abide by his marriage vows. Do you really think a guy who's good looking should be exempt from forsaking all others just because of his looks??? It doesn't matter whether it is serious or not, he still needs to be faithful to his wife. If he doesn't love his wife he should get a divorce...
2007-01-22 11:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Cute But Evil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because a man is good looking, does not give him the right to cheat. How would you feel if you married a good looking guy would, you think well, he's good looking so he might as well go and cheat on me.
2007-01-22 10:53:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school and pay attention.
Dont sell yourself to married men.
Work on your self-esteem and always feel good about the person you are.
Dont rob yourself by being dishonest.
It will haunt you when you truly fall in love.
2007-01-22 11:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always a moral no no, but whom am i to judge, put yourself in that position if it was you whom it may be the one that may be cheate on. Also there so many single men out there to make you ahppy.
2007-01-22 10:55:40 · answer #8 · answered by P_a94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all... This is adulterous and wrong and if it were you and you were th wife here would you want your husband to do this to you and your marriage? I know i wouldnt. This would not be ok at all!
2007-01-22 10:51:39 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's OK, if he is getting what he needs at home. If he is not getting what he needs and his wife knows and don't care then that's a different story.
2007-01-22 10:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋