i am over my crush, but 4 some reason i still think about him, i listen to all these songs that remind me of him, i feel bad everytime i think that he doesn't like me. how do i stop thinking aobut him!??
2007-01-22 02:46:46 · 17 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU SEEM TO BE STILL HOLDING ON TO THE MEMORIES. THE BEST CURE WOULD BE TO LOOK FOR ANOTHER AND START OVER WITH NEW EXPERIENCES. WE HAVE ALL BEEN THROUGH IT ONE TIME OR ANOTHER. IT SUCKS BIG TIME BUT ONCE YOU CONNECT WITH SOMEONE ELSE YOU WILL SOON FORGET HIM. LIFE WILL SEEM GOOD ONCE AGAIN AND THIS TIME COULD BE THE REAL THING. REMEMBER ALL THAT YOU ENDURE ONLY MAKES YOU STRONGER AND SMARTER. THAT IS LIFE AND YOU HAVE TO LEARN TO TAKE THE GOOD WITH THE BAD.
2007-01-22 02:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you stop listening these songs that remind you of him? Also try your best to go out as often you can to keep yourself busy, and end up you will forget him. Maybe its time for you become dont care if he doesn't like you or like you, either it is. Your life is very important than think about him. Why don't you move on and find a guy, maybe a guy can blow your mind off from your old one.
2007-01-22 02:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the problem is that you are not really over him yet. If the music reminds you of him, try not to listen to that music.
Getting over him could take time, and that depends on each individual. Try to think of something else and listen to music that reminds you good days of your own, or with friends, but that do not include what you used to daydream about the "crush".
Best wishes.
2007-01-22 02:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by David G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't really over your crush then are you?
You need to distract your mind in such a way that it doesn't know that you're doing it (or you'll think about him more). Don't listen to those tunes, and get a new crush. It's the easiest way to stop thinking about him. If you don't want to do that then it'll just take time, but if you've got over the crush (i.e. you're not lusting after him anymore, he just plays on your mind) then eventually it'll go away.
2007-01-22 02:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by splat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind to yourself. Do fun things with friends and time will make the raw feelings go away. Everyone has been hurt at one time or another and it just takes time a patience with yourself to get over it. But it will happen!!!
2007-01-22 02:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by dynamicDee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time--you will still think about him. It's like grieving over a death
but in the future you may think about him, but not with the same feelings. Time changes everything
2007-01-22 02:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Queen-o-the-Damned 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time. If you've really built this person up in your head, the longer it will take for him to go away. Sooner or later you'll start liking someone else, you'll get busy with other stuff...and he'll be a passing thought!
2007-01-22 02:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by shannonscorpio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to find things to get your mind OFF of him. You won't truly be over him until those songs hold no meaning anymore. Go out and meet new people. Find some closure for yourself.
2007-01-22 02:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's not interested in you, however hard that is for you, you need to move on with your life. Do you really want to sit around waiting for him to change his mind? Be strong and move on - get out and about with friends and you will probably meet someone else who will like you for being you and, in time, you will forget about your crush. Be strong and move on...
2007-01-22 02:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go out with your friends to the mall or to the movies and sure enough you will be over him completely life goes on.
2007-01-22 02:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by j13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋