Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I am 34. I live with mother; I did not leave her because when father passed away I knew she needed someone...me to be there for her; so I tkko here here and there and everywhere...all this while I had a good paying job as a teacher. Today, I am broke, 6 months behind on my payments...mother can not help me anymore and about to loose my car, our ownly car. I want to move to SA Texas and get a few jobs to catch up and pay back to mother...Yes or No.
What do you think?

2007-01-21 04:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by johnny33 1 in Family

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years told me last night that he's fed up to come home always to an empty flat alone and that he was wishing I was there. I thought it's sweet and told him that I miss him too,that it'd be nice if we could organise a meeting. We see each other about once a month. This morning he sent me a text that he didn't say it to be sweet and that he's fed up of having a girlfriend who's far and that it's been too long like this and he doesnt want to continue like this. I told him that I understand him but what does he want to do? He said we really need to think about it and he said not to expect always a solution from him, I also need to do something. He was looking for a job near me but could not find one. I started to be scared and asked him if he wants to end it. He got upset and told me that I always take everything as a threat instead of trying to find a solution with him and that he doesn't like that. He said to stop worry like that. We'll talk tonight.

2007-01-21 04:29:20 · 9 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf and i have sex pretty much every night and while we r in school he pretends i am not his gf. we talk on the phone everynight and see each other pretty much every night.
what should i do?
is our relationship normal?

2007-01-21 04:28:52 · 22 answers · asked by still_looking_since_1991 1 in Singles & Dating

My sister in law is being so hateful when it comes to my nephews. I am extremely close to my oldest nephew, when he was born my brother and sister in law left him with me a lot while they went out and partied. As a result we are very close. He is 7 now and has a new 6 month old brother that I am not allowed to see much. My sister in law had told me she doesn't want my new nephew to "get in with me" like my oldest nephew did" and that I need to "learn my place" in regard to my oldest nephew and quit trying to be his mother. She has also accused me of trying to run her and my brothers life. I have truly no idea where these accusations are coming from. I have always tried to be very respectful of my brother and sister in laws role as parents and have never intentionally tried to undermine them. I believe she is jealous of the bond I have with my oldest nephew and is punishing me for a situation she and my brother created by leaving him with me so much when he was young. Advice?

2007-01-21 04:28:42 · 10 answers · asked by sarethsays 1 in Family

I'm curious about this because my friend is always fighting with her man, and he hits her so she hits him back, but dosent this just make things worse? we all know men should never put their hands on a woman, i know he is wrong to hit her, but was she wrong to hit him back? the thing is they seem to think this life style of all hell breaking loose is normal, she comes to me when troubles happen, i have told her over and over again to get out, but she's still there, and the complaints are getting old real fast....should i just ignore her from now on? because she won't listen?

2007-01-21 04:28:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years told me last night that he's fed up to come home always to an empty flat alone and that he was wishing I was there. I thought it's sweet and told him that I miss him too,that it'd be nice if we could organise a meeting. We see each other about once a month. This morning he sent me a text that he didn't say it to be sweet and that he's fed up of having a girlfriend who's far and that it's been too long like this and he doesnt want to continue like this. I told him that I understand him but what does he want to do? He said we really need to think about it and he said not to expect always a solution from him, I also need to do something. He was looking for a job near me but could not find one. I started to be scared and asked him if he wants to end it. He got upset and told me that I always take everything as a threat instead of trying to find a solution with him and that he doesn't like that. He said to stop worry like that. We'll talk tonight.

2007-01-21 04:28:26 · 5 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

No explanation needed, right?

2007-01-21 04:27:48 · 33 answers · asked by MM 4 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend left me 7 months ago after a four year relationship and it has broken my heart so bad i think about just ending it all the time i just love this girl so much that i am just lost without her. i have quit my job dropped out of uni my life has just stopped and she doesent want anything to do with me. the reason for leaving me she said was that i worked to hard and studied to much and that she needs a guy to give her more effection. I told her that i was working to give us a future and a life. she still left.

2007-01-21 04:27:43 · 14 answers · asked by jason m 1 in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years told me last night that he's fed up to come home always to an empty flat alone and that he was wishing I was there. I thought it's sweet and told him that I miss him too,that it'd be nice if we could organise a meeting. We see each other about once a month. This morning he sent me a text that he didn't say it to be sweet and that he's fed up of having a girlfriend who's far and that it's been too long like this and he doesnt want to continue like this. I told him that I understand him but what does he want to do? He said we really need to think about it and he said not to expect always a solution from him, I also need to do something. He was looking for a job near me but could not find one. I started to be scared and asked him if he wants to end it. He got upset and told me that I always take everything as a threat instead of trying to find a solution with him and that he doesn't like that. He said to stop worry like that. We'll talk tonight.

2007-01-21 04:27:28 · 7 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, Ive been dating non exlcusively this girl for a couple months. We spend alot of time together and we've messed around without sex. We hung out on Xmas day, on her birthday when she was drunk she was hanging off me in front of her friends. Shes said several times she thinks im amazing and really cute. All her friends like me as well.
However, in the past day, I asked her to make it more serious. Just be exclusive to each other. She said no. She said shes not ready for a serious relationship and she still wished to see other people. (Although, Im the only guy shes seeing now. She said that most guys only last a couple months in her life. And she doesnt seeing any guy lasting anymore than 4 months. So i said back was "I hope you dont think im a past time" She replied with, No, I like your company and we have alot of fun hanging out. its great.

My question is, What does this mean. Am I wasting my time? Should I continue to date her? I dont understand this girl.lol. shes 22 yrs o

2007-01-21 04:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-01-21 04:27:22 · 6 answers · asked by Zelda Hunter 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I cant stand living with my husband. Im tired we just got into a fight right now. I feel like i really hate him alot. We have 3 kids thats y i havent left him but im sick of it. im crying right i feel like **** and i dont wat to do.

2007-01-21 04:26:52 · 8 answers · asked by lupe s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 04:26:26 · 3 answers · asked by Some Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

If you are in a similar situation, answer from experience, if not, answer however you can. Say yr gf works 9-5 monday-friday, she has time to herself, gots plenty of space, when and how often would you say you two should hang out in person? (not including talking on phone, IM, or email.) Say she lives close-by too. How often would seem like not enough to show a real commitment to the relationship? Answer in your own way, add a bit more of yr views. thanks!

2007-01-21 04:26:25 · 1 answers · asked by greenhorns99 1 in Singles & Dating

why are sisters always in your face and bolthering you?

2007-01-21 04:25:26 · 5 answers · asked by J F 1 in Family

2007-01-21 04:25:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for me it was "I dont love her, its a bad relationship..I want to be with you but I'm afraid to hurt her"....Sadly I believed him for awhile

2007-01-21 04:25:08 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is anyone out there living with someone else's husband? I'm curious....does it bother you that he never filed for divorce? Are you ok just being his mistress? Why would a woman settle for that?

2007-01-21 04:24:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im currently in college and all my life have only had one relationship that went perfect. all I want to have something like that before. Ive liked maybe one or two girls since Ive been here and honestly like them for their personality, but what am I doing wrong? - looks, personality, behavior, what is it :( ? I never have any luck asking and getting a good reponse, they always say the same thing. "I cant, 'cause we're too close of friends". I honestly sometimes think its because of looks or personality at times. what can I do to convince them that I am an honest guy and wont do anyhting in the worlld to hurt them. I know we will always have bad times but I also know that we will have the time of our lives and love.

2007-01-21 04:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Thomas 3 in Singles & Dating

sadies is comming up (for those of you who dont know its a dance where the girls ask the guys to it) and ive been really stressing about it. i really want to go/ask the guy i like. but i dont rly talk to him. yeah im in german with him, but im just really shy. ive been getting kind of depressed about sadies. i dont know what to do. i really want to go, and i cant go with just friends becuase all of my friends asked somebody/have been asked. so im just going to be sitting home alone, most likley crying the entire time.

2007-01-21 04:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im having trouble askin a girl out she seems to be shy around me and i dont know what to say to her(answer)
but im in love so help

2007-01-21 04:23:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would a happily married man still cheat if he loves his wife more then anything in the world and she is his whole life..My answer is no he wouldnt..what does everybody else say?

2007-01-21 04:23:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so me and this guy,adam have been an "unofficial" couple for a couple weeks. at this party last night, we held hands and he helped me ice skate and we talked and crap. and back at someone's house after skating, we got dared to hug. so yea, everything was going well, until adam and his friend had to leave around midnight. my bff asked adam why he didnt kiss me. adam didnt answer, but his friend sed that there's someone my adam wants to kiss and its not me. after i heard that, i called adam and i dumped him. he called me back and sed that his frined was lying and its not true. so i asked him why he didnt kiss me, and he sed that he doesnt want to in front of 100 ppl. i asked him if he wanted one last chance(i gave him 2 chances before, cuz we went out before a while ago), and he sed he neede to think about it. WHY DOES HE NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT!?!?!?! so he sed he does, and now i guess were back together again. but i feel kinda bad about it, and why did he need to think about that?

2007-01-21 04:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Argiiii. 5 in Singles & Dating

Is anyone out there living with someone else's husband? I'm curious....does it bother you that he never filed for divorce? Are you ok just being his mistress? Why would a woman settle for that?

2007-01-21 04:22:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with someone for three years. but recently, ive had HUGE feelings for another person. we get on really well. he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never have to think what to say. i'm 16 now. And i've been with my boyfriend since i was 13. we've kind of grown up together. And we're so close. I love him so much. I mean, i feel so good when im with him. He has cheated on me before, but that was in our first year of being together. But i've never had the thrill of being with someonelse. I've never kissed anyone but him. I've never done anything with anyone but him. My first time was with him.. Thats a big thing to me. I love him so, so much. And i feel so bad about liking someonelse. Also, i talk to this other boy everyday. we're close. have been for months. I havnt told him i like him. But He always tells me how much he likes me. All he ever goes on about is how great we'd be together. I'm just so stuck. Please help me...

2007-01-21 04:22:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 04:20:58 · 23 answers · asked by profile not in use 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I get forgiveness and move on? I feel really terrible but I think it is too soon for me to approach those whom I have wronged and apologize. I really do feel bad because all of my actions have been out of hurt and anger. It's like "I feel bad, you hurt me now I want to make you feel hurt, even if it's a fraction of what I felt" I know the old saying "what comes around goes around" but I really do just want to be a better person for the rest of this year and years to come. How do I get back on track and put the past behind me? Most of the things that I feel bad about are things that I have said and I know you can't take words back but I just want to do the right things from now on.

2007-01-21 04:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what are these most best qualities which without them we can not call him a good life partner? and what are the most worst qualities which we can not ignore when thinking to marry someone? I mean which qualities can make him absolutely the right one and which qualities can make him never be that right one?

2007-01-21 04:20:50 · 2 answers · asked by living on faith 1 in Singles & Dating

I work in a financial istitution, he's a business customer. He's tall and handsome and funny. I am interested but not sure about his side of it, so I drop by his place of business just to see, and he's busy, so I leave. No harm, no foul...until he comes back into where I work and asks why I didn't say hi. Things progress, with us hanging out in groups and him being very very attentive- we have such chemistry, when we talk there's no one else in the world...and talk we do!. He tells me about his ex-gf's, etc and lots of details of his life. Then I get an email out of the blue...he's got a gf...a very pregnant gf. I am shocked but do a little investigating. Only by this time, she's his wife. And still, no ring on his hand. WHY couldn't he have just told me? He had to know I was interested and he certainly passed himself off as single....that's what he told me. Was he deliberately trying to make me look stupid, or is it deeper than that? I would never have guessed him for a player.

2007-01-21 04:19:49 · 12 answers · asked by blueyedgirl623 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 04:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family