How do I get forgiveness and move on? I feel really terrible but I think it is too soon for me to approach those whom I have wronged and apologize. I really do feel bad because all of my actions have been out of hurt and anger. It's like "I feel bad, you hurt me now I want to make you feel hurt, even if it's a fraction of what I felt" I know the old saying "what comes around goes around" but I really do just want to be a better person for the rest of this year and years to come. How do I get back on track and put the past behind me? Most of the things that I feel bad about are things that I have said and I know you can't take words back but I just want to do the right things from now on.
2007-01-21 04:20:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i think you have already figured it out. you have taken a look at your actions and have felt remorse for them and have the desire to change, the only thing left is to forgive your self for your actions and moving on in a positive direction. when the time is right you will be able to make amends to those you hurt, but for now just follow through with your plan to become a better person. don't dwell on the past, instead when you see an opportunity to do good for someone else, go through with it . when someone wrongs you instead of hurting back, try forgive them. you don't have to stay involved with them but forgive them and walk away if you have to to keep from acting on your hurt feelings, you will be a wonderful friend and a great person, to all that know you, good luck!
2007-01-21 04:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by cvgm702 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do, that's all. You let your actions and words speak for you now, you apologize when its appropriate, and you realize some of the wounds you left cannot be healed. If you are capable of recognizing the wrong things, you know the right ones and that's a start. Count to five before you speak so you have time to consider blurting out the hurtful things. In time people will see the change in you and begin to trust you again, but it does take time, and can be frustrating when you are trying so hard, and they don't seem to care, or want to give you another chance, but you do it anyway and at least that way you won't disappoint yourself.
2007-01-21 12:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u should ask god to forgive u, then u should forgive yourself, then u should apologize to all the ppl that u hurt even if they were wrong. if they accept it or not atleast u would know that u asked 4 forgiveness and that u were the bigger person to end the problem. then u should be able to move on with ur life.
2007-01-21 14:48:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let your actions speak for you IF your are sincere about what you have said and it is just not a guilty conscience talking. Others will see the change and they will come up to you. If it was a bad situation let it rest for awhile. You know the more you stir crap the more it stinks.
2007-01-21 12:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋