Okay, Ive been dating non exlcusively this girl for a couple months. We spend alot of time together and we've messed around without sex. We hung out on Xmas day, on her birthday when she was drunk she was hanging off me in front of her friends. Shes said several times she thinks im amazing and really cute. All her friends like me as well.
However, in the past day, I asked her to make it more serious. Just be exclusive to each other. She said no. She said shes not ready for a serious relationship and she still wished to see other people. (Although, Im the only guy shes seeing now. She said that most guys only last a couple months in her life. And she doesnt seeing any guy lasting anymore than 4 months. So i said back was "I hope you dont think im a past time" She replied with, No, I like your company and we have alot of fun hanging out. its great.
My question is, What does this mean. Am I wasting my time? Should I continue to date her? I dont understand this girl.lol. shes 22 yrs o
2007-01-21 04:27:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should continue to date other girls. There is only one person on this planet that you can have any assurance of changing. That is you. It sounds like this girl has passed a judgment on herself. Could she be wrong... sure.
I learned a long time ago this very simple rule where love is concerned. "The one who loves the most is the most vulnerable." Don't get to far ahead of her or you will find out what this means.
2007-01-21 04:32:51 · answer #1 · answered by terterryterter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely possibly the cuddling and kissing you once you advised her replaced into her way of telling you she enjoyed you back, i do no longer probable understand. although i understand from journey that it will tear you up interior in case you don't understand for confident. So right this is what i recommend. I say you have 2 suggestions you ought to A. ask her your self, or B. Have a mutual chum (ideally a guy it relatively is nearer to you), casually ask her in a communique such as you recognize "how are you and him doing....it relatively is robust, so do you think of you adore him?". and that i've got faith that if she says definite then do no longer difficulty approximately the different guy. and whether she says no then hes probable too distant to be a difficulty in any case.
2016-10-31 22:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 by age... What about her feelings? 13? 14? 15?... etc...
2007-01-21 04:43:49 · answer #3 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋