Im currently in college and all my life have only had one relationship that went perfect. all I want to have something like that before. Ive liked maybe one or two girls since Ive been here and honestly like them for their personality, but what am I doing wrong? - looks, personality, behavior, what is it :( ? I never have any luck asking and getting a good reponse, they always say the same thing. "I cant, 'cause we're too close of friends". I honestly sometimes think its because of looks or personality at times. what can I do to convince them that I am an honest guy and wont do anyhting in the worlld to hurt them. I know we will always have bad times but I also know that we will have the time of our lives and love.
2007-01-21 04:23:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Thomas 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude there isn't such a thing as the perfect one, only the perfect at the time.
2007-01-21 04:28:20 · answer #1 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. The one you had before was not perfect because you don't have it anymore. As for finding the perfect match - it is a numbers game. You have not met enough people yet. It may take years of learning, personal growth, and experience (all of which will change you and who you think is perfect for you) before you find a match.
So stop obsessing on perfection right away and get some experience with life and people.
Also it might help to learn to express yourself better. Your question has many grammatical errors.
2007-01-21 04:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by MarkLight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's because none of us are perfect. Stop looking for the perfect person. You are setting the standards too high for them and they are bound to be frustrated that they will never be good enough. Starting looking for Miss or Mr. okay instead, someone who you enjoy being with to go to a movie or whatever. A lot of great relationships and marriages start out by saying "oh, we're just good friends.". Relax, if its right, it's right!
2007-01-21 04:41:54 · answer #3 · answered by kramark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it some time..U have to be confident in yourself.Unless u know that a girl likes u...don't ask her out.Have fun with friends and do the things u like to do.U r still young and life is beautiful.Don't waste it!love will come by when it has to!good luck:)
2007-01-21 04:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the one relationship was "perfect" why arent you still in it? think about it nothing is or ever will be perfect. maybe your expecting to much(perfection) or rating what would relationships to the one you thought was so "perfect"
2007-01-21 04:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by diana j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to find the perfect one, because there is no such thing as the "perfect" one... there is always something wrong with everyone.
2007-01-21 04:29:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a perfect out there!
2007-01-21 04:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone goes by looks which sucks. no one don't judge fairly. looks are not everything. if u want i'll date u
2007-01-21 04:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no-0ne is perfect
2007-01-21 04:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋