ok, so me and this guy,adam have been an "unofficial" couple for a couple weeks. at this party last night, we held hands and he helped me ice skate and we talked and crap. and back at someone's house after skating, we got dared to hug. so yea, everything was going well, until adam and his friend had to leave around midnight. my bff asked adam why he didnt kiss me. adam didnt answer, but his friend sed that there's someone my adam wants to kiss and its not me. after i heard that, i called adam and i dumped him. he called me back and sed that his frined was lying and its not true. so i asked him why he didnt kiss me, and he sed that he doesnt want to in front of 100 ppl. i asked him if he wanted one last chance(i gave him 2 chances before, cuz we went out before a while ago), and he sed he neede to think about it. WHY DOES HE NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT!?!?!?! so he sed he does, and now i guess were back together again. but i feel kinda bad about it, and why did he need to think about that?
2007-01-21 04:23:11 · 4 answers · asked by Argiiii. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not upset about him not kissing me. i ttly understand if he's not ready. im just confused about why he needed to think about it, i just thought he maybe doenst like me if he had to think about it.
2007-01-21 04:40:35 · update #1
First, I think you need to step back, and stop being so dramatic....Give him one last chance..what is the world ending tomorrow, are you so impatient that you can't wait until he's ready. I think he told you he didn't want to kiss you in front of 100 people you missed what he was saying...So, let me interpret for you..He wanted it to be private ! Got it ? he sounds to me like a thoughtful & considerate guy...You sound like you're in an age group where kids can & often do tease, make fun of each other...in awkward moments...I think he was trying to tell you exactly how he was feeling. And , your response seem unsympathetic and totaly selfish. It's not all about you. If you truely want to have a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship with him be friends first. and, aren't the best, most lasting friendships based on kindness & understanding ? Good luck....and I hope you are able to understand his postion even if you don't agree with it. That's a characteristic that will serve you well throughout your life !
2007-01-21 04:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing how old you are, I can only say. IF he doesn't want to kiss you in front of a group of people , just let it go. It's not that big a deal, if you've only been together a couple of weeks. And if he is thinking about another chance, maybe it's because you believed his friend and dumped him before talking to him. Just take your time, and don't rush the relationship or you're going to scare him off permanently.
2007-01-21 12:32:36 · answer #2 · answered by jan 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He needed to think about that because he wasn't sure if he wanted to be with you or not. If he did then he would have snatched the chance right away. I don't think this guy is worth it and you definitely deserve better.
2007-01-21 12:29:17 · answer #3 · answered by Valencia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well he probably had to think about it becaues you dumped him because of what soemone else said, and you didn't even try and ask him about if FIRST.
2007-01-21 12:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by kate 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋