Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

I'm six months pregnant....yet I still cook, clean, do his laundry, etc. while I take a break from school and work until the baby is born.....Unfortunately nothing I do seems to meet his standards.
I know he loves me, but his expectations are off the charts.
I cannot possibly live up to them.
(He has even changed his mind about my taking off work, and demands that I begin working by Monday!)
Help!
Any Adivce?

2007-01-21 05:04:03 · 31 answers · asked by sex bot 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 05:03:39 · 25 answers · asked by rajns28 2 in Singles & Dating

I've noticed lots of women at my work with kids, but no wedding ring on.

2007-01-21 05:03:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well theirs this guy at my school and I really like him, but I don't know if he likes me, somtimes I catch him looking at me and when I look at him back he looks away, and I dont really do anything to make him seem like I like him, should I tell him I like him?

2007-01-21 05:02:47 · 3 answers · asked by Hannah 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive been with someone for three years. but recently, ive had HUGE feelings for another person. we get on really well. he's one of those people that i can just talk to for hours and never have to think what to say. i'm 16 now. And i've been with my boyfriend since i was 13. we've kind of grown up together. And we're so close. I love him so much. I mean, i feel so good when im with him. He has cheated on me before, but that was in our first year of being together. But i've never had the thrill of being with someonelse. I've never kissed anyone but him. I've never done anything with anyone but him. My first time was with him.. Thats a big thing to me. I love him so, so much. And i feel so bad about liking someonelse. Also, i talk to this other boy everyday. we're close. have been for months. I havnt told him i like him. But He always tells me how much he likes me. All he ever goes on about is how great we'd be together. I'm just so stuck. Please help me...

2007-01-21 05:02:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And how much it costs for a marraige license and what information you need to get one? I don't know if it is the same for all areas but I live in Gratiot County in Michigan. Any input would be great.

2007-01-21 05:01:34 · 11 answers · asked by Hazeleyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 05:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by CJW 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 05:01:14 · 11 answers · asked by tuffey 2 in Friends

made a pot of coffee enough for 6 people when it was just 2 people that lived in the house, would you consider her over-reacting by yelling at you that you made too much coffee??

My thinking is, might as well make a little more in case someone wants another cup, plus it is just wasted water if you have to pour it out you know???

Well what do you think????

2007-01-21 05:00:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have heard that a mate of mine is going out with a 14 year old girl, and he is 24.. what should i do?

2007-01-21 05:00:21 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have spent over $5000 to get custody. The court does not care about the fact that this loser STILL does crack. She just got arrested for possession last year and currently is off of work because she is now out there again on a binge again. The child is 15 and covers for his mother.
Our lawyer told us that it is basically a waste of money to do anything about it b/c the child does not want ot come live with us.
Does the courts really believe that a 15 year old really knows what is best? Even though he has been around a drug-infested environment?
Messed up situation! We try and talk to him, but he is brainwashed to believe that if he comes with us, he will lose his freedom (basically the kid takes care of himself b/c the mother is never around) The child now lives with the grandparents...from what we hear but get this-the grandmother is an alcoholic and the grandfather scams insurance comapnies to make money.
We are seriously worried.
Any advice people? Thanks..

2007-01-21 05:00:08 · 7 answers · asked by the agent 1 in Family

girls deal with alot and they neva really get credit for it and im leting every know that how strong these females are.

2007-01-21 04:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by J.J 1 in Singles & Dating

It will come to you. You can't find love no matter how hard you look. If you get someone, you might end up with some else's future wife.

2007-01-21 04:59:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it bad for a man to cry

2007-01-21 04:59:15 · 18 answers · asked by bp t 1 in Singles & Dating

single mom here. Met this guy a year ago.We have broke up and got back together a couple of times. reasons why we have broke up-He gets stressed easy, cant handle stress-has been known to lose his temper-thinks my kids are disobedient-has lottery ticket gambling problem.Reasons we got back together-he stopped buying lottery tickets, started bonding&spending more time with kids, is really trying hard to make it work.anyway, i broke up with him again because my power went out for three days and we had no heat or lights and he left and we had to fend for ourselves. I told him i wouldnt be with someone who didnt have my back when times were tough.He just emailed me this super sweat, im sorry email saying he left because he thougtht i wanted him to cause he was stressed and making me nervious,he said he tried to call to check on us but couldnt get through(my phone went out too) he said it was miscommunication and he realizes he was wrong for leaving. i love him but not sure if he is THE ONE

2007-01-21 04:57:32 · 12 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

I have had my son's name down on the waiting list for a Beavers since May 05, the same time as his friend. His friend got a place last in August 06 and when I asked where my son was on the list I was informed he was 6th although this would change if other kids with older siblings in the organisation went on the list. He is now apparently 7th and if he does not get a place before his birthday he will not get in yet there are much younger kids getting in. I feel my son is being discriminated agaist as he does not have an older sibling in Beavers - his sister is in Brownies. I am thinking about complaining.

2007-01-21 04:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-21 04:57:12 · 16 answers · asked by RYAN S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 04:56:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiancee and I are having a wedding ceremony and reception next year. I'm trying to figure out what we should do about music. The ceremony will be short and informal - there will be no walking down the aisle or wedding attendants. Then, we'll follow that with the reception (both the ceremony and reception will be at the same place). We are having a 1950s theme. I was thinking of buying a new vintage-style record player (http://www.crosleyradio.com/prods/cr73-3.html) that comes equipped with a CD player so that we could play our 50's CDs, but keep the look of a 1950's party. We are also considering hiring a DJ - if the prices are reasonable. We are trying to do this as cheaply as possible. My question is, would the record player put out enough sound? We are having a wedding with 100 guests in this room (http://www.hamlinhouserestaurant.com/Weddingpage.html) and no dance floor.

2007-01-21 04:55:19 · 10 answers · asked by Galoshes 3 in Weddings

does she have saggy skin and does it bother you that she does not have a tight body. seriously i am afraid of losing anymore weight because my skin is saggy and i dont want my bf to be turned off. (have lost 50 lbs and need to lose about 25 more)

2007-01-21 04:53:55 · 6 answers · asked by ctaysko 1 in Singles & Dating

My long-distance boyfriend of 3 years told me last night that he's fed up to come home always to an empty flat alone and that he was wishing I was there. I thought it's sweet and told him that I miss him too,that it'd be nice if we could organise a meeting. We see each other about once a month. This morning he sent me a text that he didn't say it to be sweet and that he's fed up of having a girlfriend who's far and that it's been too long like this and he doesnt want to continue like this. I told him that I understand him but what does he want to do? He said we really need to think about it and he said not to expect always a solution from him, I also need to do something. He was looking for a job near me but could not find one. I started to be scared and asked him if he wants to end it. He got upset and told me that I always take everything as a threat instead of trying to find a solution with him and that he doesn't like that. He said to stop worry like that. We'll talk tonight.

2007-01-21 04:53:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-21 04:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by monika p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I see him every morning...

2007-01-21 04:52:56 · 19 answers · asked by Jpegg 4 in Singles & Dating

how do u tell if sum1 is using u or if they really love u is there ne ways in which they would act ne thing they would do that could tell u this? and also is it right 4 them 2 stay in contact with their ex's? i dont c y they would have/need 2. what sort of suspicious behaviour would most likely b related 2 cheating? he says im paranoid but im not 2 sure i am. please give me honest anwers only, thanx 4 all ur help.

2007-01-21 04:52:11 · 3 answers · asked by blossom 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at work when my boss called me to his office. Once I was there, he proceded to show me his pet ferret and said I could have a promotion if I breastfed it?

2007-01-21 04:51:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

usuall questions for desparate lovers ....

my true love is hating me for no reason ... she claims that she's over me right now .. but everytime i meet her she gets upset and ignores me all the time .. even for just saying hi ... she never looks to my eyes . ..it's been two months now and i'm acting like i'm really over it .. but my heart keeps burning inside . she said once that i'm a weak man and so on ... but .. is it a problem to be weak in front of someone whom you love the most??. i just can't live without her .. i even changed my attitude and my behaviors and even my personality to get her back ... the biggest problem is .. she's my neighbor... i don't know what i'm going through .. but i know for sure she's the missing piece in my life and i'd do anything .. anything to get her back !

2007-01-21 04:50:57 · 10 answers · asked by doctor_saud 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the qualities of a true, real friend that would be someone you'd make sure to keep in contact and be friends with for the rest of your life?

2007-01-21 04:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by xstreetplayax101 2 in Friends

I'm 15 and hes 18 and I only see him once a week. We've been together for a year and its not like we dont live near each other.

2007-01-21 04:50:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-21 04:49:07 · 22 answers · asked by Strange_Truth 1 in Singles & Dating

Well my ex bf and i broke up and we are friends with benefits and well people say he is using me and i dont think he is because he waits for me after every class at school and he still tells me he loves me. I am the only girl he talks to the most. Everyone says he is using me except for like 2 people. Me and my ex talk all the time (on the phone and at school) Do you all think he is using me or does he still love me?

2007-01-21 04:49:04 · 5 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Singles & Dating