please help?

Question

how do u tell if sum1 is using u or if they really love u is there ne ways in which they would act ne thing they would do that could tell u this? and also is it right 4 them 2 stay in contact with their ex's? i dont c y they would have/need 2. what sort of suspicious behaviour would most likely b related 2 cheating? he says im paranoid but im not 2 sure i am. please give me honest anwers only, thanx 4 all ur help.

basically all i want 2 know is what is it people do subcontiously when they r cheatin? every1 gives off signals subcontiously and i jusat wanted 2 know if there was ne thing in particular that a cheater would do?? ne 1 know??

Answer 1

It sounds like you are very insecure.
You need to relax and trust him otherwise you will push him away eventually.
As for staying in touch with ex's, I have done this with great success. Doesnt mean I'm going to have a sexual relationship with them.

On the other hand if you have concrete evidence of him cheating then dump him and move on....he aint worth it!

Answer 2

When my boyfriend and later to be fiance of 8 years was cheating on me, I had no idea. When he felt guilty enough, he finally came clean to me. One of the things I now notice after the fact and he actually admits and agrees to now is that he would always pass the buck onto me saying I was the one who was cheating on him. He would constantly accuse me of cheating, try and analyze my every move, trip, overnight stay, telephone call, etc. as if I may have been sending subliminal messages to the "boyfriend" I might have had on the side. So to sum this up, he said he would feel like I was doing the same to him as he did to me because his conscience was so guilty. Hope this helps some.

Answer 3

Talk to that person and ask him everything you doubt, if that person cannot stare u in your eyes it means he is guilty of something and if so ask him the reason I hope this may help.