2007-01-21 05:01:29 · 11 answers · asked by CJW 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It can be hard because the woman in this situation is going to have drastically different expectations of how life will be than this man does. She is going to have to humble her expectations, and he is going to have to understand that she has been spoiled her whole life and does not know any better. Much patience and communication on both sides will be necessary.
2007-01-21 05:06:07 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to just say "they don't!"
I can tell you from personal experience that it does pose a problem. I think that the hardest thing to deal with is the automatic assumption from all your friends and family that the man is marrying your for your money. It is hard to beleive but it is the mind-set of many wealthy people that those of lower economic means will do just about anything to "marry into" money. If there is a family held corporation involved it is even worse. It is assumed that the man wants a position in the corporation.
Everytime you have a problem in your marriage, any advice that you get will be colored by the assurity that "he only married you for your money after all".
Even your husbands' excitement over your first baby will be attributed to his feeling of having assured his position in the family. If he is nice to your mother, he is "sucking up".....if he likes your little brother, same tune.....heaven forbid that he should genuinely like and admire your father...this will be met with comments like "don't waste your time, the will is airtight". I know it sounds like something out of "Dallas" but I lived it.
I am divorced now but I hear the same nonsense every time I date someone. ("So, another gold digger?") It DOES get old. I don't bother with trying to have a relationship with anyone anymore. It is simply NOT worth it, at least not to me.
Good luck!
Lady Trinity~
2007-01-21 05:50:14 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 20:32:35 · answer #3 · answered by picart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like all other marriages: the couple has to work together and make personal adjustments to make the relationship thrive, and it's usually "from the bottom up."
2007-01-21 05:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by JADE 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it could pose problems. The man would never feel like he was being the man, the breadwinner, or holding his own. It might also make him seem weaker to the woman
2007-01-21 05:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Farah G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. If the woman was spoiled, she might be controling and have a "princess' complex. You have to watch out for that.
2007-01-21 05:17:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Usually as well as any other marriage...
2007-01-21 05:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They'll always be in conflict... especially over the cost of things...
2007-01-21 05:14:24 · answer #8 · answered by deakjone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they only work when there's lots of love involved!
2007-01-21 05:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by sex bot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she truly loves you, it could be very good.
2007-01-21 05:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lalalalalala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋