Family & Relationships - 21 January 2007

Is it 10 days or 15 days prior to the court date set that a person has to be served with papers notifying him that he has to show up on that date to face contempt of court charges. If he does not get served and therfore does not show up but the accusing party shows up, what happens?

2007-01-21 04:18:43 · 1 answers · asked by Ann G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think love can survive all hurdles?

If so, then why do people break up with people they seemingly love over things that can be solved if they worked harder at solving them?

I would just like to know your opinions...i believe that love can survive all and that people only need to work harder for it to last forever....

2007-01-21 04:18:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you like this poem?
There ain't no other like this,
Jim & Tren, Tren & Jim, we & us.
We make something of our worlds;
Heart
Passion
Love
& Spirit
You are my rising sun as the day begins,
And I hope to be your sunset as the day ends.
There ain't no sun like ours.

No other feeling like this,
Has ever occurred to me.
It seems as more than love,
Compassion very deep.
Sometimes I wish I was there,
Or that you were near.
Yet so many obastacles come in between.

There ain't no other like this,
Us & We, We & Us, whatever you name 'Together'.
This love is:
So Pure
So True
So Me
So You.
We want to last forever,
And let Our Hearts go on.
There ain't no other like this,
And I don't want it to be gone.

No other feeling like this.
Has marked stroke upon me.
I know you know this feeling,
We feel it everyday.
I even like your words,
That we mean to say:
"I Luv U"

So, now I am talking to you
My sun has risin' up.
And once we our finished for today,
Your sunrise will soon become.
I Love You, Jimmy.

2007-01-21 04:17:59 · 7 answers · asked by tren 1 in Singles & Dating

Introduce you to her female friends and then gets mad when you show interest in them or don't pay enough attention to her. She makes it a point not to get drunk around you for fear of what she may say, when she had no problems getting drunk with you in the past. Always asks "what do you want from me" when she already knows. Counts you as her one and only best friend but at times holds you at length..

2007-01-21 04:17:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the toilet flush in the background?
did you then hear the water run?

2007-01-21 04:17:50 · 4 answers · asked by ken 4 in Family

I have guilt

2007-01-21 04:17:34 · 25 answers · asked by brandonshane1225 1 in Family

so i went on this cruise, and met this guy. he was really nice and we hung out a lot, but i never really had an interest in him, until the 4th night. that night we just hung out me and him the entire night laying down and talking. he was really sweet, and i knew that i'd prob start liking him. we were talking about everything, and the topic of me being a virgin came up. i told him i was a virgin, and he didn't believe me. he wasn't a virgin, but he told me i should really wait for someone i like, and then he said "and it's not going to be me." by the end of the night we ended up making out, and he slept over my room, and he even asked me if the next night we were gonna hang out. the next night he was in the casino, so my friend went to go get him from the casino to hang out. sure enough, he wanted to and came within 10 minutes(meanwhile he had been winning a lot of money), and he came to hang out. we went to his room, and we were hooking up and everything led to sex happening naturally, he didn't ask me flat out, and it happened the way i wanted it to, in the moment. when he was putting the condom on however, i asked him what he was doing, and he said "nothing"..i made sure he had a condom on, and he was really gentle, but he didn't talk much. at one point i asked him if he still had the condom on, and he let me feel to make sure it was still on. after we had sex, we went to the casino, and then i left to go to my room to lay down. he said he'd come back to hang out, but i didn't expect him to really. sure enough, he came knocking on my door to spend the night. the next night he had been looking for me, and he thought i was with another guy,so he got upset, and didn't hang out with me for two nights. by the 8th night we met up eventually..and i explained to him that i wasn't with another guy, and we ended up hanging out the whole entire night, me, my friend, and him. he kept saying how i was his girlfriend on the cruise, and that i would be his girlfriend if we lived in the same place. it just so happened i was going to college where he lived in about a year, and he knew that. that night we were hooking up again, and everything led to sex, and this time was even better. he said to me "you said you were a virgin right"..so i said "you remember what happened the other night right?"..and he was like "yeah, we had sex"..so i guess he was asking to be reassured that i was a virgin before him? then we were doing it for a long time, and he was talking a lot more, and physically helping me out, and he constantly asked me if i was alright, and that i need to tell him when to stop or when it hurts. i was in a lot of pain, so he suggested taking the condom off to see if it felt any better, it felt a lot better and it was only for 2 seconds, but he did say to me "the only thing is..if we take the condom off you might have to give me head"..well..i didn't end up giving him head, because i didn't want to. that night he slept over again, and we had plans to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night, we hung out the whole night..and then he kissed me on the lips goodbye. we exchanged myspaces and aim screen names, and after the cruise he commented me right away. we had talked back and forth for awhile..and at one point i thought he was avoiding me..so i wrote him a letter saying if you don't write back then i know you don't want anything to do with me, but he did write back, so that showed me that he cared. i ended up surprising him and visiting him one day, and he was really happy to see me. he told me i need to call next time so we can hang out..and he wanted to make sure i was definitely still coming to college near him. we talked for awhile, and then i had to leave..so he kissed me on the lips goodbye, and wrote to me about a week later asking me how my trip was, and telling me to call him next time.

1.does it sound like he liked me a lot?
2.why would he ask me if i was a virgin when he knew i was already?
3.why did i need to give head if he didn't have a condom on?
4.do you think he was using me the first time? and then the second time he realized that he liked me a lot. but then why did he come back after the first time to lay with me?

2007-01-21 04:17:02 · 12 answers · asked by catalina r 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-21 04:16:55 · 4 answers · asked by snnfsnnf 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

its about to girls who are anemic they are best friends and they dont relises how sick they are until 1 dies

2007-01-21 04:16:30 · 3 answers · asked by SALLY C 1 in Friends

I blame those watching those Carry On film at an impressionable age, whats you views?

2007-01-21 04:16:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Women treat confident, healthy men like dirt, and run off with abusive, unfaithful "bad boys". Then after those women are damaged goods from their bad boy adventures, they decide that the good guys are okay.

Why do women act this way, and what makes them think that the good guys will settle for them now that they are messed up?

2007-01-21 04:14:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like any self-respecting chap-about-town, there is nothing I enjoy more of an evening than partaking in wagers. So far, I have lost my car and £56,000 on this sport of gentlemen, on wagers as diverse as 'how far can you run with a pig on your back' to 'how many rashers of bacon can you stuff up your nostrils'. It's all rather rummy fun, of course.
The dashed problem with all this merriment is that my betrothed sees this as detrimental to our relationship. It has got so absurd now that she is denying me my conjugal rights as long as I continue to make foolhardy bets. How can I set this young harridan straight?

2007-01-21 04:13:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she doesn't know that i like him, but i really do so if u could give some advice or anything that would help thank u xXxXx

2007-01-21 04:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy friend and i get on really well. Theres a lot of things he does that makes me wonder if he actually likes me more than a friend. I don't want to actually ask him yet incase i'm reading too much into it. He's 24 and has never mentioned girlfriends but does talk about girls but in a way as though to see my reaction. He's always wlling to do things for me, holdng doors open, doing extra work to help me etc, he walks me home if we work late and from days or nights out, he looks right at me while talking and kind of leans on doorways etc looking at me really nicely, he stands close to me a lot, he's always doing things with his mouth while he's talking either licking his lips, moving his tongue around and biting his lip, but also he like blames me for stuff and is kinda bossy, all jokingly but could even this be signs that he likes me? I've known him for nearly 8 months now, is it even too late for anything to happen?

2007-01-21 04:12:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married outdoors in early May.

Where I live, the weather in early May can vary wildly, so I'd like to have an "indoors" backup location to be on the safe side.

Since I'm paying $700 for the primary venue (a bed and breakfast), I definitely do NOT want to pay for the backup venue as well! There's a community center that rents out its chapel, private rooms, and kitchens for free near where I live, and I'd like to reserve some of those rooms in case of rain. The only problem is, the community center is a good 30-45 minute drive from the bed and breakfast!

Is this okay, or should I choose a closer backup? Also, if I should choose a closer backup, do you have any suggestions for where I might move the wedding if it rains without putting down more deposits?

2007-01-21 04:12:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok well i grew up in a blak family i was adopted im peurto rican and the school where i go to every body is black ok well some girls dont let me play with them cuze iam not black im all most there skin color light caramel but its just to girl who wont let me play rest of the people
are all cool and they treat me with respect and iam only 13

2007-01-21 04:11:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here we are spending quality time with family,and we go to a resturant to have bite to eat. My children are not hungry but I am. So I decided to turn to my spouse a say the kids are not hungry let's just go home,and I'll eat something there.So before I notice he boltz out of the resturant leaves us there,while he waits in the car.So he leaves me to deal with the waitress and tell we are sorry we change our minds thank goodness we did not order anything I feel like he let me down I was furious.What Do you think?

2007-01-21 04:11:05 · 23 answers · asked by sissyurban 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here in WI they consider $479/month for a married couple affordable! That is with a $2500 deductible!! It just doesn't make any sense to me. Can anyone tell me why the rates are so very UN-AFFORDABLE? One simply can't afford to get sick or maintain one's health...

2007-01-21 04:10:35 · 0 answers · asked by Reenie: Mom of Marine 6 in Family

I was wondering which type of bridal shower did/would you really enjoy and/or prefer?

An at home one with homemade food and decorations? Or at your a super fancy restaurant?

Thanks!:)

2007-01-21 04:09:11 · 31 answers · asked by auburnc 3 in Weddings

this person that the person i like likes, is one of my friends and she likes this other guy who asked her out

2007-01-21 04:08:26 · 3 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi:)

I am a 1st time MOH, actually 1st time being in a wedding in my adult life, and I was wondering does the MOH typically pay more into stuff (shower, bach. party, gifts, etc.) then the bridesmaids or is it normally spread out even?

Thanks!:)

2007-01-21 04:06:15 · 11 answers · asked by auburnc 3 in Weddings

When you make mistakes or they make mistakes do you feel it is easier for you to forgive the other person or is it easier to forgive yourself and ask them for forgiveness? I know we are not perfect but i would like to see feedback on this. Also do you feel it is important to forgive the other person and to ask for forgivenss... Why or why not? Do you feel better when you forgive and does it help heal you and your marriage when you do so?

2007-01-21 04:06:08 · 15 answers · asked by Lady Hewitt 6 in Marriage & Divorce

If you saw another man talking to a girl you were attracted to but couldn't be with right now, would you be jealous? If so, why?

2007-01-21 04:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Singles & Dating

i would just like to no what women prefcer to wear if they prefer normal granny pants g strings or thongs the most because its my girlfriends b day in 2 days and i wanted mto get her some lingerie and need help what to get her what ever you choose can you tell me why please thank you please help me i am useless lol

2007-01-21 04:04:20 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Say the word "p*ssy" while looking me in the face. She has said it to me with her head under the covers but even then it seemed unnatural. Is this common amongst the ladies?

2007-01-21 04:04:09 · 13 answers · asked by da_hammerhead 6 in Singles & Dating

women and gals pls answer.

2007-01-21 04:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating a man for almost 4 months. We've been living together for about 2. I told him from the very very beginning that I require complete openness and honesty in a relationship if there is to be ANY trust. I've told him everything important about me. Yesterday I came across paperwork that said he was the biological father of a girl. When I mentioned the name, first he tried to lie and say that was the name of the girl he slept with a long time ago. I said "why does it say you're the father then?" Well it turns out that girl he slept with had a kid and didn't tell him. Years later he found out and did a DNA test to determine if he was the father. He claims that before the kid could be tested, the kid and mother were both killed in hurricane Katrina. (Yet the legal document I saw said that it was determined by genetic evidence that he WAS the biological father). He doesn't think he should have had to tell me. What do you think? How can I ever trust him?

2007-01-21 04:03:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been dating "J" for 4 months, living with him for 3 of those 4. Before he lived with me he lived with another girl named "A". They had a relationship on and off throughout the 13 years they've known eachother. He even has a tattoo on his ring finger as she does also. Although they were never married. "J" and "A" still talk to eachother on the phone when I'm not around. I told "J" two months ago that I want to be around when he talks to her next. There should be no reason for him not to talk to her in front of me right? Well, apparently he is still talking with her. They contact eachother about once a week. It's always when I'm not around. I snooped and looked through his phone bill today. Seems he can't go 4 days wilthout calling. Do I tell him I snooped? How do I deal with this. I know he loves me, .... I'm just tired of it.

2007-01-21 04:03:45 · 13 answers · asked by flighty001100 2 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy who was my hook up buddy last semester and right before winter break he was calling me 5 times a day and telling me he was getting attached and that I was perfect and he missed me even though we saw each other at least once a day.
We were only apart for 3 weeks and that apparently is a lot of time because since he got back from winter break he's been acting completely different towards me, as if we were best friends and hasn't made the slightest move or gave me a signal that he wants to hook up. On top of that he will not shut up about how great was the sex he got back home and about trying to get with one of my friends. And then a few days ago I was hanging out with him and his friends and found out that he magically got a girlfriend over the break that he forgot to tell me about. And still in the same conversation he told his buddies not to ruin his chances with my friend and told me he is always trying to look after me. What is wrong with him???!!!!!

2007-01-21 04:02:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not really ready to date, but i like a guy and have no clue how to start talking to him. i'm painfully shy and he's not exactly outgoing. i sorta just want him to apparouch me. how do i get him to do that?

2007-01-21 04:01:58 · 10 answers · asked by Fire Dance 2 in Singles & Dating