If you saw another man talking to a girl you were attracted to but couldn't be with right now, would you be jealous? If so, why?
2007-01-21 04:05:28 · 14 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes,because it could possibly mean that he would advance with the woman before he had the chance and also if the man realy liked the woman its just unreal that any one could get what you want...something like that
2007-01-21 04:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by wayne_jarman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not really. If I can't actually be with the girl, that's really none of my business. I'm assuming you mean I'm with someone else at the time, or something like that? Just because you're attracted to someone doesn't give you rights over them. You have to have a bit of self-control.
Now if I was attracted to a girl, was free and she was talking to another guy, I might feel a bit jealous, but I'd keep it under wraps. You don't own people. I might try to join the conversation, actually, if it doesn't look intimate. Who knows? Might be a good moment to shine.
2007-01-21 12:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be more so jealous if I missed my chance to go after her, and then someone else asked her out. If i'm going out with someone, I dont pay attention to seeing other girls very much unless its a small relationship that has only lasted like a month, if it is still pretty much casual, or if the relationship is going really bad. For the most part, I cherish what I have, not what I could have or want.
2007-01-21 12:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Samiam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's jealousy. I think it's envy. Yes, that may sound crazy but it's true. We can't be jealous over something we can't have but we can envy someone when that person is spending some time talking or whatever with what we want.
I guess u can compare it to a friend winning the lottery. That's what you want but you can't have it and when you see your friend spending money like it's nothing, you would envy that because you wish it was you. That's kinda how I see it with the situation you talked about.
2007-01-21 12:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by Cliff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
me personaly, I would be jealous. but, I do believe the average guy would be. I guess the fear of having the girl startin a relationship with that guys instead of him. I personaly wouldnt be jealous, 'cause we're not even together yet. I might get a little sad but have no reason or rights to get upset about it.
2007-01-21 12:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I would be jealous. I am jealous at the fact that the other guy is with the girl I like and would really really wish to switch places with him.
2007-01-21 12:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can call that feeling to be jealous, but i think its little different than that, when i usually see the girl i am interested talking, having a good time with other man i feel a little inferior since it makes me feel i am not that good enough maybe that's why she is with him, it feels insecure and things like that but its not same when you are sure that girl loves you.
so you can say the ignorance about her feelings and insecurity inside give rise to those sort of feelings .
2007-01-21 12:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Kite man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldn't be jealous if someone took my girl. Is this a real question?
2007-01-21 12:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes - jealousy is not controllable
btw - jealousy doesn't make me more attracted to the girl, it hurts and makes me less attracted to her
2007-01-21 12:21:13 · answer #9 · answered by bl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean why?....you women know the meaninig of jelousy better than us...you ppl invented it...lol
2007-01-21 12:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋