sadies is comming up (for those of you who dont know its a dance where the girls ask the guys to it) and ive been really stressing about it. i really want to go/ask the guy i like. but i dont rly talk to him. yeah im in german with him, but im just really shy. ive been getting kind of depressed about sadies. i dont know what to do. i really want to go, and i cant go with just friends becuase all of my friends asked somebody/have been asked. so im just going to be sitting home alone, most likley crying the entire time.
2007-01-21 04:23:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thx guys, i found some friends that arent going to sadies, and were going to have a "im to cool for sadies party" lol
2007-01-22 10:10:25 · update #1
Whether or not you go to the dance is irrelevant. What matters most is how you decide to spend this time. If you prefer sitting home and crying about it, this will accomplish nothing and you will find yourself in this same situation in the future. Learn to be happy with yourself in any circumstance. Ask this guy if he wants to go with you, if not, ask someone else. Guys know this rule of dating....The more you ask, the more dates you will get.
The odds are in your favor the more you ask.
If you wait until the last minute, everyone will already have a date and you will be all alone. My advice is to make up your mind, one way or the other, either keep asking and go to the dance, or make some other plans and have fun either way.
Don't sit home and make yourself miserable. This accomplishes nothing. If you feel awkward about asking a guy out, you will get over this awkwardness simply by finding a guy, a good friend, and practicing with him. Practicing can help calm your nerves and your fear of rejection. Good Luck
2007-01-21 04:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a guy's opinion here, and an old fogey who knows them as Saidie Hawkins.
So ask him. How else will he ever know you are innerested. From a guy point of view it is always flattering that a girl would ask. And about being shy? Lots of guys are too. Nobody likes to put their heart on a sleeve and push it out there so someone can turn them down or mock them.
Winning is for those who dare to compete. Go girl!
2007-01-21 04:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by MarkLight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him. Maybe he will say yes! Even if he doesn't think of it as serious, you could still go as friends. If my boyfriend hadn't got the courage to ask me out, I would have never asked him, cause I was way to shy, and we would have been stuck in the 'just friends' stage forever. I loved him as a friend, and if I hadn't gotten to know him more, I may not love him now. Maybe the same will happen to you if you just pluck up the courage and ask.
2007-01-28 20:02:52 · answer #3 · answered by Yvette! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your shy but want to ask him then why not have a friend ask him for you? They can explain to him that your a little shy. I'm sure he will understand. Have fun
2007-01-21 04:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a chance and ask him...all he can do is say no and then you are no worse off than you are now...but if he says yes, then you have a date
Never be afraid to ask...as above, the worse that could happen is you get a no and that leaves you no worse off than you are before asking............ahhhh but what if you get a yes?
2007-01-21 04:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better hurry up and ask him, before it is too late. It isn't the end of the world if you don't get to go.
2007-01-21 04:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just suck it up and ask him..and if he says no then at least u tried..ask one of ur guy friends to go woth you as frinds...just dont stay home and sulk bc itll make things worse
2007-01-21 04:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by mostamazinggrlever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not ask him, maybe he is afraid to ask you. Believe in yourself. Try it once.
2007-01-21 04:31:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋