my bf and i have sex pretty much every night and while we r in school he pretends i am not his gf. we talk on the phone everynight and see each other pretty much every night.
what should i do?
is our relationship normal?
2007-01-21 04:28:52 · 22 answers · asked by still_looking_since_1991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no ur boyfriend is only using u to get into ur pants... Drop him like hes hot
2007-01-21 04:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by ladyfin236 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably doesn't want anyone to be all in you two's business so they can't mess up a good thing you two got going on some guys don't like for people to be in there relatioships or speading rumors on something they don't have nothing to do with which i see nothing wrong with that just keep doing you and maybe ask him what's really going to happen with you two cuz you need to know if it's going somewhere or are you just a quick piece of Always Satisfing Someone get what i mean (look at letters) yes your relatioship is normal everone goes through alittle something just to see if that is where we want to be. good luck keep your head up and just enjoy life, sex, happiness.
2007-01-29 10:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by MsDeelover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See, you guys are chatting over the phone every night and having sex as well. I think this is normal, maybe he doesn't want to talk to you in the school because he may be thinking that his mind may get distracted from studies. What i think is he want to complete his studies successfully and doesn't want to loose you too.
2007-01-29 08:30:41 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Stealth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your relationship isn't normal your bf shouldn't be acting like that because if he really love you he would let every1 know the bound between u 2 will never be broken. He shouldn't act like he isn't your bf unless he has another gurl or he just doesn't take ya relationship seriously he maybe only wants you because you maybe an easy target to get in bed wit him
2007-01-29 11:32:55 · answer #4 · answered by oreo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to know why he pretends at school that u r not his gf.Do u have a conservative environment at your school?If he doesn't want anyone to know about the relationship,probably he is using u for sex.U need to confront him..talk to him about it..but don't let him fool u.The relationship is not normal hun..and im sad to say it..but if things don't work out well after u talk to him about it..maybe u should move on.U have to be strong.Like i keep sayin..life is beautiful...don't waste it on someone who doesn't care about u.don't let someone disrespect u.good luck:)
2007-01-21 12:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... if he's not telling people at school that you guys aren't together as a couple, you should talk to him about it because it almost makes it look like he's using you or ashamed. If he still doesn't change, just break up with him. There's someone out there for you, who will make you feel much better than this jerk.
2007-01-21 12:35:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, this is not normal. I hate to say it but he maybe embarrassed about the relationship. I wouldn't have sex with him anymore and then see what happens.
2007-01-29 11:36:10 · answer #7 · answered by cute_devine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal if you're stupid enough. He's hiding his connection to you b/c he doesn't want anyone to know, probably b/c he thinks ppl will pick on him or b/c he likes some other girl better.
You're too young and too naive to handle a physical relationship. Knock it off.
2007-01-29 01:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Nonny D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend will not claim you in public, he's not your boyfriend. You are friends with benefits. He only wants sex. Leave him alone. Focus on school, you have the rest of your life to have sex.
2007-01-29 12:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by adondeesta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesen,t make sence at all,why do you guys pretent?i don,t think thats normal at all.if u love him tell him u don,t wanna pretend anylonger,it,s silly.don,t let anyone use u girl,get the facts and make a stand.
2007-01-29 11:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it's normal for a shy guy to be shy at school and be open to you when the both of you are alone.
2007-01-21 12:33:51 · answer #11 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋