Family & Relationships - 9 January 2007

Okay, I didnt get many answers to this, which i asked last time so im trying again! I am 20 years old, I've had 1 boyfriend that lasted 2 months. I've made out with 44 guys, gone all the way with 2 of those, and just done stuff (more than making out) with like 8 of them. Is that slutty? And should i tell a guy that I would want to be in a serious relationship about this? Thanks.

2007-01-09 18:17:30 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend met a guy in a chatroom and now her life revolves around him. When I call her she comes up with an excuse to hang up on me then I find out she's talking to him! He's 8 years older than her and everytime I say something about it, she blows up in my face.(she's 12 btw) She's constantly talking about him and whenever I say something about a guy I like she tells me that she doesn't want to hear about it. I feel extremely left out and I'm really worried about her. I can't ever find the right words to say to get through to her that she needs to come back to earth. Can someone help me?

2007-01-09 18:17:20 · 4 answers · asked by .SaMaNtHa. . 1 in Friends

2007-01-09 18:17:19 · 10 answers · asked by jamielee1205 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I were recently arguing about love and such, he old me that he hopes that if we don't work out I find someone that I am crazy about but they don't want anything to do with me and it breaks my heart. Fyi that is how he says I am with him but he is just really sensitive. Anyhow I replied with that it would never happen because I will never be so attached to anyone where I feel that my life can not go on. I think that life goes on and just because this one thing did not work out doens't mean that my life is over, it may hurt but the world is not going to fall off of it's axis. He said this means that I will never truly love someone. I think my view is very realistic... Opinions

2007-01-09 18:15:05 · 12 answers · asked by nena b 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hello, I am 17 years old....and i really havent had any kind of girlfriend....well anywayi have been talking to this girl that i really like, and i think she likes me, but i dont know....I was just woundering what should i say next time we talk??? i dont want to run into things to fast....and how can i tell if shes flirting with me ETC. ...well thanks for all your responces.....

2007-01-09 18:13:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 21, ive known my boyfriend for 7 yrs, i dated him for a year those 7 years ago, im pregnant with his kid, hes abusive and says that im not responsible or considerate, any i try not to do anything to step on his toes. before you say that you should just leave him, i live 4 hours away from anyone i can go to, i work full time and have a management position at my job. my money is direct deposit into the bank (we have a joint account) and i have no car (i drive his) i have friends that can go to, but id have to give up so much...what to i do?!

2007-01-09 18:11:54 · 16 answers · asked by blu3_p1x1_st1x 2 in Singles & Dating

i was 21 then. i am married for 2 nd half years. I am still a virgin. initially i was not ready for sex since i wanted to know my husband first. but later i was open to it. i had liked him but had a feeling tht even though he says he loves me i have never sensed. today after presurising he comes and tells me tht he had an affair with another girl be4 marriage. and the girl had said never to call her again. my husband says even after marriage for some 8 months he was not able to come out of the hatred feeling on her(since he felt cheated) and tht is why he was never able to get close with me. throughout the marriage i have felt tht he never sharedwith me or even when i shared things with him he was least intered in listening to it. but even after marriage there have been occasions where they have exchanged sms or thought of gifting.he now says tht he has changed and from today he ll only love me and tht i shd hve confidence in him. can i trust this person who never had me in his heart.

2007-01-09 18:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by tomnjerry2007 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-09 18:10:06 · 17 answers · asked by ableman38 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been left in the darkness,
No one can see.
See the pain devouring me.

Then I hope that one day,
One day soon,
I will be strong enough to pull through.

You look at me,
But all you see,
All you see is what I can't be.

There is more,
More to me than you see,
I am dieing inside.

My soul darkens,
My heart weeps.
I have no hope.

I have been disowned.
Misled.
Hurt and broken.

No one has discovered me,
No one looks at me.

I am alone in this world,
Becasue these people choose not to see,
See the real me.

2007-01-09 18:10:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your husband had a foot fetish....would you accomodate him? regardless of how you felt about it....would you be ok letting him do what he wanted??

2007-01-09 18:09:57 · 19 answers · asked by micg70 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i fell for a guy that is married but getting a divorce he is twice my age and we work together.right now i dont want a relationship with him i just want to have fun because i am too young to settle down now.but i am scared if his divorce comes thru he might want a relationship.

2007-01-09 18:09:31 · 12 answers · asked by laylee 1 in Singles & Dating

but he claimes that hes just parting with her but he has had sex with her but i told him that i was seeing somone just to have space and then boom i get lonley and he makes me fel good for a minute then he leaves and then its that

2007-01-09 18:07:29 · 2 answers · asked by lillleo29 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I started seeing my now girlfriend in July2006, I was already in a relationship that had been going on for 15 years on and off. I lied to her because I thought that if I told the truth I would not get a chance to know her. One day my girlfriend of 15 years called my new girlfriend and told her everything about us, even the fact that we live together. Needless to say, I was put out of my house that day. I really didn't care because I was unhappy in that relationship anyway. My now girlfriend forgave me and allowed me to move in with her. Now she is telling me that I am too lazy since I won't water the grass every single day, or make the bed in the morning, or basically jump when she says jump. I never had to do those things with my first girlfriend and I am not going to start now. Now since I refuse to do things her way, she wants me to move out. I don't think that she ever forgave me for what I did like she said she did. She even refuses to continue washing my clothes.

2007-01-09 18:07:18 · 7 answers · asked by david t 1 in Singles & Dating

if a guy that you've seen before but never talked to you askes you out?

2007-01-09 18:06:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've seen some guys try to play it off like they are talking with somebody else, when everyone knows who it is they are talking too. Then there are the whiperers, who try to talk the mushy stuff low, they think noones else is listening everyone hears everything though. What about those guys who check in every 10 minutes, jesus christ bro break the chains! Then there's the dreaded end of the conversation.

Guy: "ok hon I'm gonna let you go now the guys are waiting"
Girl: "I love you"
Guy: "uh-huh, I"ll see you later"
Girl: "what kind of a response is that, I"m not hanging up until you say it"
Guy:"c'mon hon, I'm with the guys"
Girl: "YOU BETTER NOT HANG UP WITHOUT SAYING IT!"
Guy's friends: "Dude tell her you lover her already and get back over here, don't forget to pick up your balls from the floor"
Guy (whispering)" I love you snuggles"
Girl: "awwww"
Guy (back with his friends): "yeah that was steve I was talking too"
friends: "yeah ok snuggles"

lol

2007-01-09 18:05:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who is dating a 19 year-old girl (my friend is 33). About 6 months ago they moved from Wyoming back to our home town and they were living with his mom at first. Turns out the girlfriend is a lazy bum. She wouldn't get a job and even snubbed a job my friend's mom hooked her up with. My friend's mom wound up kicking them out because the girlfriend was just a lazy slob. Last I heard they were living out of a motel. Every time I've tried to contact him in the last few months I just get his voice mail and never hear back.

My question is how far do I let it go before telling him to get his head together and realize the girl is dragging him down. Or do I just wait until he figures it out on his own and be there while he mopes in his beer.

I'm always the one who says "stay out of it" when it comes to getting between a friend and his girl, but there has to be a point where it's gone too far.

2007-01-09 18:04:39 · 1 answers · asked by Justin H 7 in Singles & Dating

My g/f is pregenant and the baby isnt mine but we've been dating since she found out?
long story short, i just got out of engagement, and she wanted to be with me, but i told her i wasnt ready. she got with this guy then when i realized that i was ready to have a relationship again she dumped him for me, but not even dating for 2 weeks and she finds out shes preganent. the baby's father doesnt really come around, ive been supportive since day one, and want to help her raise her babygirl. even though she's not mine, i feel like she is cause ive been here since day one. besides her i was the first one to feel the baby kick, ive been picking out names, ive been doing the shopping, and planning with her, not the baby's father. she is now 8 months. but i dont know if she wants me to be "involved" as much as i would like to be, and its an uncomfortable topic to talk about, i want to know, what i should do. we've only been together for 7 months. i want to raise her like she is my own, but im afraid to ask. what should i do?

2007-01-09 18:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yo I don't wanna hurt the playa, but his game is starting to stink y'no mean?

2007-01-09 18:02:36 · 6 answers · asked by P.T 1 in Friends

I like to dress "regular" - short sleeve tee, jeans etc, also grubby, ya know, big baggy hoody and "fat pants" and i also keep stuff in the closet for nice occasions, like nice semi-formal dinner dates, (mock neck zip up sweater over a blood-red front button long sleeve) and very formal events (downtown office meetings, etc. in a business suit). NOW.......can a guy do this without his girl being like "ok.....metro to cas. to slub"

I mean, i like a girl that can dress up nice and grub down, but does the same go for girls thinking about guys? do girls prefer a guy to be "just preppy" or "just casual"?

2007-01-09 18:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been left in the darkness,
No one can see.
See the pain devouring me.

Then I hope that one day,
One day soon,
I will be strong enough to pull through.

You look at me,
But all you see,
All you see is what I can't be.

There is more,
More to me than you see,
I am dieing inside.

My soul darkens,
My heart weeps.
I have no hope.

I have been disowned.
Misled.
Hurt and broken.

No one has discovered me,
No one looks at me.

I am alone in this world,
Becasue these people choose not to see,
See the real me.

2007-01-09 17:59:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my gf and i have been going out for 2 years, we always fight she swears at me, tells me to get f***, and F*** off if i dont agree what she is saying?? i aint perfect, but she is always saying how i dont treat her right but i treat her really good honest, i never swear at her, would never cheat, i love her to bits..... why does she yell and swear at me?? is it right for a gf to do that? or is it my fault she yells and swears at me?? help me

2007-01-09 17:59:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband hardley ever wants to sleep with me (this has been an issue since we first got together and i asked if i was just bad at it and he said no. hes a very honest person and i know he would tell me) he always wants to play his game or be on the computer. when he does spend time with me he wants me to give him a massage or pluck his eyebrows, pop his zits. Pamper him basically...he always tells me how much he loves me and he always tells me im so beautiful so i dont think its an attraction issue...what the hell? We;ve talked about it all and he doesnt know why he does it...I dunno...im frustrated

2007-01-09 17:59:12 · 3 answers · asked by imakulaff2 2 in Singles & Dating

well my friends were gossiping...and then ran off and left me so i decided to go hang with the guys. It was a blast! we played football and i had a lot of fun. then i felt like someone was atching me so i looked over and saw my (close) friends wispering, standing there talking. they saw me look and all i did was smile and they got SO mad. i could tell they were jealous just because i was playing with there crush. lol and the most special part it is the guy that i like was flirting with me so i could tell they got even more mad though. ahhh those were the minutes!

2007-01-09 17:57:59 · 6 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Friends

He knows I am a mature, modest, and conservative girl....and a Christian so I am not going to sleep with him....he know that but he likes me and he smokes pot and is very liberal about sex and all of that.....so why does he still like me and want to have a relationship when he knows I wont put out?

2007-01-09 17:57:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...from a BF, DH or other...eg: neighbors wife attracted to my bf, and said bf denies anything, yet says "maybe she's testing you". I need help with this one....

2007-01-09 17:55:36 · 10 answers · asked by annie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So here is the deal---there is a guy that likes me and asked me out a while ago and I said no be we are still good friends, he has a friend who has a huge crush on me (he carries my books to class, asks who I am, and cute stuff like that) but he does not jump on it (ask me out or anything) but I dont like him. And both of the guys have a good friend that I like, it seems like he likes me back but does not do anything about it.

So is there like a rule that you can not ask a girl out that you best friend likes and asked out?
Is it ok if I make the first move telling this guy I like him?

2007-01-09 17:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

really who cares ? i hit my girlfriend all the time and she never left me so why does it matter to anyone else ? sometimes i even think she might like it, but i doubt it cause she seems to cry alot after. But whatever i get off on it!!

2007-01-09 17:54:22 · 30 answers · asked by Benjie 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with this man for 8 yrs and we've been staying together for 5 yrs,when i meet him he was nothing and know he have everything even a house i made him to buy a house.and we have a 3 year old girl together.he is bad mouthing me to his family that his not gonna marry me until i change my attitude he says that i have a bad attitude i'm abusing him emotional and if he marys me his life will be mirisable.

2007-01-09 17:53:52 · 3 answers · asked by zoleka k 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has his playstation online, last night this chick on the game he was playing asked him to talk, and apparently he has been talking to her for a while, as friend. So why is he calling her hun etc, when he does not even say that to me? I asked him about it and he got all worked up, and go rel mad at me. Should I be worried?

2007-01-09 17:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by mizz0wl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-09 17:50:41 · 18 answers · asked by anna4ru 1 in Marriage & Divorce